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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 9:42am | IP Logged
 DadiSa always had double standards. She had to be manipulative and street smart to survive with two kids. So even now she is palying both sides while not revealing her own hand.
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In my opinion, as far as Ganga is concerned, the years she spent with Ratan hardened her as a person and raised her self preservation threshold while lowering her trust level in people. Moreover as a mother, she instinctly tends to protect her child.

Though she promised Ratan that he could meet Mannu, I think it was just out of gratitude and a spur of the moment thing. She felt that she owed him that much for returning her son. Not much different from what Anandi did, except that Ganga has the power to fulfil her promise.

Her years at Badi Haveli among decent folk softened her and lowered her guard. She felt safe and was busy trying to become another Anandi all these years.

Now that the time has come to deliver on her promise, all of Ganga's old fears are towering over her. In her fear of losing Mannu, she will lash out at anyone. She did it at Jagya few years earlier and yesterday at Anandi. 

She was street smart and a fighter. Qualities that she lost after coming to BH. Hopefully with this incident, her possessiveness to hold on to her new life will break her out of the Anandi mould into her own person. We should get to see a spark or two flying around.

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DadiSa and Jagya too should realise that just because Ganga has learnt to make Adrak ki chai like Anandi, it does not make her Anandi.

Time DadiSa lets go of Anandi and accepts Ganga for the person she is.

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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 12:22pm | IP Logged
Dadisa double standards is nothing new. She praises ganga for her adrak ki chai but tells anandi to be honest I praise ganga but she is not as good as you in making chai. 
Ds wants to enjoy goodies of both world ganga will be her bindni and jagya anandi with her though anandi is not physical with jagya but they have a life together and part of same family.
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Dadisa will be the peacemaker.

She is the Panchayat in BH.

She indirectly caused discomfiture and she should find the solution.
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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 8:15pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves

Dadisa will be the peacemaker.

She is the Panchayat in BH.

She indirectly caused discomfiture and she should find the solution.
Dadisa has ceased to think about others and living in denial pretending that all is well when in fact it is not.
Her judgement cannot be trusted at all.

Anandi leaving BH is best for every one but Dsa will not have that Angry

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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 10:52pm | IP Logged
DS has double standards.
She does love her ladesaar as well as her chidakali. But when she takes decision that love does overshadows her decisions sometimes. She tries to convince herself by keeping her eyes closed.

Yes , I agree Anandi did a mistake by not talking to Jagya Ganga before making a promise and she admitted it too but knowing Anandi she is always like that when it comes to saving some life, fulfilling wishes of a dying person. She thinks and does whatever she thinks right for the person at that moment

She herself married to fulill the wish of her mother. She lost her baby in saving other's life. At that point of time she does what she thinks is right.

But Ganga? What she is doing.

I am loving this track as this is bringing the story as Anandi Vs Ganga.

No one can become like Anandi in goodness , she may act even foolish sometimes but no way to harm others.

But Ganga is street smart. I find her more of opportunist.

She has no problem taking all the help, suggestion when it suits her and when it doesn't suit she talks about right.

How many times she has taken help to please doctor saab , now when she is capable after taking all the benefits she is talking about rights

Knowing Anandi, Ganga  should have been wiser with her words.

Anandi is the same lady who stood in front of Ratan's Singh's gun to save her son's life.

For Anandi, she will give, give , give through out the life and forgive

For Ganga she will get, get, get and forget.

That is the personality coming across now.




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Dadisa always had double standards and specially when it comes to her loved ones...here one side its anandi, who is her lifeline and other is ganga who is her ladesar's life...so she is going to be diplomatic in this situation. 
I feel what she said was to calm down ganga. Anandi accepted her mistake in front of DS already...and DS knows if she will reiterate the same thing anandi is not going to make an issue of it...she will again say sorry at max.
But if DS had not supported Ganga, she would have kept exploding and situation already tense would have gone out of hands. So she said it to support Ganga, and anyways anandi did do a mistake so DS supporting ganga on this is not wrong at all.
How much she meant it is yet to be seen.

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But if DS had not supported Ganga, she would have kept exploding and situation already tense would have gone out of hands. So she said it to support Ganga, and anyways anandi did do a mistake so DS supporting ganga on this is not wrong at all.
How much she meant it is yet to be seen.

Yes anandi did a mistake. But for that ds could chide anandi. She does not have to support Ganga. After two episodes passed , now it looks like ds is quiet about all this. Just like she interferes in everyone's lives, as an elderly woman and as an ex criminal who is still getting all the benefits now, she could go to Ganga and tell her " my dear please don't think only of the bad ratan did to you. Think of the good too. Today you have mannu in front of your eyes only because of him. Also please think of me and you present husband. We did numerous crimes starting from torturing a kid to getting illegally married , also got a woman raped and also murdered another woman. Still both of us are forgiven. Not just forgiven, we are living a full fledged happy life and got fame, everything more than what we deserve and were given best character certificates too  by the one who was tortured by us. Just imagine where we would have been if the girl who forgave us was like you? Both of us would have been in jail let alone, getting all these luxuries. So please think of people like us... just like we redeemed,  even your ex husband, the father of your son who saved his life also redeemed. Though the way you became a doctor is strange , still you happen to save lives... Think from that angle too and let ratan see his son before he dies " . Am sure Ganga  Will let ratan meet mannu after hearing this advise from ds Embarrassed

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Posted: 05 May 2015 at 2:28am | IP Logged
Originally posted by The_Alchemist.

Originally posted by rdjha


But if DS had not supported Ganga, she would have kept exploding and situation already tense would have gone out of hands. So she said it to support Ganga, and anyways anandi did do a mistake so DS supporting ganga on this is not wrong at all.
How much she meant it is yet to be seen.

Yes anandi did a mistake. But for that ds could chide anandi. She does not have to support Ganga. After two episodes passed , now it looks like ds is quiet about all this. Just like she interferes in everyone's lives, as an elderly woman and as an ex criminal who is still getting all the benefits now, she could go to Ganga and tell her " my dear please don't think only of the bad ratan did to you. Think of the good too. Today you have mannu in front of your eyes only because of him. Also please think of me and you present husband. We did numerous crimes starting from torturing a kid to getting illegally married , also got a woman raped and also murdered another woman. Still both of us are forgiven. Not just forgiven, we are living a full fledged happy life and got fame, everything more than what we deserve and were given best character certificates too  by the one who was tortured by us. Just imagine where we would have been if the girl who forgave us was like you? Both of us would have been in jail let alone, getting all these luxuries. So please think of people like us... just like we redeemed,  even your ex husband, the father of your son who saved his life also redeemed. Though the way you became a doctor is strange , still you happen to save lives... Think from that angle too and let ratan see his son before he dies " . Am sure Ganga  Will let ratan meet mannu after hearing this advise from ds Embarrassed

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