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Posted: 15 May 2015 at 10:43am | IP Logged
Originally posted by blue5sky

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Hey people how was your day!
Mine was LOOONG. Finally it's Friday night!Embarrassed


Mine was okayish and boring Sleepy

Bohot pad liya kya?

Was that why it was boring?


Yes LOL

How do you know me so well Asma Embarrassed

Been there done that Big smileHug

Hahahha

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Posted: 15 May 2015 at 10:46am | IP Logged
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Taken a day off to get over my stupid pollen allergies... N while resting I read 2.5 threads worth of updates...
Thanks Ishruhi or Noufia for pointing me to the new thread else wouldnt have found it.
Ok coming to the story : II ... I have major problems with theway she is being stupid and adamant. If she says she is middle class, the first thing a middle class person is taught is only failao legs only within your chadar's limit... As in spend according to your budget... A typical middle class person would first check balance before spending. She is all ashamed aswell as pissed off about the fact thatR&B gave her money... She fought tooth n nail... Got herself sick about it... Taunts her hubby thathe is ashamed of middle class wife but then herself doesnt practice any middle class behavior... I for a fact know we all check our balances before any big spend.. i.e. Even if its above 4000 I pay from my debit card... But II spends without a worry. N then taunts R&B about being ashamed of middle class wife!!
She wants R&B to let her do her manmani..any word about her stupidy and her tears come flowing, I dont mind people who cry... But people who cry and make others guilty when they are being shown the mirror for all right reasons, I have a problem with them... My sister sometimes does that n it drives me up the wall...
N most importantly, what is she??? She KNOWS shravu stole!! Stealing... Whether itsa pencil box/a book/ an ipad... Its all the same... Its the act and not the worth of the article stolen... N she goes and registers him and nandu for some fun outing?!?!? I dont knowabout others, but if I were her, I wouldlet Shravu n Nandu be for atleast a few weekends before I pamper them... I have a nephew... Love him to bits... He is responsible for my big splurge every month... But when my sister is descplining him, I dont meddle... Thats needed... You dont go buy him treats, ofcourse you dont go goad or scold him, his parents are doing that, but you deffo dont try and negate the desciplining act!!! I am verrryyy close to my sister, maybe more than Vandu n II, n my nephews both set of grandparents love him to bits, but when he is being desciplined by his parents, noone interfers... Later, much later we'd do all the laad on him... But jab daant padd rahi ho, koi beech mei nahi bolta... When wewerekids, it was the same thing, wewere adoredto buts by our mauso,mama n bua n grandparents... But nobody messed when papa or ma was desciplining us... N definitely koi uss time entertainment ke liye 4000 ki expense nahi karta... Else the kid will ask like shravu ki chitthi kyu nahi khareed deti ipad if appa cant... Poor kid doesnt realize its not ad, its the act that he is being punished for!!! Sorry but II is behaving like 18, n not 28!! This is not a crticism on author but what i felt about character...coz all of this behavior of II works OK only in the story, in real life Nandu ki kahani R&B ko ab tak pata chal jani thi, n the fact that Shravu didthe act woh bhi maloom ho jana tha, n then this 4000 would not have been about money but about II being enabler of Shravu's illogical demands! Wait till Bala hears II ke kaarnaame!! I wish Vandu n Bala n Tan n Sam both tell II that she is wrong! Both parentsare trying to descipline their kids n II just negating the effect n fighting like an adamant 13 yr old ki I will spend n wrongly terming it as middle class expense! Why spend like a high class when u keep ribbing in your middle class lineage to your rich hubby.



Hey harshita,

welcome back, not seen u for so long, hope u r fine now...see I was missing ur writing the way u scold in hindi.

Ya, II is like that...not perfect...seek leegi yaar, mistakes karke ...but she is going to hear an earful from everybody around her. I am already feeling bad for her and Nandu.



Thank Shidin! Forgot your name!! :( Dying of sneezes, cold, eye irritation n itch in throat.. Thats it!!LOL
If we're really talking real life, then 2nd chances hamesha nahi milte... Bala might not take this lying low. She buys him treats the day he steals things, going registers him for 4000 day long adventure the day he is being desciplined and has argued about the fact that taking an ipad when someone has 18, is not wrong. Nandu too broke a rule, took ipad to school n then went careless with his gadget, kal car kho dega n will say nahi pata!! N then II - I dont know how she works, I have had soo many instances when I was given a feedback, I dont see II taking it in the right spirit! I dont say taking constructive criticism is easy, but the way she bristles each te she is said she is wrong - be it about money with R&B, about her software needs n her fights with R&B, her argument with Bala about shravu - she is a clear case of golden posterchild who could do no wrong n is bright, n successful but is now being pointed her mistakes.

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Posted: 15 May 2015 at 10:49am | IP Logged
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Posted: 15 May 2015 at 10:54am | IP Logged
@hershey
my point
some of us are not that mature , i was clueless at 24 and clueless till both my kids were born.
I will think  100 times before spending on myself but will spend on others without a thought i am from a middle class family may be slightly upper i was given money by my dad whenever i asked didnt even know my mom only wore bata chappal since all that was kept away from me.
II has spent all her money on her family, if she had kept her money during the wedding or not brought the new car all would be well right.

Chachi /manny all taunt her u think she will feel like asking R&B for money..She is opening up to him right .

Every money action of hers i would do too ..
I emptied my bank in India and left and then didnt want to spend using my husbands credit card till i got my job, even now i can buy for others more easily than my self.

kya karen its probably a blood group deficiency - she saw a camp, thought how cool Shravu will like it and Nandu will have fun going with R&B who knows so much about animals so let me get it paisa toh will come month end .. what is wrong in that..?

I have a doctor friend who spends so much on others than her husband doesnt give her cash anymore
she goes to senior centers and will give away every penny seeing their state.. happens

Next discipline - how is II to know about parenting .. this could be the first time they are facing this kind of issue , i was clueless about so many things parents go through until i became one.
She has treated Shravu her own, Bala has let her.. she feels bad def but everyone is not mature at 28 until life shows them now she will know Bala was fine with all her gifts/toys/muffins till today right.
If from day 1 he had said II no gifts she would have known or if from day 1 every time they disciplined him she was told stay out today at 9 she would have not. Today is her first day.

I am feeling bad for II big time ek side Manny, Ek side amma about paatu, ek side R&B , ek side Bala, ek side job, ek side Minion not picking up his phone, ek side making sure she is fair to both nephews,appa not having a retirement apartment, now swelling..Cry

Well any body else will happily spend the inlaws money not care about parents/sister probably force R&B to move to Paris and come every year with gifts ..but she wont her ,only weapon her tears let her at least have that
Not one negative word about anybody she has uttered to R&B , about Manny or Bala or Sams inlawsClap
I Heart II :-)

hope ur allergies are better - try zyrtec the only medicine that works for me



Edited by TanjoreGirl - 15 May 2015 at 10:55am

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Posted: 15 May 2015 at 10:54am | IP Logged
Hershey
She said she wouldn't take the treats back home, she never said she was going to buy him an ipad to spite Bala or that he should be forgiven

Its not always black and white in life Hershey, u seem to only be noticing her negatives, she never interfered, she was in despair over his stealing also

She may not be as harsh as Bala but yes when she has a conversation with him she will make it known its unacceptable.

II is fearful of R&B under estimating her, thats why she bristles when matters of money arise. I have a Desi friend thats married to a gora, he constantly chides her for over spending. She is middle class, was raised in Bronx.

He is born to wealthy parents, yet maha kanjoos
He always has something snarky to say when he pays her credit card bills each month she makes as much or more than him.

She supports her parents, buys them tix to fly out here 2, 3 times a year. She was raised in a one bedroom apartment in Bronx, she SHOWERS her parents with gifts now, now that she can
She will always tell me "Life is too short yaar JEE LENA chahiye"


It pisses him off...
Girls I know of do WAYYY more than II sorry

II is not even close...


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Posted: 15 May 2015 at 11:03am | IP Logged
Originally posted by TanjoreGirl

@hershey
my point
some of us are not that mature , i was clueless at 24 and clueless till both my kids were born.
I will think  100 times before spending on myself but will spend on others without a thought i am from a middle class family may be slightly upper i was given money by my dad whenever i asked didnt even know my mom only wore bata chappal since all that was kept away from me.
II has spent all her money on her family, if she had kept her money during the wedding or not brought the new car all would be well right.

Chachi /manny all taunt her u think she will feel like asking R&B for money..She is opening up to him right .

Every money action of hers i would do too ..
I emptied my bank in India and left and then didnt want to spend using my husbands credit card till i got my job, even now i can buy for others more easily than my self.

kya karen its probably a blood group deficiency - she saw a camp, thought how cool Shravu will like it and Nandu will have fun going with R&B who knows so much about animals so let me get it paisa toh will come month end .. what is wrong in that..?

I have a doctor friend who spends so much on others than her husband doesnt give her cash anymore
she goes to senior centers and will give away every penny seeing their state.. happens

Next discipline - how is II to know about parenting .. this could be the first time they are facing this kind of issue , i was clueless about so many things parents go through until i became one.
She has treated Shravu her own, Bala has let her.. she feels bad def but everyone is not mature at 28 until life shows them now she will know Bala was fine with all her gifts/toys/muffins till today right.
If from day 1 he had said II no gifts she would have known or if from day 1 every time they disciplined him she was told stay out today at 9 she would have not. Today is her first day.

I am feeling bad for II big time ek side Manny, Ek side amma about paatu, ek side R&B , ek side Bala, ek side job, ek side Minion not picking up his phone, ek side making sure she is fair to both nephews,appa not having a retirement apartment, now swelling..Cry

Well any body else will happily spend the inlaws money not care about parents/sister probably force R&B to move to Paris and come every year with gifts ..but she wont her ,only weapon her tears let her at least have that
Not one negative word about anybody she has uttered to R&B , about Manny or Bala or Sams inlawsClap
I Heart II :-)

hope ur allergies are better - try zyrtec the only medicine that works for me


Sorry Anu

 II is not "immature" My friend I mentioned in the post before this one, is in her early 40s. She saves for retirement through work, and company stock, part contributes to a mortgage for a 2.7 acre mansion her kanjoos wealthy gora hubby bought adamantly

YET gets "told" she must be careful with her money.

Wanting to take care of family is not immature IMO
Yes she can roll all her debt over into one and pay a higher rate, eventually she will get out of it.

The gora doesnt spend a dime on his parents, who knows who his parents will leave the money to, they are goras... u never know

A friend I had in NOIDA actually borrowed TWO times for her sisters' wedding.
A kid in her 20s that visited my town here 4 ish years ago bought her parents a swank new house near ITPL in Blore AFTER marriage, IN HER DAD'S nameClapClap
So many in India routinely apply for PF loans for their nanad's weddings

I have been fortunate to see girls display tremendous generosity towards the family.
II would in a heart beat borrow for Sam

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Posted: 15 May 2015 at 11:03am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Nisha0604

Hershey meri jaan, KIDHAR THI?

I agree with you "partially"
I know plenty of sisters that go over board with their nieces and nephews. I know plenty of uncles that go over board with their worthless nephews and nieces well into the kids' adulthoodCryMiddle class values har koi treasure ki tarah protect nahi karta neither do people follow it as much as we think. Atleast in MY experience. I know of sisters that borrowed upto the eyes for their sister or multiple sisters' weddings because parents couldnt.
So II is NOT mahaan in that aspect. Girls do a lot more...
Men do as well for their family


Also she booked this camp BEFORE Shravu stole the ipad

Agree she should be more prudentClap

Also the world is filled with all sorts of people, some cry more some cry less. Its just the way she expresses her hurt.

Also she never interfered in Shravu's disciplining, she has NO CLUE what happened to the matter, she went last nite cooked cleaned, fed everybody and returned, this morning she took paranthas for Akka visited with her and left for work she has no clue what Sam did or what Bala did
NOT YET...

HOW will R&B know? He doesnt talk to Sam every day... Nandu lost his ipad he didnt steal it
He could have only learned it through II and she aint tellin himBig smileBala and Vandu are not going to call him to narrate it
So your logic of "He would have known" doesnt apply
Husbands usually come to know of things in either families WELL AFTER the dust has settled
Atleast in marriages I have observed

In soaps yes, coz they usually listen in behind curtainsLOL





Nishaa!! Kaisi ho?? Gaay bhains sab theek thaak?? LOL
Yaar to take loans for big life events like marriage,education,parents' car.. Thats all good expenses! I have a problem about her 4000 ka ye faltu expense! N then ribbing in middle class ka tamga each time yaar.. Not even 24hrs since her relationship manager told her ki faltu ki expenses kuch din band karo... She just got her account out of Red! Ye 4000 n then emporio mei mothers day ka shopping wait kar sakta tha,n if R&B pointed out her 'begaani shaadi mei abdullah diwana' behavior, she tapkao-es aansu! Yaar hurt toh R&B hua, uski baaton se... Madam ne words bhi chipkaye n aansu bhi!! Ekdum free free free! Mrs Sagar n Manni ko kya lagega, R&B hurt her, noone would know she hurt R&B first!!!
I agree there are sisters n brothers who go overboard with their nephews n nieces but II comes from a family where descipline was important, so when she behaves atrangi, mereko digest nahi hota yaar! :(
N R&B, yeah he doesnt talk to Sam, but Sam sab kuch discuss karti hai! Am surprised Sam didnt call n tell her calling school n Bala's reaction! I felt Sam would tptally have made the distress call! Agreed husbands come to know the last, but its a big matter, not aloo baigan ki sabI that people wont care! LOL

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