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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 9:57am | IP Logged
Originally posted by -bharti-

She is traumatised and it is normal to be confused and totally lost when your intelligence and judgement is in question.  You have just come to learn a big lesson the hard way, any confident adult will be shattered.  She just needs some space n time to gather herself.  Its not that she is averse to manik,s proximity, its her way of expressing her disgust for being so naive.   But i also feel for manik who is trying his best to bring her out of this pain.  He is desperate too n hence the repeated utterances of killing pandit, he cannot see the people he loves in oain.  He knows how its affected her and atleast he is understanding her situation.  Its very sad the forum is fighting who is right n who is wrong and jumping to conclusions.  We are only displaying our immaturity n impatience.  Infact nandini or manik are two young people growing up and learning n fumbling n picking up themselves.  Cant we just relax n enjoy the show.   

@bold:ClapClapClap absolutely correct! i completely agree with u...
they are growing up, and will have experiences that will leave them shattered, lost, confused...and nandini has just been through a painful one.. so let's just see how she copes with it, how they cope with it, rather than talking about, what we want her to do, and how bad she is for not responding to manik's touch.

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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 9:58am | IP Logged
well said geet...
no one pointed out when she was all normal the next day??? ..everybody enjoyed when she patted manik on the floor...no one appreciated the brave face she put up to get justice..but when she is breaking down everyone is pointing fingers at her ..wow...how can this gal behave this way even if she was tortured the night before hai na...

am sure even if they had not shown her break down some of the viewers would have been happy coz after all what matters is manik...how nandu treats manik...nandu  ke feelings jaay bhaad mai...

i have seen comments where members were angry that she flinched at his touch on the first day..Wacko

they had to show this state of nandu..her  self confidence is broken...

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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 10:01am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Serendipity2015

I completely agree with most of u, it is unfair to blame or bash Nandani. She is stil traumatized, still In Shock of what happened to her it is clearly shown she is broken... Expecting her to bounce back to how she was or pick up from where she left off is wrong, she needs time to heal herself by herself & by Manik. And I really wish that the cvs show how Manik with a lot of understanding, patience & TLC tries to heal her broken spirit. 
I have a problem or will feel disconnected if & I repeat only if they take the break up route coz the whole hope, confession, humesha, fireflies, true love everything that Manan stand for will lose its essence. Moreover, all the make up & breakups will be more of child's play than real emotions... & again really hoping the cvs surprise us.

Dont worry about the break up..its just not happening..manik is simply instigating her so she fights back in her own time in her own way...no break up happening, for sureEmbarrassed

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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 10:03am | IP Logged
Originally posted by -Cherry-

Geet you just gave a way with words Day Dreaming and I'm always speechless with what to write back, because I just can't. Thank you for this post Heart

aww..swanzy..i love uHug

thoda calm down hui?LOL

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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 10:07am | IP Logged
Originally posted by ameerafatima

Agreed...
Nice one...
Thanks for sharing your thoughts...
 Really appreciate who ever wrote this...coz I support u from all my angles...
With support of Nandini you wrote is awesome...
Heads of to you...

Thanks a lot for commenting and liking...EmbarrassedEmbarrassedEmbarrassed
I'm glad I have your support too Big smile
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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 10:07am | IP Logged
Originally posted by mamathasridhar

HugHug geetu love you!!

aww mams!! i love u too!!

glad u agree!!Hug
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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 10:08am | IP Logged
Originally posted by cceee7

It's all fangirl child's who go on bashing her.that doesn't  make her wrong.niti was fantastic today.its just sad to see her made dumb like this.s he was standing like a pillar when the principal went on heaping praises on fab 5.seriously!
I dunno how long I can take the character assassination. 

Dumb cv's.hope soon her characterisation  improves

um. what?Shocked
she was in shock. and lost. niti was amazing and the characterization was VERY GOOD today..that has precisely been the point of this post...

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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 10:12am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Medha.S

If Nandini doesn't want to be touched for the next two weeks or two damn months. It is HER decision. It is her body, her right, her decision to permit touching.

But it has been violated -- someone who she thought was a mentor -- a person who you give respect to and who gives you knowledge and helps you grow -- mentally/emotionally/physically and damn well sexually violated her . Touched her body like it was his right to do so.

Last night she was in shock and she would have let anyone touch her. Victims tend to react to their abuse later in many cases -- they react after coming out of shock and it could be weeks, months and years after an incident. Some people never come out of it.

Yes, the girl is damn strong if she tries to keep her feelings and emotions, her reaction on bay to get shit done -- which is to get her abuser behind bars.

She faced her abuser second time -- just a day after it happened. 
She came out of shock, she will react ... it might be irrational, intense and brutal. If people can't deal with it then GTFO.

It is her wanting to regain her right, her control over what is hers and only hers -- her body. And Manik will be there for her but he is also the only guy who is allowed to touch her like that, who she has given the right to touch her romantically/sexually.

Right now if she is coming out of shock and behaves violently, expect it. 
If you want her to swoon and fall in the arms of her rescuer and be romanced - Again, Shut Up animated emoticon


Thank you for these words! I guess i need to copy and save this emoji tooLOL
This. each word of this.
I agree with you!
Her body, her mind, her heart, her BLOODY LIFE.
LET HER LIVE IT HER WAY.
She needs to deal with it, come to terms with it: her mistakes, her beliefs that have taken a rough beating, her experiences to learn from.
I am glad they showed what they did today.
Today, I'll just leave it at that.

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