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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 1:41am | IP Logged
Anandi previously did not fulfil some of the promises. Promise made to shiv, for example. It should not be big deal if one tries and could not fulfil that promise. Geeta also says that one should not expect fruits but do one's duty.

But if anandi persists now after ganga's unwillingness, then I will blame anandi for being obstinate just to fulfil her promise.


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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 2:09am | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves

Anandi previously did not fulfil some of the promises. Promise made to shiv, for example. It should not be big deal if one tries and could not fulfil that promise. Geeta also says that one should not expect fruits but do one's duty.

But if anandi persists now after ganga's unwillingness, then I will blame anandi for being obstinate just to fulfil her promise.
 
 
Promise to shiv was not fulfilled because of CVs. CVs decided to send off shekhar family. I don't understand why was that scene even shown considering when they decided to kill Shiv, they must must have decided on packing off Shekhar family tooConfused.
 
 
if you say it as duty, if she only did her duty of conveying a message to JaGan, her duty would have finished with just informing them. But here she promised rattan on meeting mannu, now her duty doesn't finish till she fulfills her promise.
 
 

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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 2:31am | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves

Anandi previously did not fulfil some of the promises. Promise made to shiv, for example. It should not be big deal if one tries and could not fulfil that promise. Geeta also says that one should not expect fruits but do one's duty.

But if anandi persists now after ganga's unwillingness, then I will blame anandi for being obstinate just to fulfil her promise.
It can't be said that Anandi didn't fulfil the promises she made to Shiv.
If Anandi had not taken the tough decision to hand over the information to the law enforcemnet authorities Anup would have never realised how much his brother Alok cared for him.
This is what Shiv would have done too.
The warring brothers are together in spirit but they didn't have it in them to stay back and support their son's wife and grand children.

Anandi brought the brothers together as she promised but the members of Shiv's family didn't fulfill their responsibilities towards his wife and grand children

People say that Anandi should have insisted that they stay back with her but can't they see how alone their DIL is ?Do they need to be emotionally blackmailed using Shiv's wish to get their support?

As for being mother and father to her children well time will tell whether she succeeded or not.


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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 2:40am | IP Logged
Actually I do not want ratan's wish to be fulfilled. He was such a disgusting person who made ganga's life hell. Now he knows his son mannu has a good life. If he really loves his son, he will not want to upset mannu's life by past revelations.

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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 2:57am | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves

Actually I do not want ratan's wish to be fulfilled. He was such a disgusting person who made ganga's life hell. Now he knows his son mannu has a good life. If he really loves his son, he will not want to upset mannu's life by past revelations.
The question here is not whether we want Ratan to meet his son or not.
It is the question of willingness to fulfil a dying man's wish.
It is also about Ganga's way of dealing with her past and handling problems in her present life how her decisions are going to affect her son's life 

They can make him see Mannu from a distance or get him to meet Mannu without revealing that he is the father but it will not change the fact that Ganga has hidden some truths from Mannu.

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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 3:05am | IP Logged
It is a dying man's wish. But this dying man did horrible things to his wife. Thats why I dont have sympathy for such people.

How come mannu did not see his birth certificate? How come no one in the village or mannu's friends raised this topic?

How come mannu did not compare his parents wedding day and his birth date and asked why he was born before their wedding?
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Both the ladies were wrong...

Anandi had no right to promise Ratan without consulting Ganga-Jagya.If writers show that Anandi has no idea about Mannu not knowing his father then it will be a blunder.She saw Shiv's condition when he got to know the truth and if I am not wrong she was hiding it from him as she was not sure and also because she didn't want to hurt him.But then Shiv got the hint and she had to reveal.So same is Mannu's condition.Mannu is in an age where he is neither a baby nor an adult so its very risky yet she confidently promised and then casually said what one should do for a dying person.Is the whole thing so easy!You can do whatever u think is right but there is the risk of Mannu getting to know the truth.The dialogues were absurd and went over my head.

And then Ganga.She has turned into one complete different personality,anyways nothing new.She bashed Jagya for wanting to save Mannu from future heartbreaks.Though Ratan raped her,beat her,almost killed her and one should never forgive the rapist,murderer but before leap she already forgave him and said she will bring Mannu to meet him.But now all of a sudden she hates him!Says she will not think much about a dying person!Are u serious.She was all OK with them and now she says doesn't want to give into their behkawa!Ya,we understand people changes and turns into one different person like Sriti turned into Sargun and Sargun turned into Aasiya.

And the most awaited part of the century Anandi vs Ganga happens.Thanks cvs.

But then I am glad that the writers yet didn't choose a side.They showed both right and both wrong but the sad part is that Ganga not ready to fulfil the wish of the person who saved Mannu is not at all good.That is not what she used to be.

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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 3:25am | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves

It is a dying man's wish. But this dying man did horrible things to his wife. Thats why I dont have sympathy for such people.

How come mannu did not see his birth certificate? How come no one in the village or mannu's friends raised this topic?

How come mannu did not compare his parents wedding day and his birth date and asked why he was born before their wedding?
Nobody has sympathy for him.
But this redemption part A dadisa can be accepted and a Jagya can be accpeted but why not Ratan?

People not only wanted Anandi to forgive Jagya but wanted her to take him back in her life.Jagya may not have forced himself on her but what about the humiliation ultimate betrayal by taking another woman in his life while he still has a wife what about the way he treated her? He treated like she is a piece of garbage which he couldn't wait to get rid of.Are all these any less?

Here Ratan only wants to meet his son once before he dies so why was it not acceptable?

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