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Software Symphony 65 "Playthings" (Page 89)

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Posted: 13 July 2016 at 7:24pm | IP Logged
Sri my point was more about various ways of Manipulation.
We don't hv enough info about Savita Bhalla ... Just her support for dude was beyond any repriprimand...
Even when he got sexually active at 13.
Manny bringing in boyfriends at will or dude rebelling coming with his girl friend are behaviour as adults right under Ranjan Bhalla's nose knowing very well that their activities cause him pain.
But can you blame Ranjan or Savita bhalla for dude sneaking off to satisfy his over active libido at that age. So if shravu is going to be caught watching po*n , it's not because of Bala.

I'm sorry Sri, I don't agree with your POV that every little thing he does has a motive .
He is very weak as a person , selfish , takes liberties with his wife...but the money he returned to dude to make things uncomfortable with a motive or that he doesn't give space to his wife is not true...

Giving space to wife is very relative and depends on each family and their situation. If I remember right , I don't think II had the space to stay peacefully at her home during Thalai Deepavali where dude had a swollen face entire time except the holy bath time or when she wanted to stay back at DII for the full thirteen days ... . As long as she's not in DII everything is ok for the dude. I don't look at that as space.
It's my POV and I stick to that.
Space is a very relative term Sri, it has to be looked at from their family's perspective.

Bala behaved like a swine in sending II alone in the night . Keeps poking dude ... , was very weak in wanting vandu to go to work, was very selfish in letting dude talk and have the finances flowing
But not everything he does has a motive . And the way he scolds shravu , flipping out is very common .
Vandu and II's bond is such that neither dude nor Bala can take the control they would like to have.

Talking of space , Ranjan bhalla and no one else in this story showers the space both wanted and unwanted to all. His support of harish , not taking a stance is the same as Bala not taking a stance with his brother.

Edited by Errantnomad - 13 July 2016 at 7:25pm

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Posted: 13 July 2016 at 7:34pm | IP Logged
Sri, in lighter vein LOL on your usage of Bala bashing mode ... I laughed my guts out.
Mode is something temporary and intermittent ... LOL . I know your love for Bala is beyond question and your support for dude greater than even Savita Bhalla's . Sorry sri, I couldn't resist digging at that mode usage...please feel free to dig on mine with my love for the dude...
LOL . Peace out Embarrassed

Edited by Errantnomad - 13 July 2016 at 7:36pm

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Posted: 13 July 2016 at 8:00pm | IP Logged
Divashini, good to see you.
Keep dropping in whenever you can.

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Posted: 13 July 2016 at 8:39pm | IP Logged
Kalpana space is something we create by our presence , absence, responses and reactions. Vandhusees something ...likes it...brings it home...Bala makes her return...If Vandhu understands the reason she should accept that the POV was not thought of and move on. If she doesn't she and Bala should have a discussion and come to an understanding. The problem is they dont  discuss matters and  harbor hurt. The reason Vandhu comes running to II with all her problems is due to this lack of conversation. She is unable to even tolerate her Amma correcting Shravu which i guess is her blind love for her son that she fails to see his shortcomings. She could have reined in her sister by limiting the extent to which she indulges her son. It was convenient to her. She watched her son get what he wanted, when something went wrong a finger was pointed towards MM.
Bala has not left with II car on one occasion he has done it several times as he is unable to look beyond his problems and the way to wriggle out of it.He is unable to face confrontations that might lead to smoothen matters or break ties. He wants the ties so doesnt explore other options...that is the problem i have with Bala.
You can't respond to people as it suits your convenience. He picks the bottle but pretends in front of his FIL.  Sri Vishvanatha Iyer is wallowing in self pity of his retirement and house move that he is unable to see its effect on his wife...
Yes R& B has broken all rules and sveral hearts with his unruly ways, that does not make him a monster...that is his hamartia...come what may he can't rescript it and he is aware to what extent it hurts his II.
Had Bala been in R&B's position of observer he would have gloated over the situation...remember the discussion over how lousy a place to live MM is.
Th fact that despite our differences in POV you and i exchange our views...discuss...have a dig which we know is in jest should be there among family...that is what the space and understanding creates.

Poor Shravvu is caught between two worlds. instead of helping him cope the quagmire is sucking him in which is the point of contention.


I am delighted to note that my love for R&B you think surpasses that of his MA...Wink

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Posted: 13 July 2016 at 8:50pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by moonwearer

Hello Diva
Vani is this the Divashini who went missing or a new member with the same name?
If like Anu, Namratha, Arya who came in to say Hi...i am delighted and hopeful that Jaya, Prathima Jai and others will follow soon.

Yup !! the one and only Divs  Big smileBig smile

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Posted: 13 July 2016 at 9:04pm | IP Logged
Yes he is aware to what extent he hurts II but still he can't help himself when he repeats it
... That's how he's influenced by his girl who has a face that launched a thousand ships. Embarrassed followed by the unceremonious pulling out and again when he let II assume that he was staring down the ladies boobs while sharing the beats with her. Yeah Sri... He is aware that he hurts her but just cannot help himself from repeating it.

I agree with you ... true...he's not a monster... I will vouch for that... But neither is Bala.

And both the sisters bond allows them the liberty to be erratic or inconsistent with one another.
II rushed to vandu's place as her mind internally was screaming I am shravu's Chithi...
Vandu did not ask her to drop everything and come...
Conversations ... Both the set of couples don't believe in it.
Kiss is an effective way of shutting wife's mouth Big smile

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Posted: 13 July 2016 at 9:08pm | IP Logged
Sri... Your support is unparallel for dude much like his Ma. Embarrassed . It makes for interesting arguments between both of us and I enjoy the active engagement sessions I have debating with you on the story.

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Posted: 13 July 2016 at 9:13pm | IP Logged
Let's agree to disagree on certain POV's.
Good night people and those of you who are reading this barrage with a hand on their heads muttering...
Sorry folks ...

Good night

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