Kaisi Yeh Yaariaan


Kaisi Yeh Yaariaan
Kaisi Yeh Yaariaan

How could I....

geet.a IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 12 May 2015 at 8:20am | IP Logged

A few words

How could I be so stupid? How could I believe in the purity of a relationship, when it was evident to ALL that that pandit was a jerk of the first order and a dangerous man, besides?
How could I be so stupid so as to believe there are good people in this world?
How could I think there is any justice?
I should have just sat down and believed what my amazing boyfriend told me, because men are never wrong, and they know such things, because I, who am I to fight for my own convictions, wrong or right?
I am merely a naive girl with a negligible point of view.
My experiences, my fights, my conversations, my beliefs, my theories, my emotions, my CONVICTIONS, don't matter at all.
Why should they? HOW could I have been SO stupid to have not seen it coming?


Some of the posts I have read today really disturbed me.
I will not point names since honestly, it really doesn't matter.
What matters is that a young girl who has undergone a painful and psychologically and emotionally taxing experience is being asked to romance and not resist the touch of any person WHEN HER PERSONAL SPACE WAS INFRINGED UPON FOR AN ENTIRE NIGHT, when she was TRAPPED IN A ROOM, TIED and GAGGED and had NO IDEA WHAT the person who played the ONE role she TRULY believed in the purity of, would DO to her.
And of course, she should be normal and not break down?
She doesn't deserve to cry, she should try and move on and stand up for herself and be all brave: WHY?
SHE stood up for herself when it was about getting justice. and she got legal justice. but who will pay for the emotional and psychological damage?
HOW can she move on when SHE has NO IDEA HOW TO THINK about it? when she's STILL in shock and cannot get those images out of her head?
To repress them and think happy things when it was her BELIEF that was attacked in such a brutal way?

I am truly disappointed at the way some people are thinking. But its other people's perspective, as sorry as it is.


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crazygirl4RD IF-Rockerz

Joined: 08 July 2011
Posts: 9831

Posted: 12 May 2015 at 8:25am | IP Logged
this is the only post on MF that made me happy,relaxed..
as Nandini said.. She is Lost.. So Lost!! her beliefs have been proved wrong.. she is shaken , a lil broken.. its her mind who is speaking not her heart...
and coming to manik.. never in his dreams he would think to leave nandini ever. atleast when she is gng through so much.. This guy confessed it  last night that he Loves her For Ever..Hamesha.. he cannot live without her.. so how can he leave her alone in her battles, in her struggles..??

they promised to Survive in their struggles, battles,problems together.. 

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shantellbrown Groupbie

Joined: 01 December 2008
Posts: 144

Posted: 12 May 2015 at 8:26am | IP Logged
I totally agree with you. This is a young girl who has gone thru a lot. If she doesn't take the time to understand and figure out everything..how will she move ahead. She needs to heal before she can let more light in. Have patience with her.

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kyyfanatic Senior Member

Joined: 27 May 2011
Posts: 819

Posted: 12 May 2015 at 8:26am | IP Logged
ClapClapClap Clap Finally someone's writing from nandini's perspective..  Feel like posting this link on all those posts which have been portraying Nandini as a heartless person..  After all How can Nandini break thr manik's heart by asking for a break or walking away from him!!!  u gotta b kidding me.. love is a beautiful feeling and its great to have support of loved one's but atleast in my personal experience.. wanting me- time is not wrong.. even when someone's upset.. one likes to be alone... its thr personal pref.. not that they r @fault  in asking alone time!

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khadupam IF-Dazzler

Joined: 02 July 2012
Posts: 3645

Posted: 12 May 2015 at 8:27am | IP Logged
You r absolutely right
People in the forum just bashing Nandini like anything
She has to get some space for herself naa
She can't be normal within one night
It's not even 24 hours also
Her emotions has to be shown without all this drama of hers
We also will be bored
If they don't show all this then doesn't look realistic
Soo she has to hav her space for sometime

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MayaraaSobti Senior Member

Joined: 07 June 2010
Posts: 570

Posted: 12 May 2015 at 8:30am | IP Logged
You nailed it girl Clap !!
Ppl are just acting so insensitive and unrealistic Sleepy !!

Edited by MySarun - 12 May 2015 at 8:29am

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Mimi2609 IF-Sizzlerz

Joined: 13 July 2012
Posts: 19176

Posted: 12 May 2015 at 8:31am | IP Logged
so true and lovelyBig smile
right now Nandini is questioning everything she ever believed and trusted in her life, she needs time to calm down and realise that Pandit was an extreme case and sometimes we all makes mistakes in judging people

she feels guilty, infact every girl feels guilty at start after such a trauma, and also dirty
she's blaming herself for not trusting Manik, for not having seen Pandit's truth, but if one consider even we as viewers didnt see Pandit really creepy till at later stageConfused

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Paytonlee IF-Dazzler

Joined: 03 January 2012
Posts: 2737

Posted: 12 May 2015 at 8:31am | IP Logged
Everyone sympathised with manik when he was going through a rough time with dhruv lashing against him. didnt he even ask nandini to leave and spoke rudely to her but everyone found it acceptable because he was angry but isnt it the same with nandini now. She stood for him that time and consoled him now he is trying to do the same thing
What double standard is this? Im appalled at some of the girls in this forum who think she is overreacting and she should go back to being happy and having romantic scenes with him when some days ago she was kidnapped, tied, almost molested, going to be killed. she needs time for herself. 

Today i realised this forum is full of hormonal teenage girls who isnt yet capable of dealing with sensitive issues. #sorrynotsorry

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