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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 2:11am | IP Logged
Yes Anandi is so selfish and didn't care about her parents.She disobeyed Dsa when her parents were being troubled by Dsa's BIL simply because she wanted to go against Dsa Tongue
This is the same Anandi willing to work as a daily wage labourer to help her parents 

Anandi is very selfish indeed.She never cared for her poor parents but instead cared only about the rich Dsa and all the goodies. 

Nandini's wishes to live with her real mother is a sign of her greed but Mangala's disregard for the child's wishes and well being is all her love for that child.

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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 2:20am | IP Logged
Yes, DS would have become mahan had J lit the pyre. Good writer answered what Anandi meant to DS

Thank God in ladesar's love DS didnt forgot the days when their ladesar left them and was ashamed of themBig smile

Whenever someone does anything against Anandi , they are good and any decision which goes in favor of Anandi makes Anandi selfish

loving the frustrationBig smileLOL

I always wanted Anandi to become selfish.Star But it will never happen.

Why slapping M , she should have kicked her very first dayDead

If N cares for M , she is great, else she is mean, selfish, wah!!LOL

Anandi never cared for Bhago, then Sumi bhairon didnt care for DSOuch

Things changes as it suits people w.r.t. Anandi

It shows how important she is . Hey about to touch page no. 10, Before dying also she is a topic to discuss

loving it

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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 2:20am | IP Logged
40 plus years of Anandi's life and only one example to support that Anandi cared for her parents?That too when she was a little child herself and didn't really like Dsa? 

And why wouldn't anyone call her selfish? Just as Nimboli left Mangala to die, Anandi left Bhago to die.

One can still somewhat understand Nimboli's actions and her anger at Mangala (and still not the hatred), but what was Anandi punishing Bhago for? Her poverty?


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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 2:32am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Missesha

40 plus years of Anandi's life and only one example to support that Anandi cared for her parents?That too when she was a little child herself and didn't really like Dsa? 

And why wouldn't anyone call her selfish? Just as Nimboli left Mangala to die, Anandi left Bhago to die.

One can still somewhat under Nimboli's actions and her anger at Mangala (and still not the hatred), but what was Anandi punishing Bhago for? Her poverty?

In that example - DS had sent Anandi to her parents' home - she did not left BH on her own to help parents even at that time - but yes - little Anandi did remembered her parents and cared for them. It was adult Anandi that forgot all about her parents. After becoming adult - she once helped  Khajan when he was unwell. Otherwise - she never ever remembered that she had parents other than BH people.  

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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 2:34am | IP Logged

Why?  didnt they show one whole track how Anandi Shiv took care of Khajan?

Why it is so difficult to accept and why it is assumed that the girl who does everything for others will not take care of her parents?

Just the way Sumi Bhaion never cared to call up or turn up for their bhaisa and Masa , even after their death, the actress bhago was busy doing bhoot serial.

They were not necessary for story line, only when Shiv track started they wanted to show Bhago EBeing her , they brought the actress for one two episodes.

just the way Mannu and Abhi are gayeb from DS's funeral ( I hope it is not assumed that A has locked them in kaal khotri)

Who said Anandi is punishing Bhago , when it was shown. They didnt have any telephone. She used to call up Khajan and khajan told all is well.

Infact it was shown Bhago said she didnt want to come in front of her as seeing her A will be more heart broken


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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 2:37am | IP Logged
Not really interested in getting into discussions on the same old topics which have been discussed over years in the forum, but if Anandi refused to return to her parents after her balak var abandoned her, it was because the society which she lived in believed that a girl returning to her parents after her husband leaves her is a shameful thing for the girl and her parents. The belief was forced onto her by her own parents at one point of time and she was not able to oppose it as she didn't have enough exposure in life.

The same selfish and mean Anandi, after she had the freedom to take decision about the fate of her parents while she was in her second sasural, made sure that Khajan is not left alone when he needed support. Alas, Bhago was not alive by that time..

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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 2:42am | IP Logged
Anandi brought her sick father and she cared for him for many days along with Shiv.
I remember how Khajan wanted to showoff to dadisa by resorting to illegal means for a brief period.

Nandini went to her biological mother and it was Mangala who made lies about her mother which resulted in Nandini becoming hateful towards her. Mangala dug her own grave.

It was anandi's goodness or weakness that made Mangala play with Nandini.

Mangala is the worst possible person and snatcher and compared to her other snatchers look mildly bad. Other snatchers did not pour poison into ears.

Anandi and Nandini were forced into that situation by Mangala.

If there is one character who I think is an extreme example of negativity, its Mangala. Her cunning smile, her shifty eyes.

One thing is for sure. Mangala's negativity has grown many branches because of the weakness or goodness of anandi. Thats what rankled me most about anandi. I wanted to see both of them dead for making Nandini's life neither here nor there.


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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 2:46am | IP Logged
Originally posted by russhmeSS

Not really interested in getting into discussions on the same old topics which have been discussed over years in the forum, but if Anandi refused to return to her parents after her balak var abandoned her, it was because the society which she lived in believed that a girl returning to her parents after her husband leaves her is a shameful thing for the girl and her parents. The belief was forced onto her by her own parents at one point of time and she was not able to oppose it as she didn't have enough exposure in life.

The same selfish and mean Anandi, after she had the freedom to take decision about the fate of her parents while she was in her second sasural, made sure that Khajan is not left alone when he needed support. Alas, Bhago was not alive by that time..


No Rushmee, there is a reason for this discussion of the same old topic.

Actually we love Anandi a lot.

We want to see every details of her life.

How much time she is devoting to think about Bhago, How much time for Khajan. How much time she is missing Shiv, how much time she cried for Nandini. How much time is being spent to search Nandini,How much time for DS. Those are measuring criteria for her

But CVs are actually too mean, instead of showing Anandi, in her name, they are selling the brand name Anandi and showing nonsense of other characters.

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