Posted: 17 April 2016 at 1:40am | IP Logged
Originally posted by bookworm-ALS--
Pros : He has this inherent white knight chivalrousness - if he could, he'd probably try to save the entire world. He also has the whole I protect what's mine - be it his family or be it Piya's - he can go to a lot of lengths to protect them.
He has a sense of humour which I love, and I love his sarcasm. He's also very understanding, very non judgemental. I also like he's not one of those people who'll wait for others to do something - he leads, always. He's definitely a leader, but not the political type. And I admire his loyalty a lot. It's one of the best things about him, Abhay's loyalty. It's unshakeable and unquestionable be it to his lover or to his family.
He's also kinda possessive and I find that attractive in a guy (but not overly possessive.)
Cons : He has the whole You'll hurt me so I'll hurt you first thing. He uses words to wound intentionally. He acts rashly often without paying heed to the consequences that might follow. And also, mood swings. :P
He also has a lot of trust issues but for that I don't blame him at all and with time they'll lessen.
Pros : She's not a whiner. She's had a pretty sucky life, being an illegitimate kid and losing her mom, finding out her dad has a whole other family...she may break down but she keeps going and does it with grace.
Courage - oh my. Piya has a lot of balls. I think it's pretty obvious lol.
Like Abhay, she also has the I protect what's mine approach to things (one of the reasons they're meant to be) She's a team player. She'll let someone take the lead but she'll work behind the scenes. She's very clear about what she wants in her life. She's a great friend too - her loyalty is a lot like Abhay's. Once given toh given. She won't sell anyone out unless - like Abhay - it's big. She'll go to a lot of trouble for people she cares about.
She also has a "justice" thing - if it's not fair, she'll fight the entire world to make sure it is.
Cons : Trust issues, similar to Abhay but not in the same way. She keeps waiting for the other shoe to drop. She lets heart rule over head most times and lets her anger clouds her judgement and says a lot of cruel things in a fit of temper. She's extremely reckless - even more than Abhay is :P
While I like how she goes after her goal, sometimes she employs any which way to achieve them and I don't like that.
Sorry for all the comparisons, but I actually can't think of one without thinking about the other so :P
You really really write so well
Agree with each and every word you said.Abhay is protective,loyal and has a sarcasm sense to die for,his demo chahiye or the kinda man u'll never get r total gem.And also never suffers from self pity,I mean hefaces pain after pain yet takes it like a old friend. Oh yeah he leads the pack,take shis own decissions,does what he feels is right, and his inert nature of helping people is really adorable,I mean its not just Piya,he saved Misha, Danish,Ruhi,T,Arnab,Panchi and who not.And even helped Maya whom he did not even know,he gave her mental support not the rescued her physically.
But yeah his words tend to get toxic sometimes, they can hurt someone beyond repair,and have hurt Piya many a times,the worst I could think of is when he point blank told Piya that what they shared was not love but just a physical attraction,I mean that is so so hurting
Piya's best part is her relatibility actually, she was so much of a real character.her clothes to her reactions to situations evrything.I loved the way she handled the angle of Arnab, and did'nt hold anything against Misha and Panchi.But yeah she was impulsive is situation related to Abhay
Oh you did great doing comparison ABhay and Piya are actually so much alike,both lonely pure souls