my net is giving problems, so can't write anything new... coz while writing if my net goes, then I will loose it completely..still here is a special take on MA-Jalal relationship, I wrote 2 yrs back
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A true mother will never ask for the price of her milk , she
fed to her child...this is the real difference btw a true mother and a mother
substitute... a true mother not necessarily be a woman who gives birth to a
child, but for a true mother , true or foster,
that kid is her universe... and in that mother - child relationship, all
the time mother is always only giving and her child mostly is always taking...
Coz the biggest thing she gets from that child is pure happiness that is even
bigger than heaven... And that happiness is always priceless...
There is always a thin line btw real and foster... not all can
be careful of not crossing that line... and Maham just forgot this... and the end
result was that she lost that kid who was always her trump card, coz till this
time she was his biggest weakness, whom he trusted more than himself...
For a true mother, her child's happiness becomes her
happiness... that child's needs become her priorities more than her own needs... she
feels more proud when he is successful...
but then what if all her care and support, her upbringing,
which has become life of that child , all this suddenly is put in front of him
with a price tag... and what price is it... he has to choose btw the woman who
pretends to be his mother and his life...Jalal faced this situation which made
him make his decision , he never would have wished to take in his whole life...
and then he chose his life...
Like I said at the start, a mom will never put a price to her milk... while MA's words were cutting him to pieces, he understood this perfectly well... and so he gave her what she wanted , her audha, and he kept for him what he wanted, the love of his life, his Jodha... after witnessing the worst truth of his life in a disgusting display from the one whom he trusted, loved most, making the decision was just a formality for him... and he completed it... he cut all her ties with her... from the precious position of being his Badi Ammi, Maham is now reduced to being just a minister, whose only duty now is limited to give him the advice... the power of decision making is taken off from her hand , the very moment, he cut her from him, forever... only it's official declaration in front of the world is yet to be done... but soon he will do that also...
Now the question remains why she behaved in such a manner... he had so many wives, he even had his own real mother, he has BEK like Ruku, who claim to rule over his brain... but MA always knew the truth behind it... coz even Ruku's brain is ruled by MA herself... so Jalal had been her puppet (sorry for the word), who gave her all powers to rule as per her wish , without any question raised, believing her blindly...
@@But all this changed in just one night... a princess of a
small state, that too from different religion came to his life and just one sight of her,
and she became his biggest obsession... and that was the moment , when Jalal came
out of MA's spell... for the first time he took the decision , which was not
taken with brain, and so nobody was involved in that, except himself...coz
everybody wanted to rule his brain, and so nobody noticed he always possessed a
heart too... That heart always craved to be noticed , if not from others , but
alteast from him... and that princess made him take a notice of his heart... his
decision was made there, and naturally it was in that princess's favour... Jalal
decided to marry Jodha, without even consulting any other person in his life...
That time if he has talked to MA or Ruku before taking the
decision, Jo would never have been able to rule his heart... but the fact was
that he informed them HIS DECISION TO MARRY JO, like he was telling some third
party... and MA, being sharp as she is, understand that very moment , that her
days r near to over... coz once found it's place, his heart started to demand
it's rights, and Jalal too started to acknowledge it with fondness..clearly MA
saw Jo as her enemy, who will rule Jalal's heart, and so naturally then on his
brain, coz this new found heart of him will always show it's true power which
will be much greater than brain...
It happened... how much he tried to hate her, the qualities in Jo made him fall for her, made him change his priorities btw his heart and his brain... and he only found that the decisions he took with his heart , make him come out as a winner, and as a better king in front of the world... the same world that hated him all the time, started loving him back... And this brought a natural change in him... even though, he was still close to MA, still trusted her more than himself, still valued her more even though he was aware of her misdeeds, slowly he started to show his independence...
@@Maham saw her importance and powers
in/on his life slipping with every step he was taking towards Jo... and more than
that , after Jo's entry in his life, he started acknowledging his own mother ,
more than before, coz Jo valued her most... Jalal started getting closer to
Hameeda Bano... and HB already being Marium Makhani, always held certain powers,
that even had the power to change even shehenshah's decision... only she has
never used it... but with Jo getting close to both HB and Jalal, the power center
of Mughal sultanat started to change it's place... from BK and MA it shifted to
Jalal and HB... in his absence, all decisions were done with HB's consent, not
MA's... and HB even started to question MA...
Right from his decision to marry Jo, MA started to understand that her influence was slipping... and so she plotted against Jo, against Jalal... she used all types of methods to separate them, only to find everything backfired...and finally she lost it... Jalal got to hear few hometruths from the very person, whom he always trusted blindly...the truths abt how he was always backstabbed from the ones he so much trusted... that has left him broken... but then this will only increase his desire to hold on to the life which will be full of love ,trust, support and loyalty... the life with Jodha... The life he chose, while cutting MA from his private space...
The power for which she craved all her life, the power she hold proudly till date in her hands, showing the world that she uses the Shehenshah as puppet as per her wishes, is now out of her reach, coz he is nomore HER BELOVED DUTIFUL SON... after playing all the time with his life, just one game from him, and she has lost her ground... what remains now is to see if she accepts this as inevitable or strikes back to regain those power... only time will tells if from here she wins or loses completely...
Dear myviewprem!
I like your opinion. Another rule (principle) that Jalal entirely ignores: wife always obeys her husband. And, if Humayun demanded that she was with him, she could not comply. Jalal has double standards here: as a son - one, as a husband and the Emperor - others.