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Dude, just give it back to them. There's a thing called success and it works like magic. Nothing succeeds like success and it is always the best revenge. Believe in yourself and go rock..!

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Thank you so much to all of you for sharing your thoughts and experience with me. I never thought to get such genuine response but I am glad I did because I will always want to revisit this post to feel happy and get motivated. I know I shouldnt think ill of them but I cant help it after what I have gone through because of their nonsense, and now when I see them so happy attending events farewell parties which I could have been a part of only if they werent so harsh and unfriendly. Now even in college I am missing out all events parities fearing I would be bullied again and I am not worthy enough to join them. All I think of is why did God let this happen to so many but then not punish the bullies. 

I am planned to have a new start and search for some friends as I take up football classes in June after exams. I would love to share about the success or failure I face in the new start, if the mods here dont close this topic. I will surely fall weak again after few days but I will try to be strong. 

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Originally posted by hopelesss

I have just wanting to have an answer when will God actually punish them or make them realise how it feels to live in a hell on this earth. 

Its not up to you to want something for someone else...You don't know if their life is actually happy or sad...You only know what they show off to you but don't go by the outward appearances...In any case, wanting something for others -be it good or bad, is a waste of time...Because it doesn't happen...What you can do is work towards something good for yourself...That is the only thing that is there in your hands...

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@MrsSalmanKhan
I have always had some likeness for you despite you bashing my favourite actor and his films which I find cool though. Really happy reading about you and your success. 

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Originally posted by MrsSalmanKhan

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First of all, know that you're not alone. There are many, many out there who get bullied every day by a bunch of idiots. I did too. My elementary school was fine, my high school was great as well but it started when I moved from a bigger City, to a smaller town populated by people with little mindsets. These people weren't used to welcoming different race.. so their mockery and laughter started, and literally it was every day. My brother and I were the ONLY desis in this school of 500 French CanadiansLOLso imagine

In my case, I didn't mind the bullying because I wasn't even interested in socializing with a bunch of people with whom my life can never relate to. People who I will not need in my future. I'm proud that I've been very practical about life since school days.

I was also laughed at for having a french accent when I spoke EnglishShocked

I can never think of a reason for bullying because there isn't suppose to be any.
I can only label it as stupid immaturity. I can never bully irl. I will continue to bully shahrukh fans on india-forums thoughEmbarrassed

I know, when we are young, bullying does affect you deeply. Obviously, you're young, not as strong and you feel bad about the whole situation and why is it happening to you. You feel alone, sometimes I did too but eventually you learn to overcome it all.

Today, when I look back, I'm glad I never let it affect me. I'm glad I never tried to "blend in". I'm glad I never tried to change my ways to be "friends" with them.

Today, professionally I'm way above them. I stayed focused to what I want, who I care about, which people should matter and who shouldn't matter. I think being practical is the key. Once you convince yourself you don't need these people, neither do their opinion should matter to you even ONE BIT, you will be much happier about yourself.

I know where they are today. I know what they are doing. and now that I should be laughing at them, it's not the case because I feel pity.

I don't know how you felt bullied, the reason why you were bullied, (there is never a reason to be bullied btw) Do they used to laugh at you?Were they indian/pakistanias well? Honestly, be proud of who you are, your likes and dislikes, be proud of your body, the way you dress up, everything. We need to stop thinking "I wanna be like them". The world would be too boring if we were all the same. Tell yourself some people don't matter, you will never need them, and you'll feel much better.

& Don't wish ill for them. Just wish good for yourself.
As for THEM, Life will play its cards. You don't need to worryBig smile




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