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Posted: 14 April 2016 at 10:26am | IP Logged
ISHITA sacrificed her 2year 2 months(from 13 Feb 2014 to 1 April 2016) for shagun biological child ruhi N even adi and she had the benefit of being bhalla bahu so her respect was intact in the society. she also done Various other sacrifices for bhalla family so the title all gave her was jagatmata.

But now if u look shagun ,she sacrifices her 7 years for ISHITA ????? Baby (what should I call her biological nope,umm DNA or anda baby hmm it seams ri8) so she sacrifices her 7 year for ISHITA's anda baby N even do fake marriage drama for sake of pihu N didn't get the bhalla bahu official tag so her dignity is also not intact. She did too much for sake of her surrogate baby.
She must have feelings to settle down in life and feel the happiness of being a actual wife rather than fake wife BUt she just keep aside all those feelings N concentrate on pihu N bhallas life rather than herself.
Shagun spend these 7 years in celibacy even wheras ISHITA got the privilege once at least in her 2.2 years with RAMAN.
So here we can see how sacrificing our shagun is .so shouldn't u think to name her something bigger valuable than ISHITA.
What could it be??????
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LOL I will name her -"Galaxy mata" . 'Galaxy is bigger than jagat and Galaxy is kind of sounding cool for shagun character not sounding bahana ji as jagatmata sounds.
So here we got our "Galaxy mata" Wink or better "Galaxy mom" full on tashan N stylish name ,isn't it. Clap

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From the time Shagun's and Manoj's love story started I had always felt that this love was one sided. Shagun's life after earthquake had become all about re-paying Ishita for the things she was doing for her kids - Adi and Ruhi which follows till now.

Shagun gave chance to Manoj on Raman's insistence but she was surely not keen on marrying him. She agreed to marry Manoj only so that she can make Ishita rid of herself forever. but when Ishita committed suicide,she knew what she had to do and decided to break ties with Manoj. 

Manoj must have been disheartened by this decision of her's but not shocked as he also had understood by then that Shagun did not love him that is why during Holi he had asked Shagun questions about them, so I don't think Shagun duped him as she had always shown her disinterest very clearly.


Coming down to Shagun has changed for good or not question, till date I was sure she has become positive but Adi getting agitated after listening to ShaRam's marriage thoughts made me think how come Shagun has yet not able to erase Ishita's position in his heart till date. If Shagun's motherly emotions have aroused then why is she pouring all her love only on Pihu and not on Adi also. Is there something more than what we see.


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Posted: 14 April 2016 at 12:20pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by BeyondHorizon

Honestly this forum is clearly full of Shagun haters and anyone who feels otherwise is a Shagun or Sharam shipper. Like for real? LOL she might have made hell lot of mistakes in her life but even when she is trying her best to redeem herself all I could see were people here abusing her and most of them even went to the extent of saying EK is doing favouritism by giving prominence to Shagun. How funny can it get? Anita was already an established actress even when people barely knew about Karan or DT. Coming to Manoj the woman he loved was not a mother who had dumped her loving husband and a baby for a luxurious life and then used her own son to her advantage and bailing out on her kids when they were caught in fire. She was the woman who strived hard to make life better for others, who gave her womb willingly to bear another's child giving away 9 months of her life. What more could she have done? She was selfless enough to keep aside her own happiness for IshRa. Her priority was not to settle down herself with a loving partner but nurture somebody else's child. She was about to marry Manoj but then what happens? Ishita is presumed to be dead and she has not only left behind her new born but Shagun's son as well. What should Shagun do? Wait for Raman to bring a new mother for the kids and move on with Manoj abandoning the kids like she did a long time ago? She did what any mother would have done. Just bcoz she was not the biological mother it doesn't mean she was any less a mother to Pihu. Ishita barely gave two years of her life to Ruhi but Shagun not only gave birth to Pihu but she also cared for that kid for 7 years. She has come way too far to even think of a future she gave away. Is it any easy for her to stay with a man and be mother to his kids without being his wife? It was evident she doesn't want to take Ishita's place but for once she thought of herself as a woman and she was being selfish? Ishita is not lost but presumed to be dead. So what is wrong if Toshi wants to get Shagun Raman married? Shagun is biological mother of one and surrogate mother of another child of Raman's. This is what anyone would suggest. 
Well after this rant am sure to being bashed but a common thing in all of the forums here is that the heroine is right no matter what ROFL its OK if she screws up every time and everyone else pay a price for her mistake but everyone else needs to be put on a pedestal and be judged. 

There are two separate things people are mixing. Shagun must be good now, but why does she deserve Raman? Raman clearly does not feel love for her, so why should he marry her just coz she is good now?
All his problems were due to Shagun and Ashok, Ashok still remains...

She knows Raman cant bear even her touching him, so why does she even consider marrying him? All her life, after she divorced Raman she has been living with one man or another. Now why should she want "respect" ? Why is she lying to Pihu about  Ishita if she is not insecure about a dead woman?

So if Shagun is good, good for her - she had made life hell for her kids and now she is seeking redemption. But that does not give her any rights over Raman!

And whether some people like it or not ( just like they want celebs in their real lives -t X to marry Y etc.) - Raman loves only Ishita, it is HIS choice. Just coz some ppl want him to love Shagun or marry her, too bad...thats all there is to it...Raman loved Shagun, then Ishita. Shagun loved Raman ( did she?), then Ashok, then Raman ( coz he became rich), then Manoj, now again Raman.She just needs a sponsor coz she cant fend for herself and uses all sorts of excuses. Is she was a working woman now and looking after Pihu, it would have helped her in the long run. But the fact that she is still a freeloader means she is expecting Raman to look after her all his life! That is NO sacrifice, that is like trapping Raman for life!

Just coz someone is good, Raman should marry her?

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Posted: 14 April 2016 at 12:54pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sunitas123

Originally posted by BeyondHorizon

Honestly this forum is clearly full of Shagun haters and anyone who feels otherwise is a Shagun or Sharam shipper. Like for real? LOL she might have made hell lot of mistakes in her life but even when she is trying her best to redeem herself all I could see were people here abusing her and most of them even went to the extent of saying EK is doing favouritism by giving prominence to Shagun. How funny can it get? Anita was already an established actress even when people barely knew about Karan or DT. Coming to Manoj the woman he loved was not a mother who had dumped her loving husband and a baby for a luxurious life and then used her own son to her advantage and bailing out on her kids when they were caught in fire. She was the woman who strived hard to make life better for others, who gave her womb willingly to bear another's child giving away 9 months of her life. What more could she have done? She was selfless enough to keep aside her own happiness for IshRa. Her priority was not to settle down herself with a loving partner but nurture somebody else's child. She was about to marry Manoj but then what happens? Ishita is presumed to be dead and she has not only left behind her new born but Shagun's son as well. What should Shagun do? Wait for Raman to bring a new mother for the kids and move on with Manoj abandoning the kids like she did a long time ago? She did what any mother would have done. Just bcoz she was not the biological mother it doesn't mean she was any less a mother to Pihu. Ishita barely gave two years of her life to Ruhi but Shagun not only gave birth to Pihu but she also cared for that kid for 7 years. She has come way too far to even think of a future she gave away. Is it any easy for her to stay with a man and be mother to his kids without being his wife? It was evident she doesn't want to take Ishita's place but for once she thought of herself as a woman and she was being selfish? Ishita is not lost but presumed to be dead. So what is wrong if Toshi wants to get Shagun Raman married? Shagun is biological mother of one and surrogate mother of another child of Raman's. This is what anyone would suggest.
Well after this rant am sure to being bashed but a common thing in all of the forums here is that the heroine is right no matter what ROFL its OK if she screws up every time and everyone else pay a price for her mistake but everyone else needs to be put on a pedestal and be judged.



There are two separate things people are mixing. Shagun must be good now, but why does she deserve Raman? Raman clearly does not feel love for her, so why should he marry her just coz she is good now?
All his problems were due to Shagun and Ashok, Ashok still remains...

She knows Raman cant bear even her touching him, so why does she even consider marrying him? All her life, after she divorced Raman she has been living with one man or another. Now why should she want "respect" ? Why is she lying to Pihu about Ishita if she is not insecure about a dead woman?

So if Shagun is good, good for her - she had made life hell for her kids and now she is seeking redemption. But that does not give her any rights over Raman!

And whether some people like it or not ( just like they want celebs in their real lives -t X to marry Y etc.) - Raman loves only Ishita, it is HIS choice. Just coz some ppl want him to love Shagun or marry her, too bad...thats all there is to it...Raman loved Shagun, then Ishita. Shagun loved Raman ( did she?), then Ashok, then Raman ( coz he became rich), then Manoj, now again Raman.She just needs a sponsor coz she cant fend for herself and uses all sorts of excuses. Is she was a working woman now and looking after Pihu, it would have helped her in the long run. But the fact that she is still a freeloader means she is expecting Raman to look after her all his life! That is NO sacrifice, that is like trapping Raman for life!

Just coz someone is good, Raman should marry her?


Who is saying Raman should marry her ?and if someone is saying Raman should marry her then also it's practical.Being viewers of show we know ishita is alive so naturally we dont want sharam but in show ishita is declared dead and toshi and Simmi wants Raman to marry her it's not wrong ...becoz Shagun anways is staying as pihu and adi s mother ...Secondly lying about ishita is done by the family ...don't put on Shagun s head only...She dint even demand any rights in Raman ,it was suggested by toshi and after 7 yrs she has moved on so she was happy but noway she demanded it from Raman.She is more then happy to be mother then wife.Being happy when toshi ji told her and actually wanting it is different thing.Learn to differentiate between the two.

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Originally posted by abhilasha_dream

From the time Shagun's and Manoj's love story started I had always felt that this love was one sided. Shagun's life after earthquake had become all about re-paying Ishita for the things she was doing for her kids - Adi and Ruhi which follows till now.

Shagun gave chance to Manoj on Raman's insistence but she was surely not keen on marrying him. She agreed to marry Manoj only so that she can make Ishita rid of herself forever. but when Ishita committed suicide,she knew what she had to do and decided to break ties with Manoj.

Manoj must have been disheartened by this decision of her's but not shocked as he also had understood by then that Shagun did not love him that is why during Holi he had asked Shagun questions about them, so I don't think Shagun duped him as she had always shown her disinterest very clearly.


Coming down to Shagun has changed for good or not question, till date I was sure she has become positive but Adi getting agitated after listening to ShaRam's marriage thoughts made me think how come Shagun has yet not able to erase Ishita's position in his heart till date. If Shagun's motherly emotions have aroused then why is she pouring all her love only on Pihu and not on Adi also. Is there something more than what we see.




That is becoz Shagun respects ishita and for all what ishita did for ruhi Shagun feels it's her responsibility to take care of pihu so why will she erase ishita s memories from adi s life ...but she made her position in adi s life by being good mother...
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Posted: 14 April 2016 at 1:03pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sunitas123

There are two separate things people are mixing. Shagun must be good now, but why does she deserve Raman? Raman clearly does not feel love for her, so why should he marry her just coz she is good now?
All his problems were due to Shagun and Ashok, Ashok still remains...

She knows Raman cant bear even her touching him, so why does she even consider marrying him? All her life, after she divorced Raman she has been living with one man or another. Now why should she want "respect" ? Why is she lying to Pihu about  Ishita if she is not insecure about a dead woman?

So if Shagun is good, good for her - she had made life hell for her kids and now she is seeking redemption. But that does not give her any rights over Raman!

And whether some people like it or not ( just like they want celebs in their real lives -t X to marry Y etc.) - Raman loves only Ishita, it is HIS choice. Just coz some ppl want him to love Shagun or marry her, too bad...thats all there is to it...Raman loved Shagun, then Ishita. Shagun loved Raman ( did she?), then Ashok, then Raman ( coz he became rich), then Manoj, now again Raman.She just needs a sponsor coz she cant fend for herself and uses all sorts of excuses. Is she was a working woman now and looking after Pihu, it would have helped her in the long run. But the fact that she is still a freeloader means she is expecting Raman to look after her all his life! That is NO sacrifice, that is like trapping Raman for life!

Just coz someone is good, Raman should marry her?

I never said Raman should marry her. But I am surprised at the amount of venom being spit on her by this forum members. To an extent they don't spare Anita even forget the character she plays. Like does she really need Ekta to keep her in limelight? How dumb can it get? Pinch and if Ishita's love for Ruhi is justified then y is Shagun's love for Pihu questioned? Coming to the insecurity bit all of us are a little insecured where it concerns our loved ones. Had Ishita been with them Shagun would have given the baby and moved on with Manoj. But that didn't happen. She had to stay back for Pihu's sake and if Ishita comes back she will rightfully claim her place which is fair enough. What about Shagun? Agreed its her fault her own kids are distanced from her but she will have to give away Pihu too. Would that really be fair? U love something or someone as ur own only to hand it away to someone else?

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Posted: 14 April 2016 at 2:41pm | IP Logged
amazingly said dear

love your post dear

i agree one thing she tried to change herself moreover want to settle in her life by giving  first priority to  love or money up to her

but if she is changed one some  friends  say she sacrifice her life for piku would be

when toshiji and simmi tell about raman ok for marriage first think she has to think about piku   (omitted ) at least   for adi  not raman  whether kids are  comfortable by marrying again

moreover adi is her  own son  and he is just closeness with ishu for one year and spent many years with her but he is the first one against sharam marriage because his pappa love only ishu not anyone ( why ?  he started giving respect to love not luxuries life because of ishu upbringing still he miss ishu moreover he know she is dead never come back )

as a mother shagun failed somewhat still unchanged

moreover she wore mask as only mother of kids not pretend to be wife but still in her heart she want raman in her life

most of them feel for manoj  he is pure soul and love her madly

but cvs over love for shagun  ( they will )

making manoj cheat her or make him dead accidentally 

proof shagun that she is snow white or poor soul

everything is possible by yhm cvs when it comes to shagun

  

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