Ye Hai Mohabbatein

Decoding Shagun

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Posted: 8 years ago
I think most of us here are bashing Shagun because it is not acceptable for us to see her fall for Raman all over again. I have read posts which suggest that she might turn Grey after Ishita's re-entry in Raman'a life.

So let us decode Shagun's behaviour to understand her reactions.

1. It is natural to fall in love with someone all over again. Shagun was in love with Raman before and throughout she has shown that streak of jealousy or possessiveness even when he was with Ishita. So her falling for him all over again is justified.

2. Shagun is Pihu's mother- Although they call it surrogate pregnancy, we must not forget that she has carried Pihu for 9 months. There is an emotional connect which no one can define. Her obsessing over the little girl is something that all mothers do.

3. Her entry into the Bhalla house- Shagun knows Raman too well, she feared the fate of Pihu as we all know how Raman had turned hostile towards Ruhi after Shagun had left him. No mother would want her child to live in a house that doesn't have a healthy environment.

4. Her behaviour towards Raman- Shagun is hurt. She never asked anyone to get her married. All she wants is some love and affvetion from Raman. So her outburst is justified because she can see her dreams of settling down with him coming crashing down.

5. On Shagun turning grey (assumption)- There is a higher possibility of her turning grey. But maybe not for Raman as much as for Pihu. Shagun loves Pihu and this might turn into obsession and possesiveness after Ishta's entry. The fear of losing her daughter to Ishita again might turn her negative.

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Posted: 8 years ago
First of all shagun is not pihus real mother even after ishita come and claims pihu there is nothing wrong from ishita side ..
Pihu Is ishita nd Raman daughter no one can change that fact nd shagun is just taking care of pihu in absence of ishita... thats it
Ultimately shagun cannot claim pihu from ishra..as pihu is ishra daughter and shagun is just surrogate mother
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Even when surrogate mother carry baby for 9 months they develop a emotional bond ..
By developing bond doesn't give any right to surrogate mother to claim baby as hers ...even though pihu is brought up by shagun shagun doesn't have any right wen ishita is alive though shagun can be possessive... but shagun Must understand that pihu is ishu daughter one or other day she has to go back to ishita wen ishitacomes ..wen ishita comes shagun has no right to stop pihu from going to ishita. .
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Posted: 8 years ago
agree with your points
but raman is not at all affected by shagun.all this mangalsutra etc. is done by mrs. bhalla and shagun.
shagun herself choosed to stay at bhalla house noone forced her (atleast not raman)
so raman is not responsible for all this.
shagun raised pihu for 7 years as a mother.so definitely after ishita return she will be insecure and there is a chance of return of grey shagun.
but after earthquake cvs made sure to highlight shagun as a positive character in every track.hence chances of shagun turning negative is very less.
when it comes to pihu raman will support shagun then shagun and ishita will want to sacrifice for the other one (ishgun lovestory part 2) :/
again shagun will be all alone and viewers will feel bad for her πŸ˜”
i wished cvs should have let shagun settle down with manoj and shown her as someone very close to pihu.
why to involve shagun in every damn thing of ishra :/
cvs didn't even spared ishra consummation 😑
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: s2397

agree with your points
but raman is not at all affected by shagun.all this mangalsutra etc. is done by mrs. bhalla and shagun.
shagun herself choosed to stay at bhalla house noone forced her (atleast not raman)
so raman is not responsible for all this.
shagun raised pihu for 7 years as a mother.so definitely after ishita return she will be insecure and there is a chance of return of grey shagun.
but after earthquake cvs made sure to highlight shagun as a positive character in every track.hence chances of shagun turning negative is very less.
when it comes to pihu raman will support shagun then shagun and ishita will want to sacrifice for the other one (ishgun lovestory part 2) :/
again shagun will be all alone and viewers will feel bad for her πŸ˜”
i wished cvs should have let shagun settle down with manoj and shown her as someone very close to pihu.
why to involve shagun in every damn thing of ishra :/
cvs didn't even spared ishra consummation 😑


Well I agree with what you said just want to add that raman doesn't really consider her as pihu's real mother coz then why would he suggest shagun's marriage with someone else doesn't he know pihu considers her as her mother n even shagun cares for pihu n only person whom raman is shown very close post leap is pihu still he did not consider this fact that if shagun marries someone else she would have to leave bhalla house and go n yes once ishita is back there are possibility of ishgun mohabbatein part 2 but I doubt as nidhi's character is not permanent so they do need a vamp so chances of shagun turning negative are high
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: SurabhiA91



Well I agree with what you said just want to add that raman doesn't really consider her as pihu's real mother coz then why would he suggest shagun's marriage with someone else doesn't he know pihu considers her as her mother n even shagun cares for pihu n only person whom raman is shown very close post leap is pihu still he did not consider this fact that if shagun marries someone else she would have to leave bhalla house and go n yes once ishita is back there are possibility of ishgun mohabbatein part 2 but I doubt as nidhi's character is not permanent so they do need a vamp so chances of shagun turning negative are high


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u r right
raman doesn't considers shagun as pihu's mother
he considers pihu as ishu's akhri nishaani hence dotes on her
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: s2397

agree with your points
but raman is not at all affected by shagun.all this mangalsutra etc. is done by mrs. bhalla and shagun.
shagun herself choosed to stay at bhalla house noone forced her (atleast not raman)
so raman is not responsible for all this.
shagun raised pihu for 7 years as a mother.so definitely after ishita return she will be insecure and there is a chance of return of grey shagun.
but after earthquake cvs made sure to highlight shagun as a positive character in every track.hence chances of shagun turning negative is very less.
when it comes to pihu raman will support shagun then shagun and ishita will want to sacrifice for the other one (ishgun lovestory part 2) :/
again shagun will be all alone and viewers will feel bad for her πŸ˜”
i wished cvs should have let shagun settle down with manoj and shown her as someone very close to pihu.
why to involve shagun in every damn thing of ishra :/
cvs didn't even spared ishra consummation 😑

No offence but if for pihu raman supports Xena then what was the purpose of surrogacy?😲 and whta is need for him to take ishita back in his life?...Xena is the birth mother of all his children and ishita is a step mother so why not marry Xena and give his children their birth mothers love and care...can't he sacrifice his love for his children?...and at last if he chooses Xena over ishita for pihu i hope he atleast realises that through surrogacy he couldn't give ishita the feeling of motherhood and ishita is still a barren lady.
I think Xena will definitely turn negative...or else we have to see a man staying with his two wives under same roof (though it will happen for some time before Xenas true colour comes in the front)...
This same tracks could have have been achieved by making ishita pregnant but to involve Xena permanently in ishras life they made Xena the surrogate mother.
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Posted: 8 years ago
@SurabhiA91
@ramishi
i know raman doesn't consider shagun as pihu's mother.
all i wanted to say when it comes to pihu it will be raman vs ishita(initially)
raman will do everything to hurt ishita as he will feel betrayed seeing ishu alive
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Posted: 8 years ago
@TM Agree with you.
People always overlook Ishita as they hate Shagun
But the fact is that whatever the reason, Ishita left Pihu when she was a baby and spent 7 years living with Mani.

Shagun raised her since always, and yes adding to the fact that she is the one who gave her birth.

People talks about rights! Haha

When Shagun had left Ruhi, who was Ishita? A damn neighbour. If she had the way to have right over Ruhi then Shagun too can file a custody case with the points that Ishita left Pihu and never looked back, Pihu would normally chose her over Ishita.

ishita is wrong on this point, she always had chauk to raise other single father's children. When the time of her baby came, she left without thinking once about the newborn.

CVs will surely show Ishita Pihu bond blabla
and turn Shagun negativ to glorrify Ishima once again!
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Posted: 8 years ago
Shagun left Raman because he was not rich...Shagun was in affair with Ashok because he was rich,πŸ€”,,Shagun said yes to Manoj to secure her future as there was no better option left for her than Manoj that timeπŸ˜†Now Raman has money and shagun is feeling something again for himπŸ˜ƒhow sweet na !! All she needs is money...still some ppl try to justify her that she has changed for good 
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Posted: 8 years ago
shagun is a good mother is itself a big joke 🀣
she is the woman who couldn't make a bond with her own son again
was nt present fr her daughter's barsi
what she wants is clear frm the mirror scene
she only wants the same place she had in Raman's life when they were married first
and she wl fight tooth and nail fr the same position
As far as raman is concerned he has always chosen ishita over his own family
and ab toh raman bhadka hua aashiq hoga
he wl make ishu's life hell fr leaving him bt won't chose anyone else over her
shagun has no place in his life and that is pretty much clear when he started to find groom fr shagun that he doesn't even considers her as pihu's mother