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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: Shinya


Dont know who made this insensitive comment... its really pitiful that people can think in such a way.

Anyway, as far as I remember, ganga had also lost her child. Just as anandi's nandini was snatched away from her, ganga's mannu was also snatched away by Ratan.

But Anandi risked her life and brought her son back to her. ganga was fortunate.



Fortunate not just one but twice. Forget about someone snatching the child when things aren't under ones control... She would have got him killed due to sheer negligence. That incident where she walked with mannu in rain  memorizing her flirting scenes with jagya... She was just about to get hit by a lorry and would have got the baby killed if jagya had not come in time to rescue her. Remember? And to say she's been running away from her husband only to keep her son safe is a joke after doing things like this. 

Another incident where she went ahead with her second pregnancy just to give a waris to ds(probably to keep her position safe as haveli beendini knowing how her new husband could change wives like clothes) . Her justification to everything she did in those earlier refugee days was "for mannu" and soon after marriage , she was okay to make him an orphan. What hypocrisy and what a caring mother, I don't have words to describe. 


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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.


Fortunate not just one but twice. Forget about someone snatching the child when things aren't under ones control... She would have got him killed due to sheer negligence. That incident where she walked with mannu in rain  memorizing her flirting scenes with jagya... She was just about to get hit by a lorry and would have got the baby killed if jagya had not come in time to rescue her. Remember? And to say she's been running away from her husband only to keep her son safe is a joke after doing things like this. 

Another incident where she went ahead with her second pregnancy just to give a waris to ds(probably to keep her position safe as haveli beendini knowing how her new husband could change wives like clothes) . Her justification to everything she did in those earlier refugee days was "for mannu" and soon after marriage , she was okay to make him an orphan. What hypocrisy and what a caring mother, I don't have words to describe. 


People criticise Anandi for putting Nandini's life at risk when she took her child along with her to stop a child marriage.
She didn't want to take her child but seeing that woman helpless and begging her to take her the venue she couldn't say no to this lady and gave in.
Ganga almost got hit by a vehicle while she was lost in her thoughts which were revolving around her love of her life Jagya.Mannu could have died if Jagya didn't rescue her

She in her great zeal to give an heir to Singh pariwar didn't care for Mannu and what would happen to him if she died in child birth.

Yes Anandi losing Nandini and Ganga almost losing Mannu can't be compared.
Anandi lost her baby while she was trying to help another woman get her girl back.
While Ganga risked Mannu's safety and his future by being so self absorbed and only thinking about her love and her interests in Singh house.
It is quite clear that Ganga's character never changed she only had her own interests in mind behind her behaviour and acts right from the begining.
Now all the things that she owns are under threat in her perception so she is lashing out at everyone and putting the blame on Anandi 

Edited by aparnauma - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Ganga's pregnancy was a questionable move. To satisfy DS and Sumitra.

Ganga did not think what will happen to Jagya and mannu.

If ganga died in that move, gauri would have comeback as bahu.

And anandi's also a questionable move for which she is paying and also her daughter is paying. Even anandi would have lost her life making Shivam an orphan.

And mannu and shivam would have been mothered by gauri!
Edited by leavesandwaves - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Even if Anandi left her child back at home and went to stop the marriage there is a probability of losing her life and making her children orphans.
But that was a battle between her beliefs as well as her duties towards the society and her responsibility towards her children same way Shiv lost his life while trying to do his duty as a citizen.

Here the pregnancy - she willfully concealed it she knew what would happen to her it.She knew in advance.It is her desire to secure her place in BH that made her do this. That is how her mind was set because of what happened to her in Ratan's house.When she couldn't conceive they got another wife for Ratan and made her a maid/planned to kick her out  and only when she produced a son she was allowed to stay on.So she did it to secure her place and ward off her own insecurities.

The possibility of Anandi losing her life while trying to do her duties towards the society and the possibility of Ganga dying in childbirth are in no way comparable.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: Shinya

 
whose mask is coming off ?🤣


😆

That is the reason Gangajee gave a marathon race to up stair when she heard Anandi is leaving. She was scared of the musk falling off

 
Edited by hisusmita - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: jayashree.g


Who is anandi to ganga when anandi risked her life and brought her mannu back. Who is anandi to ganga when anandi fought with BH people during haveli burn fiasco. Who is anandi to ganga when anandi prayed for her well being during her delivery. Who is anandi to ganga when anandi was worried for mannu's health and came all the way from udaipur along with shiv to offer support if any. 

Answer is nothing but anandi did it because she is cunning, manipulative and selfish.


List is long, who is Anandi to Ganga who cried and left BH when she heard the let go Ganga from Haveli?

Who is Anandi to Ganga who replied to Ganga when she called up to enquire about J though she knows Ira told clearly not to communicate?

Who is Anandi to Ganga when she almost decided to take Ganga home along with her before she entered BH? 
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: hisusmita


List is long, who is Anandi to Ganga who cried and left BH when she heard the let go Ganga from Haveli?

Who is Anandi to Ganga who replied to Ganga when she called up to enquire about J though she knows Ira told clearly not to communicate?

Who is Anandi to Ganga when she almost decided to take Ganga home along with her before she entered BH? 


Thanks for reminding all viewers how Anandi was  angry at Sumi and Dadisa for letting Ganga leave BH. 

She had no ulterior motive behind that, neither was she scared that she would be blamed for it or that someone might not forgive her. 

She did it only out of kindness and humility.
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: Shinya


Thanks for reminding all viewers how Anandi was  angry at Sumi and Dadisa for letting Ganga leave BH. 

She had no ulterior motive behind that, neither was she scared that she would be blamed for it or that someone might not forgive her. 

She did it only out of kindness and humility.


Not only that she almost spoilt their restaurant date by thinking about Ganga and Mannu. Her hubby had to console her and tell that dont worry Jagya will take care
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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.


Fortunate not just one but twice. Forget about someone snatching the child when things aren't under ones control... She would have got him killed due to sheer negligence. That incident where she walked with mannu in rain  memorizing her flirting scenes with jagya... She was just about to get hit by a lorry and would have got the baby killed if jagya had not come in time to rescue her. Remember? And to say she's been running away from her husband only to keep her son safe is a joke after doing things like this. 

Another incident where she went ahead with her second pregnancy just to give a waris to ds(probably to keep her position safe as haveli beendini knowing how her new husband could change wives like clothes) . Her justification to everything she did in those earlier refugee days was "for mannu" and soon after marriage , she was okay to make him an orphan. What hypocrisy and what a caring mother, I don't have words to describe. 


No good mother would ever walk with her child in the rain. She would stand in some shelter till it stopped raining. But this mother was dreaming of the accidental hugs she had with another man. 🤢 So engrossed with his thoughts that she could not hear the horn of the lorry.😡
 
Surprising this mother is called a good mother and compared with another mother who went to save a girl's life...🤢... Anandi did not lose her daughter like in some mela. Her daughter was snatched away in front of her eyes. It is indeed insensitive to make fun of her on this issue.


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Posted: 8 years ago
Originally posted by: Stephi



Is it really so hard to understand?

@ red  Any decent person would mind if their guest goes in anger. Wouldn't you ?

@blue And he never did. He himself said that her staying  has nothing to do with him , its between Anandi and Dadisaa. How many time is it necessary to repeat the same thing what Jagya  himself said, including all An fans who were repeating like a broken record  that Anandi  had to come in BH  because of Dadisa and Daddu that her staying in BH is solely because of Dadisa. But it seems things change as for  Anandi  the same for her fans. She has no problem to say  no to Dadisa, even  to her son but run away  from Jagya  because it  is obviously very painful  for her to say no to her first  love . As for her fans, suddenly  they would very like if  someone else's husband pay more  attention to his ex-wife than  the one with whom he has 2 kids  and  married her  for love.

@green It is very true. Jagya is not at all like Anandi , he never interfered in her life. He himself says so, we as a viewers never saw so. But for Anandi , there are piles of examples for her interference in his life. No need to  enumerate them , it 's  sufficient just to watch the serial carefully/  and for  Ganga  being scared , well its pretty harsh to say she's scared but then again I can't expect anything less from the people who are constantly making fun of her. I would say she was shocked by Anandi's decision to leave just because she  objected to her opinion, and of course nobody likes to be the cause of someone's so drastic decisions without  any guilt . And of course she  thought that her husband can  think that something big had happened since  Anandi  left the house in a hurry, and of course she  do not feel comfortable. Would you ? Poor Ganga, she doesnt even know that Anandi kinda daydreaming and what's the real reason why Anandi run away from Jagya.

@purple completely normal reaction. There is already   a tense situation in BH  because of this whole thing Ratan- Mannu-- Anandi's promise  , Ganga has already her  own fears about the possible meeting Mannu Ratan, tough decision she has to make ,their guest leave in a hurry   after all this blaming Ganga  for her  leaving , and someone expect that it will not disturb Ganga ? Do people really think if Anandi made this  decision years ago ,in peace not after a disagreement in opinion about Ganga 's kid  , Ganga would said the same thing,Jagya will blame me for your leaving?

@ bold  I really dont know how Anandi put Jagya out of this, that too clearly !? It was Anandi herself who admitted that she cannot wait for Jagya coz he will be hurt by her leaving , she cannot hurt him, she cannot say no to him. If people want answer on their question about Ganga, I really would like to know answer on this questions. Why Anandi cannot hurt only Jagya, why she cannot say no to him , why he's the only person whose feelings matters to her , why is she so sure he's going to stop her, why does she thinks her words have more weightiness than Gangas?  Who is Jagya in her life? Her brother ? Her best friend?  Well I have a brother and best friend too. But I never  thought not  for a moment that my words have more weightiness  than their wives. And siblings and best friends deserve to live their own lives and one day to have a person who 'll be the most important for them.  True friend knows when it's time to let go . Although I dont know about ex -wives.Seeing Anandi  Apparently  It must be the strongest   liaison, ex-wives never let go .So yes BH  is owned  by Dadisa, but Jagya isn't owned by Anandi.



well said stephi👏