Is suicide the only solution to any problem? - Page 2

This content was originally posted by: samridhigoodiez

Is suicide the only solution to any problem or its a run away means? a lady committed suicide in my neighbourhood leaving her two kids behind just now. Her kids are young . I don't know what to say but I m really feeling bad for her kids..They are too young..

What a tragedy.

Sad story. A lot of children commit suicide due to bad academic results and many a times it was not due to their own fault. 😔

It is sad to hear the story of Pinki Chauhan. Here one can clearly see that Pinki could not get the compassion, gentleness, tenderness and understanding from her parents or any other elders. What would have been the case if her parents had been more compassionate, understanding and loving to her? Probably they would have encouraged her to study more and do well in life. She was pained when the elders put pressure on her. 

A typical story in films will be this type of girl finds a young man, who has all the compassion, care, gentleness, tenderness and understanding towards her and he is with her, present to her and available to her, helps her fulfill her dreams, rebels against the college authorities to get her paper revalued and who fights her parents also. But in real life she could find a womanizer who shows to be kind to her but with a totally selfish motive and then again a disastrous result happens.
Edited by maha2us - 9 years ago

The way i see it the sad stories will persist till the time we are dependent on other people for our emotional support.

This content was originally posted by: zorrro

The way i see it the sad stories will persist till the time we are dependent on other people for our emotional support.

The same God that saves also destroys all; the Big Guy wears different hats at different times.

This content was originally posted by: Summer3

The same God that saves also destroys all; the Big Guy wears different hats at different times.

 

Education should teach skills based on a student's aptitude.

This content was originally posted by: zorrro

Parents usually pressurize their children to take up subjects that they feel would do them good without any heed for the child's aptitude. Who is to be blamed her-  The parents who want good for their child, the child for not being able to adapt to the demands of the time, the society which is not kind to non-conformists? 

Sometimes it is just ignorance on the part of the parents too. Schools should have proper counselling and career guidance. The pursuit for further academic qualifications does not help all and often learning other skills such engineering  would be preferable for some.

Oops I came across this. Must be a pretty common problem: Edited by Summer3 - 9 years ago

As someone suicidal, I've always been hurled negative comments at telling me how impermissible and disagreeable it is.  Not because it's cowardly (I don't think so.) but rather because one's religion does not gives you the permission to do so. If you were to convince me not to suicide when I find life worthless and you tell me not to go for this option just because you think I owe my life to god and it belongs to him/her, I'd seriously ask you to cut the crap. 😳 Point being, miserable people need convincing and influential reasons not to suicide and none seems to have one. It is certainly not the only solution to any problem and I'd like to make an amendment in here, no one commits suicide only because of a problem. Either their life is full of crap or their intrinsically melancholic and suicidal. I for one believe if one does not feels like living (in fact its more of surviving or just breathing) anymore, they should have the right to die. But here comes the sensitive and infuriating (for me) part, what to do with your loved ones? I'm selfish but not everyone is, they'll think about it for years and would try to brush off these thoughts to live for those whom they love but my dear, there comes a point where not just the problems aggravate and escalate in number but you also become critical of yourself for not having the courage (yes!) needed to just do it. And then you finally do it. 

This content was originally posted by: .enigma

As someone suicidal, I've always been hurled negative comments at telling me how impermissible and disagreeable it is.  Not because it's cowardly (I don't think so.) but rather because one's religion does not gives you the permission to do so. If you were to convince me not to suicide when I find life worthless and you tell me not to go for this option just because you think I owe my life to god and it belongs to him/her, I'd seriously ask you to cut the crap. 😳 Point being, miserable people need convincing and influential reasons not to suicide and none seems to have one. It is certainly not the only solution to any problem and I'd like to make an amendment in here, no one commits suicide only because of a problem. Either their life is full of crap or their intrinsically melancholic and suicidal. I for one believe if one does not feels like living (in fact its more of surviving or just breathing) anymore, they should have the right to die. But here comes the sensitive and infuriating (for me) part, what to do with your loved ones? I'm selfish but not everyone is, they'll think about it for years and would try to brush off these thoughts to live for those whom they love but my dear, there comes a point where not just the problems aggravate and escalate in number but you also become critical of yourself for not having the courage (yes!) needed to just do it. And then you finally do it. 

You feel bad for the children but then again you don't know what gave your neighbor the final push. So what you do is, sit and pray for the kids to grow just fine or you go and help 'em. Depends on how well your relationship is with humanity.

Yes sometimes life can be really very difficult for some and there little options left.