Double Standards - Page 6

Originally posted by: spnfan

How can you be so sure that its gonna be like that... 80%of The viewers thought shravan agreed to marry urvashi and we bashed him left right and center till the next episode aired... Also this is a finite series and it wont stretch for long...

Sumo is up to a level is selfish and arrogant esp with shravan... That is her characterization... She herself admitted thay there is nothing more important than.her mother tp her... Suman is not perfect and shravan loves her with her flaws... He knows how to handle her...

When.there is an arrogant mcp ML is shows girls go gaa gaa over him and his one good deed is more than enough to cover or forget his all bad deeds but when a FL with flaws is shown she is not worth for the ML... Thats a double standard... Suman dont need to be mahaan to be worth of shravan.. Shravan lived his life making sumo his center.. Its not the same for sumo.. She had other problems.. She had to prove herself to her own.family.. Except for rejection from sumo and his mother shravan had a luxurious life with an.over loving dad... His Mom and sumo were absent from his life but sumo had her family memebers with her to taunt her each day... Life was more difficult for her which made her hard.. She dont show her concern or love thay easily.. That doesnot mean she dont care about shravan.. Its not necessary that all the FL need to be lovey dovey as soon as the ML comes near... Its perfectly fine to have an emotionally constipated FL... 

First plz dont generalize. Assholes r assholes be it hot hero or cute heroine. If u r trying 2 imply tat i swoon over a ML who is an arrogant jerk then sorry i dont. I ve ASR on my DP but i always found him a stupid male lead with 0 IQ. Funny part is they showed him running a big business but my kid has higher IQ than that character 😲 But i liked Barun's portrayal of ASR & hence the DP 😆

I am gng 2 try & stop posting bt the FL anymore coz the discussions dont go anywhere 😆 Lets c how long i stick 2 my resolution. Mayb until the next time Suman starts screaming & screeching like a Banshee. You can imagine how much the CVs ve ruined the character when i tell u that my 70 yr mom, 38 yr old hubby & 6.5 yr old kid were all like y is this female screaming non-stop like tis. There is grime, wipe it & move on... A scene which the CVs wanted 2 use as a symbolism that her mom's name is now sullied & tarnished & Suman is trying to wipe away that Kalank got reduced into an OTT shouting contest, DUH! Instead if the CVs had merely shown Suman walk silently to the board, wipe the dust off with her dupatta & whisper softly "Mom i will not let any1 tarnish ur name. I will fight till the end even if no1 is there to support me, till my last breath" Now that w'd ve been a poignant scene which w'd left all the viewers with a lump in their throat.

Instead they show this female again screaming at every1, haath thod doongi, pair thod doongi & reduced the entire scene into a tamasha making the viewers roll their eyes & do a facepalm. Hope now u understand the diff bet showing a strong FL & a neurotic FL. CVs of Indian shows never get these nuances & hence v r stuck with stupid Saas-Bahu shows Thats why low TRPs & show getting cancelled!

Originally posted by: Angels11

First plz dont generalize. Assholes r assholes be it hot hero or cute heroine. If u r trying 2 imply tat i swoon over a ML who is an arrogant jerk then sorry i dont. I ve ASR on my DP but i always found him a stupid male lead with 0 IQ. Funny part is they showed him running a big business but my kid has higher IQ than that character 😲 But i liked Barun's portrayal of ASR & hence the DP 😆

I am gng 2 try & stop posting bt the FL anymore coz the discussions dont go anywhere 😆 Lets c how long i stick 2 my resolution. Mayb until the next time Suman starts screaming & screeching like a Banshee. You can imagine how much the CVs ve ruined the character when i tell u that my 70 yr mom, 38 yr old hubby & 6.5 yr old kid were all like y is this female screaming non-stop like tis. There is grime, wipe it & move on... A scene which the CVs wanted 2 use as a symbolism that her mom's name is now sullied & tarnished & Suman is trying to wipe away that Kalank got reduced into an OTT shouting contest, DUH! Instead if the CVs had merely shown Suman walk silently to the board, wipe the dust off with her dupatta & whisper softly "Mom i will not let any1 tarnish ur name. I will fight till the end even if no1 is there to support me, till my last breath" Now that w'd ve been a poignant scene which w'd left all the viewers with a lump in their throat.

Instead they show this female again screaming at every1, haath thod doongi, pair thod doongi & reduced the entire scene into a tamasha making the viewers roll their eyes & do a facepalm. Hope now u understand the diff bet showing a strong FL & a neurotic FL. CVs of Indian shows never get these nuances & hence v r stuck with stupid Saas-Bahu shows Thats why low TRPs & show getting cancelled!

Edited by spnfan - 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Angels11

Thanks for ur views.

The prob tat not just me but many other viewers r having with the show is non-fans like us r unable 2 relate with Suman. Since she always over reacts to situations the feeling of empathy that the CVs want to evoke in the audience is sadly missing. Thats why i ve been saying repeatedly frm the beginning of the show that the CVs need to work on her character. We as audience r unable to feel her pain & tears. The FB in her old house was 1 of the best episode. I was able 2 feel the pain of a 6 yr old kid & hence that episode worked. Unfortunately thats a 1 off case. Most of the times she comes across as an ungrateful brat who takes others for granted. Some like u may b v patient & kind by nature. But most of the normal ppl like me r unable to like this characterization. So her tears dont move us. Sometimes it does but most of the times it doesnt & that is the loss for the show coz then it ll b unable to attract genuine viewers like me. The show has a beautiful theme but its execution off late has left much to b desired. For eg she shared her disappointment with Shravan which was fine. What was the need to cold shoulder him & ignore his calls. Its acts like these which r alienating viewers like me frm the show coz its becoming v 1 sided. As i said most of the ppl dont like 1 side love or friendship & tats y i gave the eg of KKHH. There was a warm give & take bet the 2 characters. Here its all GIVE GIVE GIVE. Even in this track CVs c'd ve sneaked in a few nuances. Like Shravan working non-stop on the case & Suman bullying him to eat. At least it ll b balanced. But no even then they had 2 show only Shravan being concerned bt her. Once this track ends again they ll show something where Suman yells, Shravan retreats, Suman cries needs help, Shravan runs & the cycle begins. We have waited for a long time now. If they still dont show Suman showing any care or empathy for her friend then I am sorry I officially give up on the show.

Originally posted by: Sanika.

@bold- If that is a dig at me and my friends, leave them out of it. I will not tolerate it.They have done nothing.  If not, then ignore, I am sorry.

You are free to post your thoughts and criticism, but frankly speaking, if you call half the fandom 'kids', it not my fault for whatever replies you get.
I am sorry that people have stopped watching this show in your office, to each his own I guess.
Have some patience before lashing out is what I want to say. Give time for the CV's to create some problems for Shravan before "Suman is his pillar of support." 
Give them time to be on "equal terms."

Good night😊