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Kanak a "Special" Widow ? (Page 3)

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Posted: 13 April 2016 at 1:38pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Dolly-heart

Originally posted by samanthana

All about Status ...   of  the society

CVS are portraying very beautifully from day one with Kanak ... 


KT do not aware about that   DL and BA  are very rich than her .. 

Where she will going to keep her face when she comes to  know the truth


Sammy this shows main aim is to change the thinking of a society that has held on to this prejudicial  attitude to treat women with contempt  that have lost their husbands.

K T needs to be shown by the CV's that her treatment of not only the widows but even of people that she thinks are below her.

K T needs to be taught some hard lessons for her rude attitude.


KT  should get , when shallu life gets struck due to social issue..  I hope so , she will learn through her ...  

Shallu was the center point for story moving (other than Vidha),  for turning point of KT ... 

She has not learned lesson from Shambu death - Because she has not treated him as husband

however shallu  ,  (she is her soul and she will go to any extent to save her blood ) ..


Shallu is  the back bone of KT .  After which she will go against DT through Vipu and Dhaani . Until  KT will KT.


Edited by samanthana - 13 April 2016 at 1:38pm

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Posted: 13 April 2016 at 1:41pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by cocoatree

Great post Dolly! 
Today best part ; Dhani doing aarti and it's symbolically shown that she is gonna to lead AN further. Better I should laugh watching KT she never turn to see herself in mirror..She set her own rules to live a materialistic life. She should learn many things from saved gang and from Dhani. She never valued beautiful relationships but does money n status makes it only then she will be answered by experiencing hard trash by RA. 

Thanks Archu.   I agree Dhaani doing the Aarti is a good sign .   And yes, K T is a sorry 
character that has no sympathy for any one but herself.   

Someone needs to hold a mirror in front of her to show her uppity behaviour is not appreciated.

And this is why she has no good relationship with anyone in her own family.  

It will a good lesson for K T  when the Creepo's truth comes out and smacks her in her face.

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Posted: 13 April 2016 at 1:48pm | IP Logged
Dolly - My question would be What is so special / different about a widow.

And for me its the treatment of the family first and then the society that see them differently .

Couples when together one of them has to go before the other ..that's the way life works. If a family is respectful of women they do not distinguish between who is a widow versus who is not. The rich and poor equation is secondary.

If women were respected by their children by their elders such a distinguish would not happen.

In Kanaks case though her FIL is disdainful of widows she still has a place in his house . Her son will not allow it . He keeps her away from the big functions . Keeping her away from the kitchen would happen if her MIL were mean to her. Kanak enjoys the privilege coz she has the backing of her son . She is a fighter but can never answer back her FIL .

She has the protection of the family hence the society cannot touch her. That is what the diff is .


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Posted: 13 April 2016 at 2:06pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by premparbat

Dolly - My question would be What is so special / different about a widow.

And for me its the treatment of the family first and then the society that see them differently .

Couples when together one of them has to go before the other ..that's the way life works. If a family is respectful of women they do not distinguish between who is a widow versus who is not. The rich and poor equation is secondary.

If women were respected by their children by their elders such a distinguish would not happen.

In Kanaks case though her FIL is disdainful of widows she still has a place in his house . Her son will not allow it . He keeps her away from the big functions . Keeping her away from the kitchen would happen if her MIL were mean to her. Kanak enjoys the privilege coz she has the backing of her son . She is a fighter but can never answer back her FIL .

She has the protection of the family hence the society cannot touch her. That is what the diff is .



My point exactly Ratna.   What is special / or different about becoming a widow.?  

A sad circumstance brought about this status to a  woman by loosing her partner.

The society that is mainly patriarchal  has foisted this absurd rule on women that have no man to support and stand beside her.  Who gives them this right ??

Widows are women that needs to be shown the same respect by family and the society.

Men that have lost their wives are not treated as pariahs , so my question is why women ??

And in K T's case she is getting away with her rudeness because nobody wants to stand up to her bullying attitude and teaches her not to behave like she does.

Viplav did try to tell her not to be rude to his wife and she answers with.. do not talk to me like that ..I am your mother , show some respect..  Does K T know the meaning of that word ?

The unfairness of all this really irks me, and standing back and ignoring it,  is not my style.


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Posted: 13 April 2016 at 2:13pm | IP Logged
You are right ratna ...before the society the family comes in to the picture ...if the family itself follows such double standards in case of DT there is no point in blaming the society ...DT being a respectable man in the society considers widows as unworthy people obviously kanak wouldn't hesitate following his path for he wont go against her...Her mil is snubbed again so kanak thinks its alrite to do what DT does and the fear has slowly vanished away.

Its like as long as DT doesn't say anything to her or go against her she can very well do whatever she wishes to having no fear ..If the society is to be blamed first they would point out at her home first. As you said since she has protection from being dil of AN none will dare to point out at her.


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Posted: 13 April 2016 at 2:16pm | IP Logged
money and status is everything in our society...sadly, that is how superficial most people are.

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Posted: 13 April 2016 at 2:19pm | IP Logged
Patriarchal society is to blame for  the plight of widows, the caste system, set up by rich brahmins who looked at their own benefit, and also conservative and superstitious women are to blame who cause distress and humiliation to other women.

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Posted: 13 April 2016 at 2:38pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by captkirk

Patriarchal society is to blame for the plight of widows, the caste system, set up by rich brahmins who looked at their own benefit, and also conservative and superstitious women are to blame who cause distress and humiliation to other women.



Totally agree that it is women who will have to fight for women and yes men like Viplav who accept women for who they are and not their label .

One would think that the tables have turned with Kanak being the widow and Dhani the suhagin ...she would have an upper hand. But Dhani being subservient can never get that respect from Kanak till she stands up to her.

Her reply in the kitchen yesterday was perfect and Kanak was shaken ..only that it was meant as a One time Plan . People like KAnak can never be won over by whispering sweet nothings.

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