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Good episode Farewell to dadisa (Page 7)

leavesandwaves IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 18 April 2016 at 11:34pm | IP Logged
And dadisa who is perceived to be interfering in anandi's life. And why anandi interfered so much that she forgot Jagya and Ganga who are the legitimate and deserving ones.

I always rooted that Nandini should be with anandi once the truth was out. I always wanted Khajan to play a role in anandi's life instead of dadisa.

Mangala, dadisa, anandi are all snatchers. They snatch the legitimate ones'  rights citing so many reasons.

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Posted: 18 April 2016 at 11:44pm | IP Logged
Till now I have not said anything about Anandi lighting the pyre. Does she have the right to light the pyre?The answer is yes. Why she is lighting the pyre instead of J?I don'tknow.
Till the episode is aired and why they decided Anandi should light the pyre I am not going to say anything. 

What struck me most was what Dsa was telling the kids,Ganga and Anandi. 
She was telling G  to take care of the kid who still resides inside J asked the kids to remember their great grandmother while she told Anandi that she wished that Anandi would be born as her daughter in the next life. Don't know if Dsa had this premonition that Anandi will follow her soon or what. Why she was talking about next life to Anandi while she was telling the rest what she wanted them to do in this life?

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SPuja IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 12:02am | IP Logged
What DS told to Anandi can't be related to Anandi's death soon after DS's death. Had DS wished Anandi to be born as her twin - it could mean that she had premonition that Anandi will die soon. Anandi can die more than 20 years later to be born as daughter of DS in next life Tongue. A lot of things are just added in serial without justification - why DS didn't remember her real great grandsons? Why she didn't wish them to remember her?

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aparnauma IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 12:19am | IP Logged
Dsa died while trying to save Anandi from Akheraj.Dsa did a lot for Anandi before that too. 
Soon after she was hit by the bullet what Dsa said was now they are related by blood too.

Going by the logic that Mangala is mother to Anandi's child because she saved that child from Akheraj's sword and looked after twelve years that makes Dsa also Anandi's mother.
She would have been alive if she had not taken that bullet meant for Anandi.In doing so Dsa gave Anandi a new lease of life.Going by the forum logics that makes Anandi a daughter of Dsa too.

That puts her in the same league as Jagya as far as their relationship with Dsa is concerned. 

Don't know why but I think Dsa had a premonition about Anandi's end.

The relationship between Dsa and Ladesar is a natural relationship which comes with marriage and bearing children.While the relationship between Anandi and Dsa is a relationship built over a life time with lot of love dedication trust and respect. Both these relationships have equal weightage.

For Dsa Anandi and Jagya are the same and it goes for her great grand children too. 

If Dsa wanted to deck up in order to meet her husband why should she be faulted for wanting to dress up as a Suhagan?She was doing it for her husband.She respected the rules while she was in this world and it is her belief that she will be meeting her husband in the other world so it was her way of showing love to her husband.

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leavesandwaves IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 12:55am | IP Logged
I think CVs just wanted to show it is not the walls of BH but it is the heart of BH that drew anandi close to them. Though I had some reservations, I loved dadisa on her last journey and anandi's silent tears. Akheraj did a favour to anandi by killing her after he killed dadisa.
Probably Jagya may take care of the kids. He may take them abroad and there Nandini would have become a doctor.

Edited by leavesandwaves - 19 April 2016 at 12:56am

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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 12:57am | IP Logged
What a funny logic? Since Dsa saved Anandi, now Anandi becomes Dsa's daughter from being a granddaughter?LOL

The relationship remains to be what it is. Just as Mangala could not be become Nandini's mother, because Nandini had a specific place where she belonged to. Similarly,  Anandi too has specific place where she belongs to ( the one by law is with Shekhar Parivaar), and Jagya too belongs specifically to BH and Singh parivaa

So while Anandi and Dsa may love each other in abundance,  neither Anandi can become beta of BH, and nor Jagya's place will be lessened.

Edited by Missesha - 19 April 2016 at 12:58am

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leavesandwaves IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 1:06am | IP Logged
I think CVs gave answers to all those who were questioning who is anandi to BH?

If dadisa is the queen of BH, then anandi is her pet. Anandi was always there for her unconditionally.

Jagya and Ganga were big hearted to accept this and they were gracious enough not to create a ruckus over rights. Kudos to them as well.

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hisusmita IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 1:11am | IP Logged
The episode has not aired as yet. We dont know what has happened and as usual anandi glorification and blah blah

Ofcourse it is her story.

DS and Jagyas bond is by default Grand mother and grandson's bond, related by blood . She will love him and he will love her. That is very natural.

What is abnormal was Jagya's behaviour during Gouri's phase.

So after death he will lit the pyre, that is common thing.BV has shown unique things , so they may break the regular norm and show A doing that.

 DS knows and loves both Anandi and Jagya equally.  She has seen how Anandi was with them when their son was ashamed to disclose his identity in his college.It was DS who told A to file case against J but A didnt do that.

When Jagya sold the locket and DS got it back she gave it to Anandi.

It is Anandi who returned DS the locket when Jagya changed.

So , since then Anandi was beti /beta of the house.

Who is Anandi, who is who , people may question thousand things

But this serial is about kachhe umar ke pakke rishtey .

To show that they may show Anandi lighting DS's pyre

Why she cant do that. Like Jagya she too has every right to do that.

Now we dont know what exactly happened . Was it DS's last wish, was J told Anandi or anything else.

Who ever does it both are equally deserving and DS has the guts to show even if not related by blood A is no less than anyone in that house. It was believed if pota does that you will go to heaven. She has the guts to break the belief and listen what her heart says.

Her dying wish to have A as her daughter in next birth says it all.

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