Krystal...Hi. while I am a massive SwaSan fan, I do agree with you on one thing: Sanskaar's actions in the past were misplaced and vindictive. I dont dispute that.
My point is very simple: as human beings, our expectations of loyalty, trust, affection and constancy are MORE from the people who have an important place in our lives. ...not from those who have only a tangential role.
For example, I have higher expectations from my husband, my parents than I have from my husband's cousins. Or from my assorted uncles or aunts.
Ergo, it also follows, that if someone very close to me violates that bond of trust, I would feel more hurt, more betrayed than if this was done by someone not so close to me.
I'm just saying, that at the time Sanskaar did all this horrible stuff, he was not anyone really important to Swara. He repented sincerely, and has been a complete bedrock of support to her since then.
Lakshya was her fiance. He didn't trust her, maligned her in front of his whole family, and kept trying to degrade her after she entered the home as his sister in law.
Mind you, I am not saying this is unforgivable. He was impulsive, impetuous, and frankly speaking, juvenile. But his behavior, till then, was inexcusable without being unforgivable.
But my simple question to you is this: and please, please, reply as a woman, as a human being. Not as a Lakshya fan. Has he just repented for that and sought forgiveness? Or is he also seeking to browbeat swara into coming back to his life?
She has already forgiven him right? And has told him clearly, that she has done so? She has also told him clearly, about 2 dozen times, that she does not want to resume their relationship and will not come back to his life.
My feeling that Lakshya is doing something very wrong now, is based purely on his coercion, harassment and stalking of Swara. You may want to accept it or not, but after Sanskaar's realization of his love, he never once tried to force Swara. He didn't try to emotionally blackmail her, nor did he ever even once withdraw his friendship.
I am open for a genuine, cordial discussion Krystal. But before casting stones on SwaSan fans, I think you ought also to recognise that there are SwaLak fans who make inflammatory posts simply to provoke. Which was done yesterday by someone else, I am not blaming you personally.
This is all I have to say, and I hope that you will be able to stick to the same cordiality with which I have replied. If not, then well, this is the last you will hear from me on this matter.
Thanks for your time
Cheers
Edited by CogitoErgoSum - 8 years ago
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