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Is this the love Mangala wants? - Page 2

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Posted: 8 years ago
Who cares what Mangala wants? This is not her story, she isn't the lead. Is this what Anandi wants? After getting to know the identity of her daughter without doing anything for it, and even after living with her for quite some time thereafter, she is satisfied with tons of hugs and giving expensive gifts and showcasing her school while the girl continues to live like a guest unaware of her identity? She destroyed this girl's life and still not taking any action to rectify the situation...

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Posted: 8 years ago
Now that we know the child's current condition is also Anandi's responsibility the whole problem is solved. That means Mangala herself is no where in the picture. 
The truth is Mangala is a no one to the child and always it's the parents who are responsible for their children. 

I totally agree and am happy with the fact that people understand this and are happy to sideline Mangala and give all power to Anandi which is the right thing. 

I also agree Anandi is wholly responsible for her child and no one else has any right on her. She needs to take control of the situation and throw unnecessary garbage out of the house. I'm sure dadisa is going to do the honours very soon. 

Also Nandini will soon see the truth so that link also can be easily broken. 
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Posted: 8 years ago
What to say when Anandi herself has become unnecessary garbage. She wants all her work to be done by others - she has been reduced to a weak person good enough to give hollow speeches.
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Posted: 8 years ago
For that matter, its quite nice to know that people have also accepted that it's Anandi who was at fault for losing her child, and she is still at fault for not giving her, her identity. Finally, Anandi's faults are being accepted as her faults (which are otherwise every other character's mistakes except hers). 


Mangala still has it to her credits for raising a subnormal child, (the one thats was lost by Anandi) for 11 years. She also has to it her credits for getting Akhiraj punished and for becoming the reason of bringing the mother-daughter duo together.  

It's unfortunate that Anandi has no credits on her. She  only forms the reasons for Nandini's pain and miseries  for all her life. 




Edited by Missesha - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
This content was originally posted by: Missesha

For that matter, its quite nice to know that people have also accepted that it's Anandi who was at fault for losing her child, and she is still at fault for not giving her, her identity. Finally, Anandi's faults are being accepted as her faults (which are otherwise every other character's mistakes except hers). 



Mangala still has it to her credits for raising a subnormal child, (the one thats was lost by Anandi) for 11 years. She also has to it her credits for getting Akhiraj punished and for becoming the reason of bringing the mother-daughter duo together.  

It's unfortunate that Anandi has no credits on her. She  only forms the reasons for Nandini's pain and miseries  for all her life. 





Yes, so far Anandi has only caused miseries on this girl. Mangala at least saved and brought up the child. Was the reason of identifying the child. Anandi did nothing for her even after getting the child on platter. And now it's expected that Mangala should have facilitated mother child bonding/interaction, DS/Ganga/J should straighten Mangala, Chakor should tell who is her mother etc. Means everything should be done by others - Anandi is there to weep in dadisa's lap and hug the girl, give expansive gifts and go to various temples to fulfill her wishes.
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Posted: 8 years ago
It's Anandi's weakness and kindness  that has allowed Mangala to survive so long in BH. If left to Ganga or dadisa they would've kicked her out long back. 
Anandi is wholly responsible for whatever happens to her child. She is the mother and no other person holds rights to that. Whether it is credits or responsibility all of it will definitely go to her. Mangala holds none. 


Which credit is Mangala holding? Raising a sub normal child? What is definition of raising a child? Which duties of raising has she done? If she has credits of cooking and feeding her till a certain number of years ( because we have seen Nimboli herself cooking for others and herself starving) then even chagni and Kamli hold the same rights. These three ladies have contributed in giving some solace to the slave of the house. Other than that I've not seen any raising a child qualities. She was the worst treated member in that  house. 


No one is expecting Mangala to facilitate the mother child bonding. But expectations from her are to stop poisoning the child's young mind and to get lost from that house. All she's doing there is just damage to the child's mind and steal their property. All the while eating and living like a queen in that haveli while lying through her teeth. Totally ungrateful character. And what amazing upbringing?  Almost got raped  and soon that child will  turn into a nervous wreck
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Now the child is 11 years old and she wants her mother back and willing to accept her even if she has thrown her in garbage bin as long as she knows that her mother wants her now.

If the child is willing to give her mother a chance even after she threw her in garbage bin the question of her not accepting her mother because she lost while trying to save another child doesn't arise anymore.


While Anandi is at fault now for not establishing a proper communication channel and get her daughter to trust her enough to come to her it is Mangala who is doing injustice to a child deliberately by feeding her lies.




Let us forget Anandi's past mistake. Why is she repeating that mistake by allowing the child to get hurt over and again? She had a god-sent opportunity at the mela. She was alone, her daughter's mind had opened up to accepting her mother and Anandi foolishly and unnecessarily imagined rejection by the child and fluffed a chance to set the record straight.

If she couldn't tell N the truth in the most favourable circumstance, if that opportune time was not right, there never will be a right time.

Anandi caused her infant's life to be destroyed. She got an opportunity to rectify that mistake and she again foolishly, carelessly lost it. She looked at Nimboli from her own intrest rather than the child's interest. If N's mind had become receptive to accepting her mother, she would have been happiest knowing CC whom she liked so much was her mother.

By waiting for the right opportunity which will never come, she has allowed N to slip away from her.

When will she ever learn?
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Posted: 8 years ago
How will Anandi throw someone else out when she herself leaves as refugee  and that too forever in other people's places?

Anyways,  let Anandi develop some guts and do atleast something for her daughter apart from crying in Dsa's laps. 

So far Anandi has zero contribution in N's life. 




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Posted: 8 years ago
Just as DB could not be blamed for Anoop going astray, Mangala cannot be blamed for Anandi's reluctance and fear to own up her child.

Is she so foolish that she cannot connect the dots? Can't she see that Mangala is not bringing the mother and child closer?

What is this fear all about? Why would N reject her CC? If N does reject Anandi so be it. Isn't it better N knows her real identity than believe herself to be an orphan thrown into the bin? What is more damaging to the child? The first or second?

I'm saying all this from the position that Mangala is evil.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Simply saying Mangala is doing everything to keep nimboli with her and Anandi doing nothing to get back her daughter.
At this point both mangala and anandi is responsible for nimboli bad state.

Both the mothers r failed to understand daughter. 

now i will say both dont deserve to be mother of nimboli.

Mangala thought with meeting strange lady nimboli will forget her mother but she has increased her pain , and she is enjoying that now child will remain with me , i will win the battle.

and mother anandi is happy that at least nimboli is staying with her but she is so blind that cant see sad face of nimboli. the girl is going from some emotional stroke. But what that stroke she dont know. rather she is not trying to know. Anandi is taking advance step that i will teach karate etc to nimboli .