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The girl Shiv married was a powerful girl with vision and focus in life. She was someone who knew to make something out of her broken life. She was sweet, caring and family-oriented, but at the same time she had the will-power, fighting spirits and ability to control her life. She knew what she wanted.
With only limited resources, this girl knew how to move ahead. From her first broken relationship - when she made to feel useless, she had taken every step to show her worthiness to her family and society through her education, persuasion and her never-give-up attitude.
The girl who Shiv married was a perfect life partner one would want, except that she was a broken heart and needed some soul healing.
Shiv fell for Anandi's above characteristics slowly and steadily day by day. She was the one he was looking for and was ready to heal her soul.
The woman who Shiv has left behind is a confused soul with no specific dreams, ambitions or choices in life. She has no vision and no mission. She is someone who jumps from one person's problems to another without any real reason. She is failing as a mother in protecting her kids. She is failing a person to control her own life and she is someone who invites problems.
Will a man ever want to give away all that he has for a confused fragile soul like Anandi? Or will Anandi need to stand up in her own eyes first before anyone can even appreciate her?
Life is not a bed of roses, and Shivs do not always come from some corner to heal all tormented Anandis. In life one has to fight to earn or protect what is theirs. If Anandi can do that good for her, otherwise I am not sure anymore Shiv will want to heal this Anandi.
The woman Shiv married had an identity of her own but she willingly gave up that identity and loved being his wife and taking care of his home and that was an act of love from her.
As for her hopes and aspirations - No matter what her love for her family comes first over her dreams.
She sacrificed her dreams and got married to Jagya because her parents wanted that for her
She sacrificed her independence and got married to Shiv because the family wanted it.
Post her marriage Shiv became her first priority in life and everything else came next
Yes she was looking for a way to help out people like Chanda Bhaili came into existence with the help of Shiv and her time and energy was divided between him his family and Bhaili
Then she wanted to adopt Amol - She divided her self between Shiv his family Amol and Bhaili
Then the biggest blow to her life HER NO 1 priority has been taken away.
She was taking care of kids family and Bhaili and going on with her life doing what she has always been doing since marriage
The one whom Shiv married - even her priority back then was also family and her desires dreams came second.For her Singh family came first and then came her own desires and dreams
The one whom Shiv left behind - her priority has always been him.Her world revolved around him that was clearly evident during the drug drama or when Palash was trying to disrupt their lives - Her world began and ended with him Yes CVs showed her taking care of his family as an act of her love for him since it is family drama.
There are two things - she always did stand up for the people who can't stand up for themselves and always found a way to help people who are in need.She never ever thought of consequences of her standing for the weak and defenceless and she paid price for it in someway or other and now she paid the biggest price.Standing up for what she believes is what she does for herself
Other thing - She always put the happiness and well being of her loved ones over her own interests and dreams
They never change.
Goal driven existence - May be her goals are not tangible ones - She is doing what she wants - always be of help to someone in someway or other and her goal is to look for ways to do it.
Educating small group of girls - turned into a school
Her desire and dedication to help her village make her better place made her Sarpanch
Wanting to help women - turned into Bhaili - I am sure it is her practical side to her beliefs and principles taht keeps Bhaili going on and not just her emotions
There are goals and there are goals
Just getting highest possible education and reaching the heights one wants to reach need not be the only kind of goals in life
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