Villain who we loved and hated - Page 3

If you are a mother make her forget the fact that she is abandoned by her parents/unwanted by her parents  and neutralise that feeling of abandonment with the love that you can give.If her love really made the child forget that she is an abandoned child then she could have been called a successful mother.

I have come across a video on the net about a single mother who is illiterate and has no family support she was a fruitseller.She couldn't give the materialistic pleasures and comforts that the child needed or wanted but she still wanted her child to have everything her heart desired and she taught her daughter in her own small ways how to go about getting what one wanted in life.The child wanted an ice stick but she couldn't afford it so she made one ice stick at home with fruits frozen in a small ice box which in no way can be compared to the ice candies and ice creams available in the market.The child liked it very much she learnt to prepare that and sell it and make money to buy what she wanted.

The closing scene was a contended mother content in the knowledge that her child will not suffer for want of anything even after she departs from this world because she has taughte her child to live and given her the ability to get what ever she wanted from life as a gift.

That is what mother's love is all about

That mother in the video was terrified at the thought of her child suffering in her absence that made her want to empower her child 

Anandi is not really laid back but her junoon is different from the way she perceives things she is not in a position to reveal to the child she is her mother which we do not agree to.

Her junoon is to give her child the life that she deserves.Her desire as a mother is to give her child everything and receive her child's love rather than possessing rights over the child.

So she is not waiting for the day when she hears her child address her as maa and to keep her child with her she is willing to put up wth Mangala.

Anandi's approach is inclusive and what is precious to her daughter are very important to her where as Mangala is trying to exclude everyone and everything from the child's world.

So Anandi's methods may be tiresome but they fetch results because of her positive approach

It's not always about money. It's about caring and no one cared in Jhalra if Nimboli had a good childhood or not. Even now I can't understand with what guts is Mangala planning to take Nimboli to Jhalra. Only Akhiraj is dead but what about the lusty Kundan? And what about Nimboli and her future, her education etc. Mangala has clearly no such intentions as we can see. 

I totally agree Anandi is simply delaying telling the truth but that doesn't mean Mangala is free to go where she wants along with Nimboli. Maybe Nimboli doesn't know but Mangala knows that Anandi is Nimbolis mother. 

She very well knows that Anandi has full legal rights over the child and even if Mangala goes to court wanting custody of the child she will not get the child in legal battle too because they will look into the background of the person.

Anandi may be delaying the moment but that doesn't give Mangala any rights to take the child where ever she wants to take her.What will Mangala do if Anandi came after her with entire police force and slaps a kidnap case against her? Nothing

Just because Anandi is not using the rights that nature as well as law and of course nurturing too that doesn't mean she is weak or ineffectual.

Anandi as CC has made a much bigger impact on that child than Mangala did in her entire 11 years and this is not just because Anandi is rich and educated but her total personality.If Mangala thinks that she can keep the child away from CC then also she is wrong.

But unfortunately the way things are looking right now Mangala in all her stupidity will ignore Anandi's rights as well as the factors that give more power to Anandi and gets to walk away with the child taking advantage the child's trust in her and Anandi's goodness🤢

@red True.Anandi's problems are because of the flaw in her personality This problem has nothing to do with her educational status or financial status..As per the CVs she is a human being and not some divine character or some super woman to be devoid of flaws.

She is a good woman who has a few flaws which give her and others problems in an other wise virtuous pure hearted character with good intentions at all times.

Nimboli was alive because of Akheraj and Harki's own compulsions.She is kept alive by them because they wanted to wash off the dosh in Kundan's Kundali and not just because of Mangala

Punishments and beatings starvings never really scarred the child's psyche even though those punishments were at times dangerous and life threatening because even Harki and Kamili were subjected to violence by Akheraj and Kundan.

But what bothered the child was this constant taunts about her being foundling and being treated like an unwanted baggage. Mangala also endorsed Akheraj's story about the child being found in garbage bin.This is what has damaged the child most.

So it can't be said that Mangala protected her from every violence.She may have been succesful in protecting that child at times from physical abuse but she took an active part in emotional abuse all these 11 years.

Anandi can be blamed for her kids' suffering now but that Anandi's inaction or inertia are not the reason for what Mangala is doing with the kids now.

Anandi took her baby to an unsafe location but of course kidnapping was something totally unexpected. Whereas Mangala knows that there has been a rape attempt on Nimboli few times already still she wants to take her there. Who is more wise or foolish?

I will definitely not call Mangala foolish. She is just plain selfish. If she was a real mother she may not have thought about Jhalra. Okay she can't provide education because it was a hostile environment earlier. But what about now? There is Anandi and a bright future in front of Nimboli still she wants to take her away from all this. What will you  say to this?