Ballika Vadhu Written update 6th May 2015

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mahi12

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Posted: 8 years ago

Jharla

he episode starts with Nimboli telling Kamli that she will bring Gopal as soon as he comes. She says Harki is coming to take her. Kamli says she will do something. Nimboli rushes and collides with Harki. Harki scolds her. Nimboli apologizes for lying.

Badi Haveli

Anandi remembers her conversation with Dadisaa

Flashback

Dadisaa asks her to wait till Jagya comes back from Jaipur then leave to Shiv Niketan . Anandi says no it will become difficult for her to go in his presence because he will try to stop her and she cannot say no to him if she said then he will feel bad and she cannot do that she has already hurt a lot many people dont want to hurt more . Dadisaa understands

Flashback ends

Shivam asks from Anandi why they are leaving Anandi firmly tells him it is not necessary for her to answer this question She has decided and its her final decision Thats it Anandi is packing her bags Shivam stops her and puts clothes back in wardrobe

Shivam crying tells her then he too has decided and thats his final decision he won't leave He will talk to Badi nani about it Shivam runs to Dadisaa . Anandi keeps calling him

Jharla

Nimboli serves the snacks to the ladies. A lady asks her to keep the plate and they will eat. Nimboli looks out for Gopal and thinks he will come from back door. She looks at the security and thinks to do something. She goes to the guard and asks him to have food. He says nobody gave him water. Nimboli says you have to get food from the chef. The guard refuses to come as he can't back off from work. Nimboli wonders what to do now.

Badi Haveli

Shivam crying comes to Dadisaa Ganga is with her Shivam cries and tells Dadisaa mother is shifting to Shiv Niketan along with him. He says he doesn't want to go leaving everyone. He says he won't fight with Abhi too never complain about him . Ganga is shocked to hear Anandi is leaving Ganga consoles Shivam that she will talk to Anandi. Ganga asks Dadisaa what he is saying? Dadisaa says Anandi wanted to go to Shiv Niketan since many years, but now I have agreed. Ganga asks why you gave her permission? Dadisaa is silent. Ganga says she won't let Anandi leave. Dadisaa calls Ganga, but she leaves.

Jharla

Harki knocks on Kamli's room and asks her to open the door for haldi ceremony. Kamli is crying and is tensed. Harki asks her to open the door else she will have to call Akhiraj Singh. Kamli opens the door and comes out cryingly. She wipes her tears and asks her to come

Ganga comes to Anandi and asks why you didn't tell us about your decision Are you angry with me that i want to do what i wish to for my son and did not agree with you Thats why you are leaving getting angry with on that ? Anandi says no its nothing like that Anandi says her relation is delicate and strange with this haveli she wanted to leave from a long time . Ganga says you were talking like this before too but why you took this decision so suddenly today . You know with your this sudden decision all blame will come on me only Dr sahab will get angry at me and will never forgive me Anandi says nothing like that will happen she will explain to Jagya that it is her decision only. She says nothing will change only her place to stay will change and in this way you can tell Mannu what you wants to and i will tell shivam what i want to about his sister Ganga is shocked hearing that . Ganga recalls her conversation with Jagya where she is telling him will Anandi herself tell shivam about his sister if she does so then she will also make Mannu meet with Ratan Anandi says I understand your problem. I should not stay here Its for everyone betterment.

Jharla

Harki brings Kamli for applying mehendi on her hands. Nimboli gets tensed. One lady asks her to forward her hand. Kamli refuses. Harki threatens her taking Akhiraj Singh's name. Kamli gives her hand with much pain. Disa peeps in to see the rituals. Other lady asks Nimboli to get mehendi on her hands. Nimboli refuses. Harki scolds her. Nimboli says she has to do so much work. Other lady applies mehendi on her hands. Kamli recalls about Gopal's words and cries. She recalls Gopal asking her to elope with him. A lady says writes P on her hand. Kamli cries and looks at her hands. She ruins the mehendi designs. Disa gets in Devi Avatar suddenly and stares mehendi utensil. She closes her eyes and gets in Devi's mode. She comes to the hall. Everyone is shocked especially Harki. Jai Mata plays...

Precap:
Disa applies mehendi on her hand and dances in her room. Chagani looks on shocked. Later when Disa is sleeping, Akhiraj Singh comes near her and touches her with lust. Disa opens her eyes and is shocked. Akhiraj Singh keeps his hand on her mouth.
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Edited by mahi12 - 8 years ago

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BeautyBabe

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Posted: 8 years ago

Thanks for update mahi

Why Anandi wants to leave in Jagya's absence .?How is that gonna help him feel better in fact he will receive a shocker what happened Did something happened behind his back in BH that Anandi suddenly left ?so why she cannot leave in his presence ?

Why she thinks he will try to stop her and that she cannot say no to him if she said that will make feel bad wow look at assumptions of this woman She cooked so much in her thoughts Jagya will try to stop her it will become difficult for her to leave in his presence she cannot say no to him but will have to and that will hurt him?

Didn't Jagya clear to her 11 years ago when she was asking him to help her convince Dadisaa she wants to move out to outhouse What Jagya told her This matter is between you and Dadisaa i cannot say anything in this Jagya never had any problem she stays in BH or stays somewhere else Its her wish but he clearly said he cannot say anything in this because this matter is not related to him Its between her and Dadisaa Talk to Dadisaa . Even right now she over heard JaGan conversation what was Jagya saying to Ganga We have no right to interfere Anandi's personal matters , what decisions she makes for herself and her children so ? Why Jagya will stop her ? why she thinks he will feel bad if she is moving Shiv Niketan ? when he did not ask her stay in BH he will never stop her to leave as well He will never mind its her decision

but yes if she beat the drum in front him she thinks she is causing problems between him and Ganga blah blah blah then he will surely feel bad That will make him guilty otherwise he will never mind if she wants to move out

and the fact Anandi ji who is so concerned for Jagya's feelings have beaten the drum in front of Dadisaa she is leaving because of Ganga Ganga has so much poison in her heart for her 🤢Ganga is daughter in law of Badi haveli she should take all decisions she is moving out so Ganga can have everything Dadisaa will surely tell Jagya this Anandi she will be lying in front of Jagya i left on my own but actually her reason is Ganga and Dadisaa will tell Jagya this and jagya will definitely feel bad Wow just how caring is Anandi to Jagya 🤢

and today she directly told Ganga she is leaving because of her she has heard their conversation and she has taken offence of ganga's words about Anandi telling shivam about his sister while Ganga was just citing the example just like we cannot interfere in Anandi's personal matters and her decisions what she wants to tell her kid same way even she cannot Anandi had no right to give promise to ratan without asking Jagya and Ganga

but Anandi she twisted and turned everything and blamed Ganga she hates her She is leaving because of her and when has Ganga objected Anandis rights as Badi haveli's daughter and why she talks about matters relating BH , matters relating Dadisaa so why Anandi has made it Ganga has problems with her stay in Badi haveli that Anandi was telling Dadisaa i should leave so ganga can have all her rights on Badi haveli

Why Anandi cannot learn to stay in limits and learns this there is some limit she can interfere in others lives especially her ex husband , his wife and his kids When Jagya and Ganga stay in limits then why she cannot ?

Anandi and her so called sacrifice is nothing but a joke Must say Anandi is pretty clever Just how cleverly she put blame on Ganga too and became mahaan in front of others too🤢Such a sham sacrifice 🤢and she will come back to BH thats why Ganga is made a scapegoat but the fact cvs even then failed to give her clean chit🤢

Edited by kikyo - 8 years ago

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maria13

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Posted: 8 years ago

Thanks for update mahi

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Stephi

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Posted: 8 years ago

Thanks for the WU

First of all, if Anandi wanted to go to SN since many years she should have done that esp for her son while he was still a small boy.. In fact she'd never have come to live under the same roof with her ex-husband and his family, having her own house and considering that her own father is still alive .When she came to live in BH, her only concern was if Jagan will have problems in their married life beacuse of her.. Instead of thinking of Jagan life, she should have thought of her son . Shivam had every right to live in his own house in an environment where he absolutely belongs, to make relationship with his real grandfather. She made a refugee of herself and her son , now she's doing it for the second time. Her excuse was all this years she cannot say no to Dadisa, now she cannot hurt Jagya if she says no to him , but she can easily make a mess of Shivam's life.. I was disgusted first with her confidence that Jagya will be hurt if she refuses to him ,secondly with her concern for Jagya feelings but not at all being moved by Shivam's feelings. She told him she doesn't need to answer his question why they are leaving. Although it is true that adults decide, children deserve the very least some explanation of why something so big is happening in their lives.Anandi had enough time, all these 11 years to prepare slowly her son that one day they will go from there. If she really wanted to go. But it seems that she was never really wanted to go... nor to stay in her limits for sake of a healthy coexistence with another family in the same house. If Ganga kept quiet, if Anandi fulfilled Ratan's wish , then what? She would stay in BH ?
This time she's leaving but before that she did her best to put all the blame on Ganga. And of course she 's the victim again. Only she, no one else , not even her son because his mother can't tolerate that others are entitled to their opinion too..Otherwise, why she's leaving right now?

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aparnauma

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Posted: 8 years ago

Thanks for the written update

Anandi is moving out and good that she is firm and keeping her emotions under check when she is dealing with her son. Her son is too young to understand as to why they were moving out.

Anandi wanted to move out and it is clear that Dsa was not letting her go away by tying up with emotions.

That the conversation that they both overheard is only a wake up call for Dsa and not a trigger factor for Anandi.

It is clear that Anandi wanted to go only if Dsa lets her go. Finally it hit Dsa as to what Anandi's stay is doing to Ganga and then only she was willing to let her go.

Obviously it is easier to leave if J because for her it is easier to convince Ganga rather than J

After all for Anandi her relationship with BH is because of Dsa and the next person is J. They may not consider themselves as ex couple now but they are friiends and for her that friendship is important too.

Ganga is just a friend's wife and Dsa's DIL.

So it is true that she is leaving the house to protect these two relationships of hers and she doesn't want those to get spoiled because the other important person in their life thinks she is intefering in their lives.

So what Anandi said is true it is her relationship with Dsa and J that matter to her more and that is the reason she is leaving and why should she be angry with Ganga? After all who is Ganga to Anandi that she should get angry with her or let what she said matter to her?

But she did say the truth - She needs more space for herself and her kid just like Ganga needs more space for herself and her kids and that is truth too

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Other side of the story Only the little girl is worth watching.

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Muktchand

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Posted: 8 years ago

Isn't Ganga asked why Ds gave permission now when DS keep quite Ganga said she get her answer...

Plus Ganga said to Anandi already there is bitterness ( khatas ) in her and Jagya now if she leaves it will worst as Jagya blames her and never forgives her ...

why Ganga said Jagya will never forgive her... isn't all bitterness due to Anandi ... even then Ganga said Jagya will be upset ...she even try to convince Anandi to stay back all though Anandi is root cause for bitterness among them...Does this means Anandi has no role in JaGan bitterness ...Ganga never feel Anandi is reason for their bitterness ...its already there now Anandi shifting it will add worsen ...this is she told na...

why would Jagya want Anandi in BH why Ganga took Jagya name why DS too said said wait for Jagya

BTW thanks for WU

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mahi12

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Posted: 8 years ago

Is that even a question to ask that why Dadisaa asked Anandi to wait for Jagya ? who is Jagya ? Member of that family Two people leaving his house who would eat breakfast , dinner with him suddenly left Won't he be confused and question where they are? after all these two people were living under same roof with him for 11 years Thats why Dadisaa asked her to wait till he comes Inform him too If she suddenly left behind his back it will be leaving him with questions why she and shivam left ?

and i don't understand Anandi 's theory of running behind Jagyas back How is that gonna help?even if she left he will ask why she left ? Its not interference in her personal life These are basic manners and by now she should be understanding he will never force her to change her decision 11 years ago when she was asking his help to convince Dadisaa and let her move to Out house What did Jagya say Thats between you and Dadisaa i cannot say anything in this and when Dadisaa was bullying her Jagya was quietly standing at back Did not say a word and even just now she heard him saying to Ganga we have no right to interfere in Anandi's personal life whatever decisions she make so Whats wrong in telling him before leaving ?

and what was that all for Anandi saying to Dadisaa '' i cannot leave in jagay's presence it will become difficult for me to leave in his presence Jagya will try to stop me i cannot say to no to him and i will have to He will feel hurt at it '' Amazing so many assumptions ?She can say no to Dadisaa and hurt her , she can say no to Shivam and hurt him for Jagya she is so much concern who is most easy to convince for her since he gives her space to make her own decisions and the way she wants to lead her life He is not interfering types so enforce so many decisions or was it was tell Dadisaa how much concerned she is for Jagya so she is making assumptions for him she does not want to hurt him while why he will be hurt if she does not beat the drum in front of him she heard his conversation with Ganga and leaving because of Ganga's issues ?

For Ganga i forgot to write those dialogues she was talking about the btterness in her relationship so ? she said she there already a lot in them pending she does not want more problems She was talking about the problems she herself created She is not unaware of that

It was natural for her to have fear since Anandi is leaving suddenly after an unpleasant situation with her where Ganga was angry at Anandi then Anandi sudden left what will Jagya think from it He can misunderstand she said something to her while it is not true Some are gangas misunderstandings too that never forgiving part

but what should Ganga assume from Dadisaa's silence ? she is assumed right Anandi is leaving because of her thats why she asked Anandi are you leaving because of me but Anandi she is double faced in front of Ganga At one point saying i am not moving out because of you at other taunting her she has heard her conversation she can say whatever to Mannu now she will tell shivam whatever herself So much minded Ganga citing an example of why Anandi does not tell shivam truth then why Anandi ji preaches to ganga?

what wrong Ganga has said to Anandi that she is doing this leaving BH drama Ganga hates me , this that , i am leaving because of her Ganga did not bash , blamed her Sanchi has abused her so much directly abused her but did she leave KB just for that No why she should KB was her house , her husband's house , her family but here she herself knows it is inappropriate for her to stay here but she cannot leave with right reasons do fake greatness drama usin Ganga as scapegoat then leave Must say people are right Anandi is indeed very cunning lady she played her cards so cleverly here Moved out too , blamed Ganga too , became great too Wah 🥱what an inspiring character is Anandi

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Muktchand

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Posted: 8 years ago

Isn't Jagya himself bored with Anandi's lecture as people wrote ... Jagya feel so bore plus tired of Anandi's bhashanbazi .. He is so bore with her Anandi bossy nature actually he shdn't even notice whether Anandi is in BH or not ...

Why would Jagya blame Ganga ... He will blame Anandi for making his wife Villian ..wonder Ganga said this ...

Jagya already said na its DS Anandi ... Why would he blame Ganga as Ganga saying

isn't Ganga lines were imp ... There is already bitterness in her relationship if u leave it will worsen... Hence I pointed out Whts wrong ... Did I say u purposely omiitated lines ...

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aparnauma

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Posted: 8 years ago

Why should Anandi wait for Jagya to come back?

Did Anandi take a decision leave at that moment just because J is not there she didn't want Dsa to have a change of mind ?

Dsa just wants to stall her exit so that she will have time to convince or have Jagya put up a convincing argument which will make her stay back.

Dsa asking her to stay back till J comes is nothing but a tactic to stall the procedings.

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Muktchand

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Posted: 8 years ago

Anandi keeping Jagya out of this its DS Ganga who insert Jagya name

Anandi knew Jagya is not like her na interfere in her matter ... Why beating drum isn't DS too there with Anandi both hear what Ganga has said

Isn't DS took Ganga's side ... After hearing conversation DS still try to blackmail Anandi..so Anandi ask her to see things ... DS still not convinced but can't refuse Anandi's request as this time she too witness Ganga is not comfy with Anandi

Denial was from DS side Anandi already raised this issue ... Ganga was super confidant... Anandi strictly told reailty to both ladies ...

If Ganga is right why would she fear Jagya will blame her that too for Anandi whose bossy nature irritated Jagya as people wrote many times

so Q remain same why Ganga scare ... Jagya never ever blame Ganga ...

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