Is this Mangala as a mother - Page 5

Nandini has gone thru physical, verbal as well as emotional abuse. Telling a child repeatedly she is unwanted and treating her as garbage ...can damage her psyche as well as brain development. And to add to that lack of education has resulted in a stunted mental growth in her. If some people think ...she is behaving immaturely or like a small child...thats coz she is showing signs of Behavioral and learning problems. her not being able to remember shivam's name and confusing it every time...is a perfect example. 

This comparison of Anandi yielding to Dsa's wishes and Nandini bowing down before Mangala's wishes was brought out only to highlight how similar Anandi and Nandini are.

Originally posted by: Khaamekhan

Nandini has gone thru physical, verbal as well as emotional abuse. Telling a child repeatedly she is unwanted and treating her as garbage ...can damage her psyche as well as brain development. And to add to that lack of education has resulted in a stunted mental growth in her. If some people think ...she is behaving immaturely or like a small child...thats coz she is showing signs of Behavioral and learning problems. her not being able to remember shivam's name and confusing it every time...is a perfect example. 

A child prospers with love and acceptance...and if those are lacking in early childhood ...it negatively affects their normal emotional development. There is a marked difference in Shivam's behavior and hers. Learning skills are developed in early childhood. Her intelligence have not been able to develop thru academics...such kids don't ask a lot of questions. 

And Mangla is not capable to recognize or provide emotional nourishment to her. Coz only thru emotional nourishment and patience can the damage be repaired.

I wish Anandi starts the process of education and can recognize her limitations asap. 

  

Originally posted by: SPuja

@bold - this is not possible. Mangala belongs to Jhalra. The sooner she goes there - the better. And why would she help anandi in getting close to the girl? She already told the truth that she cannot live without her to J. Her character butchered after that - it is another story.

And no, Mangala is not being treated well, she is just being tolerated and she knows it.

Mahi thinks anandi may not throw m out

But you are saying this is not possible

How can you predict this?

You told us if we think we   can read writers mind when we were predicting about m

Also you blamed us for predicting before it happened

Now you are predicting it? 😆Edited by hisusmita - 8 years ago

Originally posted by: SPuja

The underlined part only shows your bias. Mangala loves the girl. Her present behaviour is to stop Nimboli to going over to these wealthy people. She cannot afford all this - and she wants the girl with her.

@bold is funny - why would the girl claim to be Nandini? she does not know the truth. The sooner she learns the better.

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When it was shown that she cant afgord to give her those things so she does not want her to get used of these?


It was clealy shown she does not want her to be close to anandi as well as bh people as she is determined that she will not let n go to anandi

Sick woman

Don't understand why people are thinking it is because of the wealth that she is preventing the child geeting closer to these people.

I feel pitty for the child first she was torturred harassed in Akhiraj house by Harki Akhiraj n Kundan now here in her own house n family she is still being tortured abuse psychologically by Mangla well wat to expect from Akhiraj n his family members Mangla  Edited by saaniakh - 8 years ago

The first thing that went into my mind when I saw shiva my talking to Nandini was Anandi should take control of her education. She doesn't need to take anyone's permission. She's her mother and has the full right to take her to school. A lot of time has been wasted in so many years and now no more.

mangala is ready to give food to nandini she is ready to give education to nandini she is ready to give dress to nandini .but mangala dont want anandi to do anything for her daughter

mangala has not problem with nandini wearing frock .she has problem because anandi gave that frock

if in place of anandi other person would have given frock then mangala would not have any objection nandini wearing that frock

mangala is irritated not because why nandini getting all comforts .she is irritaed because anandi providing all those comforts to nandini she think if anandi keep going on taking care of nandini then nandini may leave mangala forever and will go to her biloigical mother forever such type of prejudice making mangala irritate

She didn't think twice before pulling the zip hard on the child's back. Just for the sake that Nimboli shouldn't turn into Nandini she can go to any extent. This lady is turning psychotic indeed. It's not good behaviour.