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Posted: 8 years ago
For me, main reason for liking  Mangala is not for her love for Nimboli. It is because of her love and compassion towards everyone around. She loves Kamli, cares for her. Harki treats her badly - still she cares for Harki also. With limited means - she is doing all that she can for others also as well as to survive in this harsh world. 
But I admit, initially (in that first holi scene when she was taking a bath) she looked more like a psycho - it was only later -  after seeing her kindness towards others and her position in the family - that I start thinking that she is a good person - with her own limitations.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Well she wanted to play holi andduring Kamili's wedding she wanted Mehendi.She has a lot of unfulfilled desires which is natural for anyone in her position.She was widowed at a very young age and made to deprive herself of so many things in life. I wouldn't blame her is she hankers after those small pleasures
She has no outlet to express her thoughts nor satisfy her desires so she used Devi act and people did fall for it because it is a common belief in that community.She could have done more than just using it for protection or satisfying her small desires.Devi act was a weapon and she could have used it much more effectively than she did.


Caring for Nimboli is out of fulfilling her desire to have a chid of her own.Nimboli is nobody's child.
It is just that Nimboli has not given her the place of her mother despite not knwoing what mother is all about.

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Posted: 8 years ago
Mangala could have done a lot more-----
Ananid could have done a lot lot more. She could search for her daughter instead of teaching J  how to behave with his kid. Anandi could have saved saritha and pooja without involving nandini in it. Otherwise she could have just saved her daughter first for taking over the responsibility of a mom. Anandi could have made her stand clear and stayed at her own home in KB...yes she could have done a lot lot more. Unfortunately we don't do all that we could. 

Ganga could have done a lot more...J could have...DS could have...All could have done a lot more -- just for themselves and not for anyone to avoid the ugly situations  they are facing in thier own families. 

But here we focus on a woman who is already doing a lot more than what she needs to do...for other helpless women like nandini and kamili...
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Posted: 8 years ago
Well Anandi is criticised and every act of hers is dissected and analysed
Dadisa's every act was dissected and analysed  

Ganga's too

Then why not Mangala's? Why let sympathy factor for her circumstances  and her love for that little girl prevent from seeing her what she is?

Why is it so difficult to accept that the lady is deprived and she needs Nandini as a reason to live and she needs Nandini more than Nandini needs her?
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: aparnauma

Well she wanted to play holi andduring Kamili's wedding she wanted Mehendi.She has a lot of unfulfilled desires which is natural for anyone in her position.She was widowed at a very young age and made to deprive herself of so many things in life. I wouldn't blame her is she hankers after those small pleasures

She has no outlet to express her thoughts nor satisfy her desires so she used Devi act and people did fall for it because it is a common belief in that community.She could have done more than just using it for protection or satisfying her small desires.Devi act was a weapon and she could have used it much more effectively than she did.


Caring for Nimboli is out of fulfilling her desire to have a chid of her own.Nimboli is nobody's child.
It is just that Nimboli has not given her the place of her mother despite not knwoing what mother is all about.


Bold - Aparna, you have said this many times. but sorry, I cant see what more she could have done.

What do you think, what should she have done ?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Bold - Aparna, you have said this many times. but sorry, I cant see what more she could have done.

What do you think, what should she have done ?

She could have used it for the benefit people around her like the villagers 
She didn't expect that Gopal will be killed but she could have used it later to get justice for Gopal's parents who wanted the culprit to be caught. Why couldn't she do that?
She was upset that Gopal was  hunted in killed for because he was from different community and killed because he dared to love a girl who is above his station.If she felt it is injustice what prevented her from using Devi act?
She is ignorant and un educated so she doesn't know the power of education  agreed  but she knows that women are being treated badly not just at her home but in the community which she is part of. She could have used it for their benefit.
She could have become the voice of all those women
What stopped her?
She only uses it for her benefit and Nimboli's benefit and once she used it for Kamili's benefit.

She could have used this weapon for a better purpose for the benefit of the society around her.

That little girl uses her cunningness and lies to help people who can't fight for themselves be it that other little girl who is not a family.She gets into trouble because she is too young and her methods are childish but she still uses them for the benefit of others without caring whether she gets into trouble or not. S
The lady suppressed this helping nature of that little girl too.The girl who could have evolved and grown better by taking knocks while trying to help others. She clipped the little girl's wings and turning her into another Mangala.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: aparnauma

Well Anandi is criticised and every act of hers is dissected and analysed

Dadisa's every act was dissected and analysed  

Ganga's too

Then why not Mangala's? Why let sympathy factor for her circumstances  and her love for that little girl prevent from seeing her what she is?

Why is it so difficult to accept that the lady is deprived and she needs Nandini as a reason to live and she needs Nandini more than Nandini needs her?



Mangala has not done anything to find fault with. It is only someone who consistently says the same thing against Mangala again and again.  The problem is someone wants only anandi to be everywhere and anandi should not have any competition from anyone. Only anandi, shivam and nimboli. A small world to the exclusion of everyone.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Mangala has not done anything to find fault with. It is only someone who consistently says the same thing against Mangala again and again.  The problem is someone wants only anandi to be everywhere and anandi should not have any competition from anyone. Only anandi, shivam and nimboli. A small world to the exclusion of everyone.

You can think what you like
But the fact remains that the CVs are showing what exactly is needed to survive and fight the Akherajs of the world by accentuating the deficits in these women which make them victims of Akhera's atrocities.
The fact is that these women lack something or other to take on Akheraj so he is thriving because of the deficits in these women
If people want to show sympathy and ignore the draw backs in them which makes them put up with Akheraj that 's fine by me.


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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: aparnauma

She could have used it for the benefit people around her like the villagers 
She didn't expect that Gopal will be killed but she could have used it later to get justice for Gopal's parents who wanted the culprit to be caught. Why couldn't she do that?
She was upset that Gopal was  hunted in killed for because he was from different community and killed because he dared to love a girl who is above his station.If she felt it is injustice what prevented her from using Devi act?
She is ignorant and un educated so she doesn't know the power of education  agreed  but she knows that women are being treated badly not just at her home but in the community which she is part of. She could have used it for their benefit.
She could have become the voice of all those women
What stopped her?
She only uses it for her benefit and Nimboli's benefit and once she used it for Kamili's benefit.

She could have used this weapon for a better purpose for the benefit of the society around her.

That little girl uses her cunningness and lies to help people who can't fight for themselves be it that other little girl who is not a family.She gets into trouble because she is too young and her methods are childish but she still uses them for the benefit of others without caring whether she gets into trouble or not. S
The lady suppressed this helping nature of that little girl too.The girl who could have evolved and grown better by taking knocks while trying to help others. She clipped the little girl's wings and turning her into another Mangala.


Mangala is a widow. She has her limitations. The villagers will first of all not accept her even if she takes an initiative and be a social reformer. 

If at all she became a social reformer, it would not go with her devima act because devima is a superstition, while social reform is not. She cant act devimaa at the same time be a social reformer. 

Anandi's case was different. She was not a widow. When jagya dumped her, Bhairo and entire family including dadisa stood behind her. 

Whose support did mangala have? She is forever confined to her room. If she had run away, she would have been a loser. Not everyone finds a savior. And good CVs did not show everyone finding a savior.

Now you may say, dadisa was also a widow with 2 sons. How she did it?  At least she had the support of 2 boys. Raising boys in different from raising a girl (had she gone with nimboli). Secondly, would not akhiraj find her and kill her? A widow running away from house, would be more shameful to him than marrying someone from a lower caste.

Whatever mangala has done so far, she has done it very tactfully. She is firm where she is. When akhiraj locked nimboli in the room after beating her up, she did challenge him and broke the lock.

Regarding Gopal's justice, she has not given it up. She even asked kamli not to commit suicide so that she could see justice being served to him.

So I feel mangala is very realistic and not at all selfish. She is nowhere portrayed as a selfish woman.


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Posted: 8 years ago
Mangala and Nimboli scenes have become repetitive. There is no more novelty in them.

Now Nimboli will be in trouble because of the new arrival. And Mangla will be the mediator.

The less said of Kundan, the better.

Yes, it is time Nimboli meets anandi. Gets an education. Gets to know her real family.

Even Akheraj and Harki have become repetitive.

Kamli's motherinlaw is more interesting than Pushkar.  Pushkar is boring.

How long this new family will run on the strength of Nimboli?

In all this they have completely sidelined Shivam.

Too much of Nimboli, too little of Shivam.

Nimboli imitating Akheraj was silly and Mangla acting as Sambhandan also fell flat.

Seems Mangala desperately wants to get married, wear bindi, wear colored clothes, loves mehendi and play holi.

Dadisa may help her in finding a groom.

Anandi is the only woman who does not miss marriage and related things.

These are the real issues that is bothering viewers. Not Mangala. Mangala has outlived her utility.
She is another chagnni somewhat better in status.
Edited by leavesandwaves - 8 years ago