Okay no need to worry. The "wise sage" hippopotamus is here to help. Please do following
1- Calm down and have some a) water or b) if weather is 40 degree+ lemonade
2- Take a paper and neatly write the prediction of astrologer on a piece of paper
3- Throw that paper in trash can - that is its worth
4- I totally get your point of view. I never understood marrying girls at such a young age. Stopping their career and forcing them to marry and send them packing to a totally new place where new people are there ready to judge them and find issues in them and ready to be her guardian and all.
5- However then there is this cultural thing as well. In the end girls themselves worry about it and I saw in other topic you were mentioning that for others. So I am guessing you care about it
Here are your options
1- You dont love anyone at this moment anyway. So even if you try to follow praneeti chopra and run away its not possible..there is no one to run away with. You wont like it anywway. SO not an option
2- Talk to parents and say right now I am doing this degree and let me finish it. Give them deadline that I would marry at 26-27..so give me few years. They will get some satisfaction. I see girls marrying around that age. Gone are days of marrying at 22.
Then hopefully during those 3-4 years. someone will enter in black attire..running towards you. With you swinging downhill
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HTjh1Py0yAg[/YOUTUBE]
If this does not happen then I am sure there is arrange marriage waiting anyway
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TgQ1Hlz0avA[/YOUTUBE]
you can replace doli with local tradition as needed.
In conclusion i advise you to talk to them and give your plan. That is the only way out considering your background and culture. I think they will understand. It is not asking for too much.
Wise Sage Hippopotamus
Resident Love Guru
IF, Earth
Edited by hippopotamus - 8 years ago