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Mehek134 Senior Member

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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 1:45pm | IP Logged
If Anandi has as much rights on Dadisaa as Jagya has why she is being over glorified ?
Anandi alone  has decked up Dadisaa why Ganga does not deserve any share it ?Didn't Ganga love Dadisaa?Hasn't she done anything for Dadisaa? Ganga has performed every duty of the daughter in law whole heartedly and she even risked her life to fulfill Dadisaa's wish and first word she said when Abhi was born and she saw him for the first time she said ''Dadisaa ''Why such loving grand daughter in law does not deserve to decorate her grand mother in law whom she loved more than her life , whose wishes were above her life for her why she cannot decorate her grand mother in law for the last time along with Anandi?No one has said why Anandi is doing that but people are questioning cvs why they did not make Ganga do that also ?

No one has asked why Nandini and shivam are shown on Dadisaa's funeral people are asking why abhi and mannu are not shown ?what excuse cvs have for this 

Giving fire to his Dadisaa's pyre is Jagya's right why he is not given that ? Anandi has got her right as daughter  she dressed up Dadisaa for her last journey but giving fire to Dadisaa's pyre is Jagya's right why he is not given his right ?if people are mad at cvs for this They are right 

As far as some people busy demeaning Jagya I don't know what less Jagya has done for Dadisaa than a good grandson ? He was always there for her even in Gauri's phase It was his love for his family that Gauri could not digest because she hated his family and was vengeful against them  Dadisaa could not move even two steps when Basant died and Bhairon was too not with her She was shattered badly It was not Anandi who supported Dadisaa then it was Jagya who was standing as pillar of support with her Jagya has always been with Dadisaa in all ups and downs of her life as pillar of support for her He took her to school holding her finger and educated her  when she depressed for her chidkali when shiv died Jagya gave her emotional support thats how she was able to support Anandi  Jagya has not kept Anandi in BH for his personal interest but he has never objected his Dadisaa 's wish she wants to stay with Anandi in BH . Dadisaa cries buckets in front of Jagya for Anandi's problems and expects Jagya to solve them and he has never replied  her back why i should ?How much love , respect he has in his heart for Dadisaa people here devaluing that just to glorify Anandi indeed left a bad taste in mouth and so is cvs giving everything to Anandi even Jagya's rights

Blood relations are gift of God They have their own place People should not devalue blood relations saying they are by default or just natural nothing more They are actually a  blessing and Dadisaa is an extremely lucky lady all children from her blood line love her immensely Its another thing cvs does not want to acknowledge their love for Dadisaa in blind obsession for Anandi 

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Hina- IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 2:23pm | IP Logged
Very funny how some people are themselves busy blaming Jagya even misleading serial to prove Anandi is the only true beti of haveli and then  blaming us we are bashing poor Anandi by calling her Dadisaa's only laadli , only Anandi is everything for Dadisaa , cvs are glorifying Anandi blah blah blah 
but arent some people who are blaming us themselves trying to prove same thing otherwise what is purpose of these heaps of blames on Jagya 

What a  neutral logics some people think they can bash other characters as much as they want but no one should touch their pyari Anandi and should bow down every unfair treatment of cvs with other characters for Anandi's sake?Sleepy

Of course some people will not find it Jagya's insult that Anandi is lighting up the pyre of Dadisaa because as long as Anandi is given preference is everything and all other bow down their rights in front of her some people remain happy and don't feel any wrong in this but as soon as someone starts objecting he becomes bad 

Can someone explain to me which other customs Jagya can perform ? Flow Dadisaa's ashes in Ganges river What a huge favor on Jagya's seven births He will get the right to flow his own Dadisaa's ashes because Anandi is going to die before that LOLwho knows she dies after doing  this honor too then what is left for Jagya ?

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Hina- IF-Rockerz

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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 2:26pm | IP Logged
Now i am seriously having doubts on TOI's synopsis Jagya kills Akhiraj not possible In that way he will avenge Dadisaa's murder from Akhiraj Wont this world end for cvs if this happened?LOL

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maria13 Goldie

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Posted: 19 April 2016 at 3:13pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Missesha

The other characters were not heavily criticised, because no one actually heavily defended them for their flaws either.
For example: if someone writes "why is Bhairon missing?", everybody will agree that Bhairon missing at Basant / Dsa's funeral is an inappropriate thing. There is no need for debate or defence because everyone agrees instantly

The moment we wrote; "why CVs left  Jagya out from lighting funeral pyre, and why couldn't they show  J and A both doing Mukhagni, when Dsa loved them both equally?" what we got in response is:

- How is Anandi Dsa's beti / haveli ki beti
- How Mangala got more screen space while exposing Akheraj
- How Dsa never tried to take Bhago's place in Anandi's life,
- How Anandi is not trying to take Jagya's place, but at the same time Anandi is haveli ka beta.
- How if M can claim rights on N, then why can't A be Dsa's beti... etc etc etc...

when actually none of the above reasons answer the actual question. But people somehow have to emphasise that Anandi is whole and sole for DSa, while existence of others do not matter.  

When such kind of responses are received counter arguments are bound to happen, and this leads to the endless circle of objections and defence. 

[/QUOTE]very true Esha We are actually criticizing cvs We never said why Anandi is performing last rites of Dadisaa we are asking why she is alone doing that in presence of Jagya ? why Jagya is not given his rights ? They could show Anandi and Ganga dressing up Dadisaa for her final journey ( even though sugna , bharavi too deserve share in this but chalo since cvs have forgot about them we too pretend to have memory loss and forget about them but Ganga is very much there How she has done less than a beti for Dadisaa? )and Jagya giving light to her pyre A great farewell for Dadisaa but even if cvs wanted to include Anandi in giving light to Dadisaa's pyre then make all her grandchildren and great grandchildren together give it It would be acceptable too but this not acceptable Anandi has taken over all rights of Dadisaa 
We have questioned cvs on that Up came defense for cvs How Anandi is the beti of Dadisaa , how only she deserved this right Jagya does not ,

 It is not very big insult of jagya ( how it is not ?As son it was his right since Basant and Bhairon are not there next in line comes Jagya and it is his right if his right is given to Anandi its indeed his insult because cvs are showcasing Anandi as son and daughter both of Dadisaa Not fair with Jagya and sugna ), 
Anandi is not trying to take Jagya's place in BH but at same time people are making Anandi beta of BH isn't it giving Jagya's place to Anandi ?because Jagya is grandson while Anandi is a granddaughter of Dadisaa. 
Jagya relation with Dadisaa is only by default , natural Nothing special in that while Anandi's relation with Dadisaa is more special ( wonder if blood relations are so useless What same people have views about their own blood relations ?)
People have started bashing and putting heaps of blames on Jagya He left his parents , he was ashamed of them ( God knows when ?)Thank God Dadisaa has not forgot that If Jagya had been so so bad why Dadisaa was keeping him with her and crying in front of him for her and her chidkali's problems ?why same people who think Jagya is so bad are expecting such bad person to raise kids of Anandi ? hmmm?

even Mangala is brought in this topic to tell us how she snatched Anandi's rights Mangala is irrelevant to this topic Even i can discuss a long lists of injustices cvs have done with jagya and Ganga to glorify Anandi Snatched their rights in illogical way to give it Anandi but that will be discussing old story not relevant to the topic For now i am only questioning cvs why they snatched Jagya's right and gave it to Anandi ?They have shown Jagya an excellent grandson They have made Dadisaa say in the past she is blessed to have him as her son Cvs may have forgot but we are not  amnesic it was always Dadisaa ardent wish that Jagya perform her last rites because he has always been her most beloved grand child No matter what people say in defense of Anandi but in the past she has never given Jagya's place to Anandi Anandi made her own place in Dadisaa's life but she could not never take Jagya's place nor Dadisaa gave her  and this has been said in serial many times so now cvs this 360 degree turn is unacceptable and we will criticize cvs for their unfair behavior with Jagya , Anandi fans like it or not 

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