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Software Symphonies 20 Color my shadow on 100 (Page 17)

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 12:02am | IP Logged
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hope savitha's death was an accident...how much these 3 kids are suffering by that scandal!!!ranjan too!!!really want to know beenukumar version.tan's mother!!!!aargh...i am not saying something mean about her only bcoz she is tans mother...and now david bekham v/s SRK!!


I would not blame Tan's mother at all...She is real...anyone would be irritated...Think from her position...she is from a respected family...how will she feel when her friends/relatives question about ranjan to her ?? This is an unnecessary black mark brought to her family just because of their connection...this might probably affect her grand children as sam says...so it is normal that she behaves that way...

Yeah she is behaving normally.but even if she feels pissed off,there is nothing wrong in being a lil considerate to your DIL who lost her whole family then.but no one will do that right?backbiting hurts more than rubbing it off your face!

True..she is irritated re...she has to take it on someone...Sam is sooo lucky that Tan in supportive...in how many cases does this happen ??? Tan could have asked her to cut her ties with Ranjan...He didn't and instead he helped ranjan to make her happy...any parent wouldnt like their son to involve in a scandal...rather tan was doing it here and it is going to irritate his parents obviously...

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 12:09am | IP Logged
Sam and Manny's convo highlights the insecurities that the family feels that R&B has never really voiced out no?

Some time, I want II to hear Tan's mom making a comment about Ranjan's scandal and the family. That would probably show II that she is not the only one feeling insecure. She may even get an inkling or sense the kind of repercussions that the family faces because of the scandal. She would possibly get an idea of the insecurity that R&B has when it comes to relationships and what thin ropes he may be walking on: waiting for disaster to strike again or relationships to fail due to that one mistake.

It will also give her a glimpse into Manny and of future comments she may have to hear when she has kids.

All this not directly perhaps. But overheard. Just a change of perception for her, just the way that R&B got an inkling into middle class thinking. 

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 12:26am | IP Logged
This update was just too good Nisha! The conversation between Sam and Manny was so intense!  Totally got lost in it.
Manny's character is very believable. Also loved the way Tan spoke up for Sam in front of his parents!

This is probably my third comment.. but just loved this update so much that I just had to write in on this.
Splendid writing! Clap

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 1:24am | IP Logged
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Originally posted by ishruhi

Originally posted by swathi1990

Originally posted by ishruhi

hope savitha's death was an accident...how much these 3 kids are suffering by that scandal!!!ranjan too!!!really want to know beenukumar version.tan's mother!!!!aargh...i am not saying something mean about her only bcoz she is tans mother...and now david bekham v/s SRK!!


I would not blame Tan's mother at all...She is real...anyone would be irritated...Think from her position...she is from a respected family...how will she feel when her friends/relatives question about ranjan to her ?? This is an unnecessary black mark brought to her family just because of their connection...this might probably affect her grand children as sam says...so it is normal that she behaves that way...

Yeah she is behaving normally.but even if she feels pissed off,there is nothing wrong in being a lil considerate to your DIL who lost her whole family then.but no one will do that right?backbiting hurts more than rubbing it off your face!


True..she is irritated re...she has to take it on someone...Sam is sooo lucky that Tan in supportive...in how many cases does this happen ??? Tan could have asked her to cut her ties with Ranjan...He didn't and instead he helped ranjan to make her happy...any parent wouldnt like their son to involve in a scandal...rather tan was doing it here and it is going to irritate his parents obviously...
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I feel so sorry for Manny. And my heart goes for her. She is basically jealous seeing her sis/bro happily settled down in married life. It is quite natural. She had R&B company in her single status but now he is happily settled. She doesn't have companyUnhappy

If we are born with siblings , all of would have gone through these kind of insecurities at one point of time.
Very very natural Nisha. You are currently ruling our minds/hearts with your realastic SoSYs.

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 2:48am | IP Logged
even if beckham come and stand beside II
first thing she will be doing is run to RnB and scold him for leaving her alone

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 3:48am | IP Logged
I feel current behaviour of manny is purely guided by insecurity and frustration more than jealousy. she fears being left alone. what if r&b moves away to paris by selling his shares with ii, sam is content with her family nd has tan for support. nd also some were she sees no future with vikram. to sum up manny at present is in state of emotional mess mostly dominated by insecurity and confusion

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Posted: 06 May 2015 at 5:30am | IP Logged
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Sins of father visited upon son/children... Sooo true...Ranjan's weak moment landed the lives of these 3 in constant cycle of dispair n aimlessness... The more I hear about the hurt n emotinal scars that these 3 are still suffering with, the more I feel that Savvy was too weak n selfish in her decisions, if she actually killed herself...she only thought of her hurt, her pain, her embarrassment...never thought how her own children will face double shame - dad's scandal n mom's suicide. N to suicide at your youngest's apartment?!? I feel R&B dated M FOR her age n not inspite of her age... He was looking to replace that elderly woman he lost in his life... N Manny... The fact that she appears soo strong n doesnt want others to know how terribly hurt she is, makes it feel soo real... I feel am like Manny... I steel myself from hurt by completely channeling my energy into something else... In the heart of hearts I think n hurt about it possibly.. But on the surface, I laugh n live like the episode was of little to no significance...thankfully I have had no such irreplacable losses as these 3... About Manny n her strategy to tackle hurt - Possibly her hurt came out as her rudeness and hence her ex-hubby divorced her... Each of these 3 kids are battling a different ghost... R&B might often wonder that if he had been home that hour when his mom became so weak to take her life, possibly he could have pursuaded her to take such extreme step... Maybe manny started painting her ex in the same color as she saw her dad... Visiually Ranjan appeared the guilty one.. Maynpbe manny too doubted her ex a bit too much... N not all arranged marriages survive such difficult emotional baggages... Sam possibly suffered too.. But Tan was her anchor...one which manny was unlucky to not find in her ex or for that matter even R&B did until he met II... Ranjan lives each day to see R&B punish him for sin he may or may not have committed.
The two sisters bond, Manny knows sam is right when she wants to protect II from Manny , but since the only way for manny to function until now has been by running away or accusing... She is trying her best to hold onto everything familiar to her but dynamics at MM are changing n so is the mood! Its marching towards better times! :)


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I agree with most of the points...But I donno why u leave Ranjan out of this blame and put everything only on savvy's head

Hiii...long time no speak!!!
From where I see it, Savvy's suicide was a very very wrong move. Yes! Ranjan made a mistake... He was "supposedly" unfaithful... But savvy could have separated from Ranjan... Taken him to task... The kids would have all gladly supported her... But Savvy would still be alive!! She could have moved in with R&B or stayed in US/london if India was difficult to live in... Money was never a problem..instead she chose to die(if she did indeed commit suicide)... N that damaged the kids more than Ranjan's infidelity... The reason why R&B day in and day out punishes Ranjan is coz Ranjan's 1 weak moment cost R&B the loss of his closest relationship...which was with his mother...an irreplacable loss...agar Savvy zinda hoti, toh maybe there would be a divorce... But never this big n such hurtful emotional damage to all the three...Savvy zinda hoti toh maybe Manny wouldnt turn out the way she has become now... A recluse, distrusting, aimless person!! I can soo see Savvy's distrust in marital relationships directly coloring Manny's thoughts n thats why she sees relationships as bodily needs, n not emotional anchor that she soo desparately needs!!
I do blame Ranjan... He was the catalyst to Savvy's death,possibly... But a spouse's unfaithfulness can never be bigger than your own life... Noone..I repeat, Noone deserves that much control over your thoughts n action to push you to such heinous crime...agar Savvy ek baar sochti ki iss action ka uske bachchon par kya reaction hoga toh wo shayad ye nahi karti


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Thanks for loving it you guys.. Melodeevee thanks for making a third post ever for this tale. Mrs I, I hit the sack after posting the previous chapter couldnt stay up one second, sorry...

Hershey and Swa, and Namratha niiice... Hershey is right if Savvy had lived EVERYTHING would be different, its like the Clinton scandal, people would have long forgotten

I mean who doesnt cheat on his wife in Delhi high society? Almost all do. Raat gayi baat gayi... Savvy could have tried to mend the bridge between Ranjan and R&B, R&B would be so outraged to begin with. The humiliation to Sam may have been less... Manny may not have suffered the divorce as the backlash of Ma's passing

Every dynamic would have been different, or atleast less pronounced... by Savvy going away like that... the torture and pain and suffering has become part of life for these three.

Namratha and Putti... thanks for agreeing its believable... its somewhat similar to II and Vandu's... yes. Sam is not mature and immune to pain, she hurts too, but in public she puts on a brave face
For some reason she loves II a lot. Just like Ranjan does...

Envee, great point, wont it be wonderful for II to see what kind of deep unresolvable insecurities such a wealthy accomplished family seems to be wrestling with? It will surely tell her she is not alone

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