Posted: 19 April 2016 at 11:30pm | IP Logged
Interesting topic of discussion here & kinda controversial
never mind.,i love it...So my two cents
I too felt that Sumo was going really hard at Shravan about her mother's name getting tarnished and stuff,coz Shravan is a very very good friend who has left everything to help her out.He is doing his very bestest here and what he gets in return is (nateeja counts not iraada
..huh,really?)Lady,the Bhagvad Gita told me the opposite,effort counts not results
.Suman's only show of gratitude here is a "Thank u soo much".When that is all she can show in gratitude,then her criticism should be as (non) existent too.
But this story and the characters are not so simple.(or so I think ).So let us look at the other side.For one,a man like Shravan(shown to be high on ego,will power and self respect) is not hurt by this statement of Sumo's.In other other words,he wants to rectify(what he sees) as his mistake,but he is not miffed at her for showing(what we perceive) as lack of gratitude.In a somewhat similar situation a few weeks ago,Mr Big Ben insulted our lovely Suman wilfully and intentionally in a party after heavy planning.Though Sumo was upset about this for sometime,now she seems to have moved on.If I had been in her place,I would have taken years to get over such an insult.Agreed that the minar of Delhi is helping her out in a near life or death case,but to forget an insult like that takes a huge extra effort(maybe she has just put it in cold storage,it may resurface at the opportune moment)
So to cut a long story short:I have one of two conclusions..choose your pick
1) Sumo darling apparently has a big big big heart or has partial amnesia(likely the latter).
Our handsome hunk Shravan suffers from split personality disorder.That is why he hurts her so badly on one hand and then comes running to rescue the damsel in distress.
2)The two are so close to each other that they find it comfortable to voice their deepest feelings and bare all their vulnerabilites to each other.They know that come what may,the other person will understand. Shravan hurts Suman(party mein),but deep down he knows that this may offend her temporarily but will never make her move away from him fully.He knows that she will eventually understand and come through. Suman chides him telling him that his best effort is just not enough,but she knows that he will understand where she is coming from.After all we bare our deepest thoughts,insecurities and feelings only to the person we completely trust.The two feel comfortable enough to say anything anytime to each other.They know their relationship is secure and is forever.(such relationships do exist but are very very very rare).