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Posted: 09 May 2015 at 1:02am | IP Logged
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Absolutely rightly said,Though,his name and respect is at stake,but I was very sad to see him all helpless.KN was not even ready for this marriage and Dadaji forced his decisions on them.Ramesh knew it was a very wrong move by Dadaji and worst on KN.He saw no hope for this marriage and then the threat from SIngham did it all.He is doing the exact same mistake again on KN.I sometimes don't get him.He was so quick to judge Kabir in Character and didn't even raise any questions at SULee.If CM questions arise Ramesh should tell Singham he will see through it by his own means- clear and loud.Dadaji has no right on CM-because of him things are so messy.
i think dadaji believed SuLee more coz doubting sulle will be like doubting his own decisions.  he was the one who chose sumit for dolly but in kabir's case it was not that. so when sumit was blamed he was like this cannot happen as i had brought the rishta and they are good people.  i think dadaji was pretty careless with his granddaughters' life.  he did not do any bg check for sumit ritesh or even kabir. and after ritesh fiasco he whould have atleast been careful. aise kaise without having a bg check or without even meeting the boy's mother he married off nisha to kabir?? he is fortunate that kabir is a good guy what if he was like sumit. given nisha's past everything would havve gone disastrous.

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Posted: 09 May 2015 at 1:04am | IP Logged
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It's high time Dadaji thinks about his decisions and how he never lets anyone else have a say. If not for Ramesh, Nisha would have gotten engaged to Ritiesh and her life would have been ruined back then itself. Sumit/Leela was a bad choice. I never liked Sumit from the beginning. 


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I agree, Dadaji has no right whatsoever to give any sort of decision on this...but isn't he always the one throwing orders? Ideally, I would like to see GF blaming themselves for seeking the easy way out of this SV by throwing KN under the bus. But we all know that's not gonna happen.

Technically, only KN have the right to decide what they want to do with the CM. But they would definitely look up to Ramesh to sort this. I would like to see them wanting Ramesh to have a final say in this not only because they want to make it up to Ramesh, or Ramesh wants to get things straight for them...but because KN actually believes that Ramesh is the one who is capable of making the wisest decisions.

But Ramesh should be like "whatever. I was fighting tooth and nail for you, but you did what you had to. Clean up your mess by yourself. While you are at it, you might wanna take Viraj's advice since you guys love being involved with him."

I can see GF blaming Nisha for taking CM and blaming Ramesh for his parenting, but I want Ramesh to openly tell KN has ruined their lives because of them, because they looked at GKI more than these two's lives. Dadaji has to see that he cared more for family name than KNs future. 

I think Ramesh himself would leave the final call to KN, after letting them understand what they have ACTUALLY done and what they CAN do to rectify it. Nisha, at least, would want Ramesh to be in the process loop now. 

@bold ROFLROFL I can so see just his expression conveying all this..LOL 
but will ramy do that?? even if he blames gf they would be like apni galti kisi aur pe mat dalo ramesh. i think dadaji will allow dolly to make her decisions but for nisha he will take the matter in his hands but if he does something which will be against nisha's happiness in ramy's view he will surely raise his voice. meri beti has tocome back then and it will for sure. i think nisha this time wont interfere even if she does i want ramy to be stricter and say tujhe jo karna tha tune kar liya ab mujhe kuch karne de.

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Posted: 09 May 2015 at 1:07am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by Mehrana


I agree, Dadaji has no right whatsoever to give any sort of decision on this...but isn't he always the one throwing orders? Ideally, I would like to see GF blaming themselves for seeking the easy way out of this SV by throwing KN under the bus. But we all know that's not gonna happen.

Technically, only KN have the right to decide what they want to do with the CM. But they would definitely look up to Ramesh to sort this. I would like to see them wanting Ramesh to have a final say in this not only because they want to make it up to Ramesh, or Ramesh wants to get things straight for them...but because KN actually believes that Ramesh is the one who is capable of making the wisest decisions.

But Ramesh should be like "whatever. I was fighting tooth and nail for you, but you did what you had to. Clean up your mess by yourself. While you are at it, you might wanna take Viraj's advice since you guys love being involved with him."

I can see GF blaming Nisha for taking CM and blaming Ramesh for his parenting, but I want Ramesh to openly tell KN has ruined their lives because of them, because they looked at GKI more than these two's lives. Dadaji has to see that he cared more for family name than KNs future. 

I think Ramesh himself would leave the final call to KN, after letting them understand what they have ACTUALLY done and what they CAN do to rectify it. Nisha, at least, would want Ramesh to be in the process loop now. 

@bold ROFLROFL I can so see just his expression conveying all this..LOL 
but will ramy do that?? even if he blames gf they would be like apni galti kisi aur pe mat dalo ramesh. i think dadaji will allow dolly to make her decisions but for nisha he will take the matter in his hands but if he does something which will be against nisha's happiness in ramy's view he will surely raise his voice. meri beti has tocome back then and it will for sure. i think nisha this time wont interfere even if she does i want ramy to be stricter and say tujhe jo karna tha tune kar liya ab mujhe kuch karne de.

If GF blames Ramesh, he would take it. Somewhere he feels he is at wrong too. But he wouldn't let Nisha's life to be ruined again. But that depends on if Nisha trusts Ramesh now or not. He would definitely go to Meri Beti mode if Dadaji takes any decision that Nisha wouldn't be happy about or is unfair for Kabir. 

Yes. Ramesh has to become more strict with Nisha, in this CM matter. He has to MAKE her understand that whatever KN has done is not as simple or easy to solve. 

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@Rema
It's high time Dadaji thinks about his decisions and how he never lets anyone else have a say. If not for Ramesh, Nisha would have gotten engaged to Ritiesh and her life would have been ruined back then itself. Sumit/Leela was a bad choice. I never liked Sumit from the beginning. 


i was never impressed with SuLee too. how did dadaji did not notice leela's greedy nature before marriage ?? and he went ahead with that??? its actually shocking. I too did not like sumit. he was not brave enough to tell dolly the truth about not shifting to bangalore and was playing with DoLa both. I hated when he ran awy from the marriage. nisha kovapas laane ki kya zaroorat thi. vahin pe chod deti. 

ritesh ke bare mein toh bolo hi mat. i just cant believe that he went ahead with the engagement plan after knowing ritesh tried to get close to nisha and he knew that nisha is agreeing for the marriage just for ramy;s sake. that man did not even wish to stop the engagement even after past revelation. he would have gone ahead hadnt lakshmi been strongly against the marriage.Angry

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[/QUOTE]i think dadaji believed SuLee more coz doubting sulle will be like doubting his own decisions.  he was the one who chose sumit for dolly but in kabir's case it was not that. so when sumit was blamed he was like this cannot happen as i had brought the rishta and they are good people.  i think dadaji was pretty careless with his granddaughters' life.  he did not do any bg check for sumit ritesh or even kabir. and after ritesh fiasco he whould have atleast been careful. aise kaise without having a bg check or without even meeting the boy's mother he married off nisha to kabir?? he is fortunate that kabir is a good guy what if he was like sumit. given nisha's past everything would havve gone disastrous.[/QUOTE]


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you said it,given Nisha past if Kabir was like Sumit it would be all hell break loose(I can't even imagine how would Nisha dealt with it).I was amazed he was giving marriage gyaan to dadi but fail to see the most important element of the marriage to provide.He didn't even have a second thought about doing a background check on all of them.Dolly's life is in danger only because of him.Dadaji is certainly guilty for his actions in my eyes.

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Posted: 09 May 2015 at 1:13am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Teogapi

i think dadaji believed SuLee more coz doubting sulle will be like doubting his own decisions.  he was the one who chose sumit for dolly but in kabir's case it was not that. so when sumit was blamed he was like this cannot happen as i had brought the rishta and they are good people.  i think dadaji was pretty careless with his granddaughters' life.  he did not do any bg check for sumit ritesh or even kabir. and after ritesh fiasco he whould have atleast been careful. aise kaise without having a bg check or without even meeting the boy's mother he married off nisha to kabir?? he is fortunate that kabir is a good guy what if he was like sumit. given nisha's past everything would havve gone disastrous.


Excellent point! At the end of the day, most of the decisions/choices that dadaji makes is to defend his previous ones.

Since he chose Sumit for Dolly, he would naturally side more with Sumit. It is painful to watch the someone like him with his ideals entertains Sumit's stay at GH as well as Leela's, Sumit's unemployment and time-pass giri. All because he is the one who brought Sumit in their life.

If anything wrong is revealed about Kabir, he would anyday blame Nisha and Ramesh's parenting for SV and bringing Kabir in their life. He wouldn't even acknowledge the fact that he forced KN into validating the marriage and did not bother being more cautious about Kabir because Nisha already was married to him. Nisha, Kabir and Ramesh are the perfect scapegoat for dadaji and his wrongdoings.


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Posted: 09 May 2015 at 1:15am | IP Logged
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@Rema
It's high time Dadaji thinks about his decisions and how he never lets anyone else have a say. If not for Ramesh, Nisha would have gotten engaged to Ritiesh and her life would have been ruined back then itself. Sumit/Leela was a bad choice. I never liked Sumit from the beginning. 


i was never impressed with SuLee too. how did dadaji did not notice leela's greedy nature before marriage ?? and he went ahead with that??? its actually shocking. I too did not like sumit. he was not brave enough to tell dolly the truth about not shifting to bangalore and was playing with DoLa both. I hated when he ran awy from the marriage. nisha kovapas laane ki kya zaroorat thi. vahin pe chod deti. 

ritesh ke bare mein toh bolo hi mat. i just cant believe that he went ahead with the engagement plan after knowing ritesh tried to get close to nisha and he knew that nisha is agreeing for the marriage just for ramy;s sake. that man did not even wish to stop the engagement even after past revelation. he would have gone ahead hadnt lakshmi been strongly against the marriage.Angry

Exactly. Leela's greediness wasn't hidden and so was her taunting. No body liked it and still they all went with the marriage? Not informing about the transfer, drinking and running away from the marriage, not being strong to support Dolly in front of Leela...and also supporting Ritiesh in the kiss challenge...Sumit wasn't a good guy from the beginning. 

And Lakshmi too left the decision to Dadaji? I mean what if Dadaji hadn't stopped and got Kirti engaged? Lakshmi wouldn't have said anything? And Dadaji took away all the credit..Angry Dadaji knew RL and Nisha weren't happy with the marriage, so was Dadi...What did he think he was doing then?

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