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Posted: 8 years ago
Rapes have become topics of heated debates now a days, and I feel, marital rapes, that is non-consensual sex between a husband and a wife should be more strictly punished that non-married rapes. I feel so because this is the outcome of Chauvinism and the idea of having dominance over one's wife in the man. They feel, everything they do and say is the truth. Once having married a woman, they feel they have acquired her, and can treat them like their property, doing anything they wish like. It's a sad state that our Constitution does not even recognize the need for consent by the wife before having sexual intercourse as important, and vital.
A marriage is between a man and a woman, an affair of equal, partnering people. And if one says No, I don't feel like, the other should understand, be it the husband or the wife. Raising awareness about the same is important, and I feel, before laws, we have to alter perceptions about the equation between the married couple.



You have chosen a very fine topic, and this needs to be voiced over. 

-Niv
Posted: 8 years ago
Sex education, is something very important in today's day and life, especially where technology has enabled people to access whatever they want by the click of the button. And more than that, even if you have to download a song online, there are po*nographic images all over the page, that pollutes the mind, and increases curiosity in such things. It's important that we educate the kids the not only about difference between a boy and a girl, but also between respect, friendship, love, embracing; and sexual abuse, exploratory touching, rape.

Posted: 8 years ago
Well done girls. You girls have done a fantastic job. :) NO MEANS NO.
Posted: 8 years ago
Thanks a lot guys for making this post..we need to talk about marital rape more and more..still women in India thinks it's their duty to serve their hubbies on bed..it's her duty to carry his child even if she's not willing inside. Just imagine how suffocating and torturing its for them who has left to choice except living with the person, who had physically and sentimentality abused her..he's none other than the HUSBAND. They are our beloved ones...they're the ones who has vowed to protect us from all odds. And when they become the beast...
The worst thing about marital rape is you can't prove it like strangers-rape. You are supposed to have normal sex with your partner..and may be you have already done it several times with the same person who was all lovey-dovey back then. If your family and friends ask you to prove its RAPE not normal sex what will you do? If there is no physical bruises then? If he denies to accept that he forced himself on you then? Every time its not necessary to force one by beating her! There are other ways..in fact so many ways to threat a wife emotionally..he knows your strong and weak zones and this knowledge he'll use as weapon to have what he wants..
The solution given here is not so useful as changing mindset which has been cultivated through all these centuries is not easy that too in a patriarchal society. Sex Education is a dream for rural schools where even basic education doesn't reach.. People in cities also are desperate for food and cloth first..education comes to their least priority. And sex Education?? They will laugh on it..

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