If it looks like Anandi is lost that is because she is lost without Shiv and it doesn't mean that she needs another man to find herself.She can very well find herself in Shivam Nandini and the good work that she does through Shiv Niketan.
The woman whom Shiv met was a woman with low self esteem and was under the impression that what she did as a woman was not enough to make a man happy and had insecurities about that.
The woman whom Shiv left behind was a very confident woman who was though shattered after her husband's death she was able to pick up pieces and continue with life and she would have been content as a mother taking care of her children doing social work and helping the family sort out their problems.
But Nandini's kidnap and childmarriage changed everything for her. This time it is not the woman who is shattered and lost that she needs to find herself with the help and support of another man.
It is the mother who failed in keeping her daughter safe.For that she needs her children and the love, trust and respect from her children to find herself.
Since her daughter is lost because of her zeal to help others in distress and her social commitment that came between her and her daughter she might as well use those very same things to find her daughter and find herself.
If some people want to help her out of gratitude towards her it's fine but what she has to do she has to do it on her own.
Edited by aparnauma - 8 years ago