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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: kase

 
Agree , what I am saying is also that she doesnt need anyone in her life as she has hands full. Only commenting on the focus part - her way of dealing with what is her focus (children) : She has to visibly demonstrate thru action on what is her focus instead of crying in front of the manipluating Mn and sitting on the whole thing for months together
 
She is the main lead,  but somewhere her character has been completely ruined in the recent track.. And cant justify her actions by any logic

@red - They wanted episodes to fill as many months as possible.

They can't make Anandi commit wrong deeds so they slow her down ðŸ˜›

If one thing Anandi is scared of it is the people whom she loves most so they used her fear of her daughter's hatred to drag the story

Mangala doesn't have scruples when it comes to her self interests

So they have enough to frustrate the viewers and drag it so that people who want to watch the mother daughter re union will continue to watch

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Posted: 8 years ago
Well Anandi is not bound by the society.If she gave a thought to what people say about her she wouldn't have retained her relationship with Singhs nor would she have moved in with Singhs.
Her life after her husband died left her no scope to think about herself.There have always been too many things happening in her life she always had her plate full be it before Skhekhars left or after she shifted to Jaitser. She had to take care of her son search for her lost baby and all her remaining time and energy was diverted to SN.

Anandi had enough and more things to keep her occupied.Tomorrow even if her children move away having grown up she will have enough to keep her occupied.She may be alone but won't feel that she is leading barren existence or won't feel lonely because she ensures that she doesn't have time to think about herself.

Mangala may have been illiterate but nobody has stopped her from going out of the house or coming in.Nobody stopped her from having a life for herself.In her society - temple is a place to socialise and meet women like her and she could have actively involved herself in temple related activities.Temples and other places of worship do involve themselves in lot of charitable activities.Illiteracy is not hinderance there.She could have done something for herself in that set up but she chose to lead an empty existence If having someone to care for is the only thing that gives her purpose she should get married again.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Why is getting married  the only option left for Mangala if she has to part with Nimboli?


She can also adopt another child. Or can choose to live with Kamli and Pushkar and become that extra support in Kamli's life and help in raising kamli's kids if she ever has them. After all, kamli's own mother has  already deserted her.

For now, Mangala just needs to know that letting go off Nimboli (however hard it may be) is the right things  to do. It doesn't mean she has to marry someone. 

Mangala can very well adopt another child or do many other things apart from marrying an available Anant, for whom neither she is the right match nor he is for her. 

Anant is reserved for Anandi. It is loud and clear in the show.

If makers want M to marry in future, they may design a Mangala centric suitor for her. 

Anant is Anandi centric. 
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Posted: 8 years ago
From the episodes - it does not seem that Mangala needs a child - she is attached with Nimboli and adopting another child might not be the solution. She has to accept the reality - that the child's biological mother has been found and the child should go to her mother even if she is an irresponsible mother - the child has to regain her identity. Jhalra was not the place where she belonged. 
Marriage to Anant is being suggested ðŸ˜› we know the reason - because some people do not want Anandi to marry Anant. But Anant wants Anandi - let her reject him - saying M could marry Anant is useless.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: SPuja

From the episodes - it does not seem that Mangala needs a child - she is attached with Nimboli and adopting another child might not be the solution. She has to accept the reality - that the child's biological mother has been found and the child should go to her mother even if she is an irresponsible mother - the child has to regain her identity. Jhalra was not the place where she belonged. 

Marriage to Anant is being suggested ðŸ˜› we know the reason - because some people do not want Anandi to marry Anant. But Anant wants Anandi - let her reject him - saying M could marry Anant is useless.

Well said - at bold