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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 12:55am | IP Logged
Originally posted by aparnauma

While Anandi's wishes to fulfil a dying man's wish was not wrong in principle nobody is saying that she is right in making that promise without consulting the concerned people.

She could have just promised him to do her best and left it at that instead of promising that she would make the meet happen.
While making this promise she only brought trouble on herself and will have to bear all kinds of insults and humiliations

True, she was wrong to promise and she has admitted the same. She said she had no right to do so but could not disappoint a dying man. Another black mark in her looong list of black marks.


But the question is that can Ganga overlook this request from a father to whom she herself promised meeting rights.

To keep Mannu alive, Ganga, the selfless mother, was ready to hand over his custody to this horrible man. Now her fear of the truth coming out is holding her back from granting Mannu's father one meeting.

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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 12:57am | IP Logged
Ratan who is dying why did he wait for so long. And only wants to meet mannu when he sees anandi
Ratan could have come on his own. Anandi should not have promised. She should have said I will try
 If things were so simple then how can there be ganga anandi cat fight
Jagya will also not Find it wrong. And ganga will have more reason to raise finger against jagya anandi relationship. Hope this will make anandi take a step not to stay under same roof.
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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 1:03am | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves

We are losing the wood in search of trees.

Here anandi's right or her vachan has no importance. The actual matter is meeting of mannu with ratan which ganga does not want.

As usual, the actual matter is sidestepped and blaming anandi starts.
 
 
Ganga's current problem is about her rights and anandi's interference in her life(by anandi or because of others). So here actual matter is about anandi's interference as well. When her interference is not welcome, she should not interfere.
 
Ganga could be more adamant because it was anandi who told about Ratan - mannu meet. Maybe she would have agreed easily if Jagya had met Ratan and is favor of Ratan-Mannu meeting. Ocourse it is biased attitude, but that's how ppl are mostly. Even good thing is said by someone you don't like, ppl don't take it.
 
Also by making promise, CVs made it her track when track is all about JaGan and their kid. How is that acceptable. Its a serial its not real happening. CVs intentions will be taken into account.
 
Blaming anandi starts? Ganga is not blamed here - is it? Why is anandi being blamed so hurtful even when it is her fault!
 
 
 
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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 1:09am | IP Logged
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Yes Anandi is wrong ... How can she expect others should be behave just like her
 
If Anandi choose to forgive people even they made her life miserable ... Rest can't
 
 
Anandi zeal of help those are needy on cost her own life or her own kid life rest can't
 
Anandi stopped being so stupid expect rest follow your path ...
 
 
Exactly! Noone should expect others to have their morals and values. Ppl have different values based on their experiences and what they learnt from it. Forcing their opinion on others is wrong. I have my opinion but I can't expect others to have the same opinion.
 
 

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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 1:16am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Sunna_Deewani

Originally posted by blushing

Yes Anandi is wrong ... How can she expect others should be behave just like her
 
If Anandi choose to forgive people even they made her life miserable ... Rest can't
 
 
Anandi zeal of help those are needy on cost her own life or her own kid life rest can't
 
Anandi stopped being so stupid expect rest follow your path ...
 
 
Exactly! Noone should expect others to have their morals and values. Ppl have different values based on their experiences and what they learnt from it. Forcing their opinion on others is wrong. I have my opinion but I can't expect others to have the same opinion.
 
 


You are assuming so many things. If ganga listens to Jagya no problem for anyone. Anandi has done her duty whether one likes it or not and she did not ask ganga to murder mannu.

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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 1:24am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Sunna_Deewani

Originally posted by blushing

Yes Anandi is wrong ... How can she expect others should be behave just like her
 
If Anandi choose to forgive people even they made her life miserable ... Rest can't
 
 
Anandi zeal of help those are needy on cost her own life or her own kid life rest can't
 
Anandi stopped being so stupid expect rest follow your path ...
 
 
Exactly! Noone should expect others to have their morals and values. Ppl have different values based on their experiences and what they learnt from it. Forcing their opinion on others is wrong. I have my opinion but I can't expect others to have the same opinion.
 
 


Anandi is showing the right path. Because ganga used to ask anandi advice so many times. Now if ganga does not want anandi's advice, then even dadisa will realise that her comparison of ganga with anandi is wrong.Ganga has her own personality and anandi has her own personality.
Ganga is not version2 of anandi.

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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 1:33am | IP Logged
Originally posted by leavesandwaves

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Anandi is showing the right path. Because ganga used to ask anandi advice so many times. Now if ganga does not want anandi's advice, then even dadisa will realise that her comparison of ganga with anandi is wrong.Ganga has her own personality and anandi has her own personality.
Ganga is not version2 of anandi.
 
Anandi conveying the message or even suggesting that Ganga should not stop Ratan- Mannu is correct. But making a promise for which she had no right. is wrong.  
 
If Anandi is showing the right path, she should have only made a suggestion mentioning positives to her suggestion and let JaGan decide. But here Anandi promised to rattan. So now Anandi is obligated to fulfill her promise. Otherwise that also will be wrong. She got herself into a trouble.


Edited by Sunna_Deewani - 03 May 2015 at 1:34am

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Posted: 03 May 2015 at 1:39am | IP Logged
The very fact that Ratan made such a request means that this desire was at the top of his mind. It was only a matter of time before this request would have reached Ganga by any means.

Anandi's chance meeting just means that the request reached earlier.

Seeing how Ganga had so vehemently opposed Jagya on revealing the truth to Mannu, she would have behaved exactly like what she did yesterday irrespective of whether Ratan would have directly approached Jagya or he would have made this request in Jaitser hospital in a bad state.

Ganga did try to emulate Anandi in order to fit in. She suppressed her own personality in the process. Hopefully Ganga's own personality will emerge from this incident.



Note: And yes Anandi was wrong in making that promise to Ratan. And she will be further punished for not fulfilling it.

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