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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: librapiscesarie

its not abt mending parag..

it is being compatible

what helll has she done with parg - (itna dirty loud mouth bhashan jhaadti hain).

other than producing kids and jhula jhulana in krishna janamashtmi...

ths gujjus get married off at 18.

why hell she did not convert his poetic skills in profession, be it small stage or books etc

why not?

he may not be industrious or a beaver as chirag, but he had his skills...why this useless janako and kokila did not make him earning Man...

instead of now turning herself into a frustrated and controlling woman

One can earn good amount of money as a poet or a writer. Kokila herself is not perfect in her life & she interferes in others.

But who is there in MB to tell her this?

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sharoon3210

One can earn good amount of money as a poet or a writer. Kokila herself is not perfect in her life & she interferes in others.

But who is there in MB to tell her this?

we hv got to see saathiya since these two ladies(kokila/hetal) in their 40s...

it apparently appears sab log uska maan sammaan dete hain, coz she has done quiet a lot to the house to kp it strong...it looks that way...coz everytime hetal and that never-dying 😡baa has always said that ...

it means, i think...😎 😎 right from the beggining that alzheimers- nani & kokila have had strong hold inside modi bhavan than poor-hetal...and her maayka

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pyaaribehna

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: ani_gr
Not just Radha, Kinjal too...her own daughter.. Kokila could not mend her daughter, now she is up to mending Meera...😕

Kinjal does not need "mending" No more than Kokila herself.

Kinjal is suffering Urmila only because of Kokila.

On top of that Kokila does not give any of the things that Urmila asked. "money" for Urmila's "beauty parlor" needs. Money for Urmila's expenditure so on and so forth.

Kinjal alone suffers living in chawl "thanks" to Kokila

Still they will put the blame on Kinjal that she ruined her own marriage chances. May be and then landed up with Dhaval. Who is nice by the way. But Urmiia the chorni and Urmila the embezzler is still the same.

Actually Kinjal could not bring Urmila to "track" and Urmila should have been reported to police for "advertising" for "selling" Dhaval to Pooja and also for trying to marry Dhaval off to a girl in Canada.

All this Urmila did only for the sake of money. Money she did not get by marrying Kinjal to Dhaval.

Kokila gives sermons bhashans etvc etc. But she hit the mud in front of Radha and "kissed" the ground. and shamelessly she is boasting about it to Meera.

And Kinjal turned negative only because of Urmila and her kalakaris.

In fact Kokila is most ineffective when it comes to "refining" people.

Be it Ahem, Radha, Meera , Rashi, Urmila Paridhi etc.

She is vociferous only when Gopi bahu is around and kicking. Otherwise she is in hibernation stage. Like Meera went missing for eight years and Gopi left MB. Radha lived there happily doing what she wanted. Nobody had a clue as to what Radha is doing. leave alone making Radha "good".

And then again when Gopi bahu went jail. Kokila was naukrani to Urmila. And she was not even knowing that Urmila was faking it. So much for her "converting' others.

Kinjal went around with Umang. Ahem with Anita. But Ahem got a girl , luxury and had the freedom to vent his anger on Gopi.

Kinjal had to put up with Urmila and also because Kokila did not give in to Urmila's demands.

Now only person who needs fixing is Kokila. Then she can fix others.

Edited by pyaaribehna - 8 years ago

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pyaaribehna

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: sharoon3210
I think Kokila left to Urmi to mend Kinjal.😆

Urmil who has "duplicate" keys to get into Modi Bhavan.

Urmila who can climb up the pipe to get into Modi Bhavan.

Urmila who steals in her own house from her own nephew and nephew's wife

Urmila who wants hefty dowry for marrying a girl with badnaam like Kinjal only for that reason.

Urmila who embezzled money from MB through Rashi for eight years and built Rashi mansion.

Urmila who does not even care for Dhaval's own son even though the kid lives in the same house.

Urmila who plotted so much against Gopi (Gopi gawar in her own words)

That Urmila is going to "mend" Kinjal?

It is better that one person does not mend at all.

I wish Kinjal "mends" Urmila and fix her. That would be great.

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pyaaribehna

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: touch_of_pink

You can't slap a 20 year old. That simply does not work. They need to talk to her and be completely open with her. This is all a consequence of shielding her from the true. As a result, she has no trust in them and thinks they only want bad for her.

My grandmother always says that during the teenage years, it's important for parents to set boundaries for their children and keep them on the right track. However, when they reach adulthood, it's important for the parents to become friends with their children.

Jigar and Paridhi look like they have achieved this with Tolu-Molu. Although Vidya had a deprived childhood, she managed to stick to the right path. On the other hand, Gopi and Ahem have been absent for huge periods of Meera's life. Gopi's ended up failing to have any proper parental bond with Meera. Ahem doesn't seem to have been a hands-on dad in Mumbai. Looks like he handed over the responsibility to Mansi.

Meera is almost an orphan as a child. A two year old on the doorsteps of the temple.

Threatened and hurt by Radha over and over again.

And then she went back to Modi Bhavan as a grown up kid. Ten year old. But she got Gopi's love and affection only for a year or so.

her troubled childhood the violence by Radha on her as a kid not a ten year old kid but a two year old. that kind of made her into what she is now.

And she never had a bond with Gopi that much as a mom for a long time.

As for Vidya she was loved by Gopi cared for for eight years. That is why she is kind of better.

On top of that Ahem told lies about Gopi and poisoned her mind against Gopi. Now he is "reaping" the result of his own actons.

Meera needs counselling needs to speak out to a therapist, share her fears, phobias worries, anger everything. May be a group session. including Gopi.

So that she understands many things which she does not now.

Kokila Modi and her bhashan plus sadistic smile is the last thing Meera needs.

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: librapiscesarie

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we hv got to see saathiya since these two ladies(kokila/hetal) in their 40s...

it apparently appears sab log uska maan sammaan dete hain, coz she has done quiet a lot to the house to kp it strong...it looks that way...coz everytime hetal and that never-dying 😡baa has always said that ...

it means, i think...😎 😎 right from the beggining that alzheimers- nani & kokila have had strong hold inside modi bhavan than poor-hetal...and her maayka

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kavita

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: pyaaribehna

Meera is almost an orphan as a child. A two year old on the doorsteps of the temple.

Threatened and hurt by Radha over and over again.

And then she went back to Modi Bhavan as a grown up kid. Ten year old. But she got Gopi's love and affection only for a year or so.

her troubled childhood the violence by Radha on her as a kid not a ten year old kid but a two year old. that kind of made her into what she is now.

And she never had a bond with Gopi that much as a mom for a long time.

As for Vidya she was loved by Gopi cared for for eight years. That is why she is kind of better.

On top of that Ahem told lies about Gopi and poisoned her mind against Gopi. Now he is "reaping" the result of his own actons.

Meera needs counselling needs to speak out to a therapist, share her fears, phobias worries, anger everything. May be a group session. including Gopi.

So that she understands many things which she does not now.

Kokila Modi and her bhashan plus sadistic smile is the last thing Meera needs.

Kokila's way of parenting is very bad. She did not discipline Kinjal or give her any household responsibilities but she is now telling Meera & Vidya to take the responsibility. That is very bad. Meera should be allowed to let out her feelings till she is satisfied or till she cries. Then she should be told about what happened with her & how Radha was & why Gopi killed her.

That is one & only solution to reform Meera.

I am waiting for that episode.

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kavita

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: touch_of_pink

You can't slap a 20 year old. That simply does not work. They need to talk to her and be completely open with her. This is all a consequence of shielding her from the true. As a result, she has no trust in them and thinks they only want bad for her.

My grandmother always says that during the teenage years, it's important for parents to set boundaries for their children and keep them on the right track. However, when they reach adulthood, it's important for the parents to become friends with their children.

Jigar and Paridhi look like they have achieved this with Tolu-Molu. Although Vidya had a deprived childhood, she managed to stick to the right path. On the other hand, Gopi and Ahem have been absent for huge periods of Meera's life. Gopi's ended up failing to have any proper parental bond with Meera. Ahem doesn't seem to have been a hands-on dad in Mumbai. Looks like he handed over the responsibility to Mansi.

What your granny said is correct. That is what is done in western countries. Immediately after the children cross their teens, they are given all the freedom. The same thing is said in Sanskrit sloka.

When Tolu & Molu accused Gopi about her killing Radha, Paridhi whacked them before telling them the full story. Instead of slapping them, she should have blasted them & told them the truth.

Even Kokila beat up the person nearing 50 years with the stick. The person is none other than Ahem. She looked like a typical chawl wali.

Ahem slapped Meera for eloping away with Sanskaar & misbehaving with Gopi. He should have drawn the boundaries for the girls in their teens which he didn't. Even Mansi let them loose.

Edited by sharoon3210 - 8 years ago

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