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surabhi01 IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 05 May 2015 at 9:00pm | IP Logged
ganga want to be assertive let her remain assertive , , anandi is not going to force ganga to change her mind and what is guarantee even if anandi leave bh there will no anandi name in jagan talk and weird this ganga only remember half thing that ratan trying to snatch mannu from her but dont remember what she said to ratan in jail when ganga finally giving back mannu to ratan

and ganga putting condition infront of anandi if anandi tell shivam about his sister then I will tell mannu about ratan . that means if anandi really tell truth to shivam then ganga will really and happily tell mannu about ratan without any delay ? can ganga tell mannu about ratan even if anandi tell truth to shivam

Edited by surabhi01 - 05 May 2015 at 9:07pm

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Nandini30 Senior Member

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Posted: 05 May 2015 at 10:15pm | IP Logged
Ganga is not wrong. Anandi always had her influence at badi Haveli. And dadisa and team were more than welcome to her opinions. But dadisa never realized that ganga had more rights legally n socially though fir dadisa anandi was.more close to her.
Ganga was quite straight and side track jagya in her arguement
If she does not want anandi s promise to be obeyed by her she is bang on. And I love ganga put it across.
Anandi should niot put the thing on ganga to leave. She should leave gracefully. Anandi is so called.dignified lady. She is a widow of a martyr she should not have agreed to stay.under same roof with ex in kaws. Legally socially.she

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aparnauma IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 05 May 2015 at 10:31pm | IP Logged
Who was Ganga to Singhs when they gave her shelter? Ganga should remember that when she questions about Anandi's place in the house and Family.
Anandi entered that house as a bahu when she was a child and not like a refugee that  Ganga had been at the time of her entry.

When Anandi left that place she left the place like a daughter by getting married to a man who deserved her and who was right for her. Singh family performed the Kanyadan like parents would do.
She is as much a family member as Jagya is.

She re entered with the same rights as a daughter. It is she who didn't use the rights given by Dsa over the house and family.

Dsa did give her legal rights by writing some of the property in her name.

She is not living  there with the rights of somebody's ex patni but living there with the rights given to her as daughter of the house.

Ganga is no one to question Anandi's rights. Ganga should be the last person to talk about interference when she herself interfered in the lives of Singhs when she was nobody and she welcomed all the interferences from Anandi when they helped get closer to Singhs.

Ganga has no right to talk about Anandi's rights.

Ganga needn't agree to Ratan and Mannu meet to fulfill the promise that Anandi made to Ratan.That will not change Anandi's life in any way.

If Ganga choses not to honour the promise that she herself has made to Ratan that is not Anandi's problem but it is Ganga's own problem.

If Dsa and Jagya find themselves agreeing to Anandi's suggestions and that bothers Ganga then it is her problem not Anandi's doing

Edited by aparnauma - 05 May 2015 at 10:32pm

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aparnauma IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 05 May 2015 at 10:48pm | IP Logged
On the question about what society would think of blah blah 
Only cowards or people with hidden agendas would think about what society would think of them

Yes Anandi doesn't care about society - Because in her heart and mind she has no evil intentions.
She doesn't see Jagya as ex husband nor does she want him back in her life and so why should she give a damn about society? Her heart and mind is clean on this.

For that matter even Jagya he knows that Anandi is beyond his reach and he has only respect for her and values her as a friend and he is very serious about his commitment towards his marriage to Ganga and he does value his wife a lot despite the disagreements. So why should he be scared of society?

Ganga she knows that Anandi will never do anything to jeopardise her relationship with Jagya and despite her disagreements and insecurity she knows that her marriage is safe frm Anandi.
So what has she got to fear from society???

Yes Anandi expressed reservations and that were from her concern for Ganga and her own feeling of alienation from BH because she dosesn't consider BH as her home though she values the love and affection they have for her.

So why should they fear society?

People call Anandi spineless - had she been spineless she she would have feared the society but she never cared for society simply because she knew her boundaries. Her boundaries are even more rigid then society's boundaries.

Anandi only cares about the opinion of people who matter to her and doesn't give a damn about society.

Had she been regressive and spineless she would have gone to Singapore with her in laws.

She obeys family elders more than the society diktats - The head of her family Daddu dictated to her that she be at Singhs and she obeyed him and she accepted his and Dsa's opinion that she was not fit to take care of her children at that given point in time.
Now she is putting her foot down and saying no to Dsa because she now knows that she is capable woman who can take care of her son and also her fears that she has expressed 11 long years ago have proved to be right.

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surabhi01 IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 05 May 2015 at 11:05pm | IP Logged
on 10th april 2014 .ganga said to ratan I have given mannu birth but u have given me new life I will let mannu to meet with u

and how easily ganga take back those sweet word she said to ratan and how easily she forget th that she told ratan that she will let mannu meet with ratan .

giving word and then taking word is game for ganga

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tiny15 IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 05 May 2015 at 11:06pm | IP Logged
wen did ganga questioned abt Aji's place in singhs or BH??
wen did she  ask shivam's place in BH??
wen did ganga say shes not family member??
wen did ganga say Aji has no legal rites in BH??
wen did she say that aji shud leave BH ??
wen did ganga say that Aji is not daughter of the house??
 wen did ganga say Aji always interfere in BH??

she only asked her not 2 interfere in their lives. wats wrong in it??if ganga doesn't like Aji giving promise 2 ratan on behalf of her widout thinking abt the feelings of either ganga or J or mannu.

ganga has no prob that J agrees 2 A bcoz she knew he din't agree bcoz of Aji's promise but bcoz he himself telling her 2 do it from past 5yrs.

if ganga doesn't want 2 tell abt ratan & J also wants 2 take her in confidence . then wats prob wid Aji whos thinking so narrow abt ganga.??

and just like ganga was nothing 2 singhs wen she  was brought by DS & BS at the time Aji got mrd 2 shiv & Aji'd more rites at that time ganga has more rites now but still she never questioned Ajis' rites in BH. but ganga is rite in he r questioning Aji 4 interfering in JaGan's prsnl matters. 

mannu ratan-JaGan case is their prsnl matter & ganga is only questioning abt that.

shes not questioning AJI's  rites in BH given 2 her by DS.
and if she has more rites than ganga in BH then can J or DS ask ganga 2 leave the BH & ask Aji 2 stay.
if she has more rites then why J is not stopping Aji & why now DS is agreeing 2 Aji's moving out of BH?? why isn't DS asking ganga 2 move out wid her kids or tell her that Aji has more rites than ganga & she  can interfere in JaGan's prsnl matter?
bcoz she also knows that ganga is rite in questioning Aji's interference in JaGan's prsnl matters 

and if ganga was refugee at that time now Aji has bcum refugee now and just bcoz DS has given her  sum property share doesn't mean she has more rites on BH. shes not just adopted daughter of DS BUT ALSO EX WIFE OF J WHOS LIVING IN HER MRD EX"S HOME UNDER THE SAME

nowhere in the show its shown that Ganga questioned Aji's rites in BH or singhs.shes only questioning Aji's rite in interfering JaGan's prsnl matters.
tiny15 IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 05 May 2015 at 11:10pm | IP Logged
ofcourse its game 4 ganga just like its game 4 Aji 2 take oders granted 4 her  sake& use them also & interfere in oder's prsnl matters widout thinking abt the feelings of oders.
blushing IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 05 May 2015 at 11:15pm | IP Logged
I am sure even if  Anandi told Shivam about his twin sis Ganga won't tell truth about Mannu 
Ganga always promise but keeping promise is not her agenda 

Mannu not knowing his bio father Shivam not knowing having sis is different thing 

Shivam and Nandini are siblings Mannu Ratan had father son relation

i am sure way Abhi Ganga raise Anandi Shivam rights in BH Mannu will raise same Q 

how come in synopsis mention Ganga said Anandi Jagya will blame her if Anandi moves out ...why... why Ganga clear her name ...when she clearly raise Q abt Anandi's rights 

DS too witness this hence she allow Anandi as knew how much Ganga had probs with Anandi ...

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