Originally posted by krkavita
Ahem he told Gopi that he lived without her for 8 years, it is not her fault. Although, Kokila did not push Gopi out of the house or directly tell her to go, her life had become a hell after Meera was missing after her drowning incident.
The couple lived happily only after Gopi had educated herself till Radha attacked Meera. If at all he stood by her with respect to Paridhi's kidnapping, it was only out of his reluctance.
When he could wait for 8 years to spend time with Gopi, then what is the big deal for him to wait now? It is all his fault. When she was with him, he never had any regard for it. It was more terrible when the couple was newly married. He was indifferent no matter what it is. Imagine that when a girl is married & is in in-laws place only to find that her husband is accusing her for stealing, marrying him for money etc. sister-in-law creating problems in her married life & taunting her, her own cousin sister creating more problems instead of standing by her, Mother-in-law taking time to know the truth!😡 In these circumstances, the girl who is innocent, uneducated & don't have any knowledge about the outside world would commit suicide.
Gopi had undergone these things & it really made me cry. The sister-in-law is none other than Kinjal. Cousin sister is none other than Rashi. Mother-in-law is none other than Kokila & the so called loving & caring husband is none other than Ahem(I am being sarcastic).
Even when Gopi wanted to show the true colors of Paridhi to Kokila, where was Ahem at that time? When Kokila had broken all the ties with Gopi, where was he at that time? He has consistently supported his mother. If at all he agreed to save Paridhi, he was reluctant to do that. And now he wants her!😡
Ahem is right from his viewpoint now but he only thinks from his perspect. He is selfish just like his mother.😡
It is sad that while India has progressed in many areas, there is still discrimination against women in many families. And we see that perfectly well in the way Gopi was treated by her cousin sister, Rashi, her sister-in-law, Kinjal, her spineless coward husband, Ahem and her self-righteous mother-in-law, Kokila. I still get angry remembering how Rashi used to conspire against Gopi and think that her death was punishment for the way she treated Gopi. 😡 I wish that Jigar had come to know what Rashi was doing with Gopi. Maybe he would have given Rashi the boot! 😆
As for your questions where Ahem was all this time that Gopi needed him, he was too busy being a mommas boy and listening to Kokila. He never wanted anything to do with Gopi in all that time and suddenly, he wants her? Yeah, Ahem wants Gopi now, but, when his desire for Gopi will be fully satiated, Ahem will just kick her to the curb again, not caring at all in the least that Gopi is someone's daughter. From his point of view, Ahem is right and thinks from his own perspective and acts like it will kill him if he tries to see things from other people's perspective. Not only is Ahem swaarthi (selfish), but also he is ahankaari (egotistic) and ghamandi (self-righteous) and many other things which I will not repeat here. 😡
I wish that something would happen that would give Ahem a jolt and he would start taking his wife seriously and accept her as she is and not treat her like crap and only respect her when it is most convenient for him. He is so rude and insensitive. I honestly wish Gopi would tell her fair weather husband Ahem to go play in traffic! 😡