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Posted: 31 December 2014 at 3:51pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by rits08

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I feel that the pain she felt after break up was too much for her! She was heartbroken and completely shattered... A naive person like her who has a pure heart, the dejection broke her heart! It took her so much time to get over it... I can understand how she must have felt...each and everyday was so painful for her...the insult, the trust break and the lies all killed her from inside! She did not have anyone to talk to...and she could not run away from situations. 

Even after knowing truth about Dhruv, she could not accept MAnik back...bcoz he broke her trust... she was not sure that if she went back to him, he might again leave her in future! It must have been a painful experience for her to face her love each day and yet hide her feelings! It was not just to hide her feelings, but also a way to shut herself! She wanted to completely close herself... Not bcoz she dint love Manik...but because thinking about him was too damn painful for her! She could only remember how much he hurt her...and what all she went through all alone! With time she started associating her relationship with MAnik as toxic because she always got the pain... Maybe closing herself from Manik was the only thing she could do to stop the pain she was facing!

But once she faced Manik after 1 week...she could not stop herself...her heart still chased Manik...wanted to know if hes alright...she made sure he doesnt hurt himself more! She always cared for him...even when he was rude to her... But the entry of another woman in Manik's life kind of shook her... She could not understand her own feelings...she kept denying them... she doesnt want to be with MAnik but she also doesnt want him to be with any other gal! Its this jealousy that is making Nandu realize her true feelings for ManikEmbarrassed

Thank you Embarrassed..
 
Nandini is a classic example of heart vs head. She has always been logical, the mathematician, who can easily understand 2+2=4...but love has no logic, and 2+2 can be any number u likeBig smile Like Abhi put it, she is a pure case of logicality LOL
 
On a serious note, she has always seen the happy, peaceful side of love, a witness to the quiet kind of love, sweet and supportive...so her views on love where also the same. Even her chacha and chachi share such a sweet and cute equation. Enters Manik and love has a new definition..love is a devil with two horns and a tail, it has green eyes and is a monster !! He turns her world upside down, all her logical definitions are proven wrong and she is swept off her feet.
 
Then tragedy strikes, and her heart shatters into a zillion pieces, more importantly the fragments of her trust are all over the place. Never having seen such intense pain in her life, she feels totally overwhelmed and inadequate face by such betrayal. For her the word love lost its shine, the word trust lost its meaning...her fire flies lost their power forever.
 
But then, what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger and eventually Nandini  (and Manik too)emerged wiser and better. Today she is on the edge of realization that love is not what she had always thought or conceived of, that certain relationships in life are above break ups and make ups, certain people just cannot be left behind, love defies logic. In a way, this test of time was needed by both of them, as they have learnt to appreciate each other more, they have learnt that they just cannot do without the other...and that is the foundation of a new love story I guess.Wink

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Posted: 31 December 2014 at 3:53pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by rits08

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I feel that the pain she felt after break up was too much for her! She was heartbroken and completely shattered... A naive person like her who has a pure heart, the dejection broke her heart! It took her so much time to get over it... I can understand how she must have felt...each and everyday was so painful for her...the insult, the trust break and the lies all killed her from inside! She did not have anyone to talk to...and she could not run away from situations. 

Even after knowing truth about Dhruv, she could not accept MAnik back...bcoz he broke her trust... she was not sure that if she went back to him, he might again leave her in future! It must have been a painful experience for her to face her love each day and yet hide her feelings! It was not just to hide her feelings, but also a way to shut herself! She wanted to completely close herself... Not bcoz she dint love Manik...but because thinking about him was too damn painful for her! She could only remember how much he hurt her...and what all she went through all alone! With time she started associating her relationship with MAnik as toxic because she always got the pain... Maybe closing herself from Manik was the only thing she could do to stop the pain she was facing!

But once she faced Manik after 1 week...she could not stop herself...her heart still chased Manik...wanted to know if hes alright...she made sure he doesnt hurt himself more! She always cared for him...even when he was rude to her... But the entry of another woman in Manik's life kind of shook her... She could not understand her own feelings...she kept denying them... she doesnt want to be with MAnik but she also doesnt want him to be with any other gal! Its this jealousy that is making Nandu realize her true feelings for ManikEmbarrassed


hmm..good explanation. They needed time to get over their hurt and anger, time for their broken hearts to mend, time to heal. But I hope with this jealousy track they don't end up hurting each other again..Ok..so now we know Nandu is jealous. So how to make Soha back off and curtail her advances towards Manik. How are they gonna do that without affecting their chances of getting the album? any thoughts?


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Posted: 31 December 2014 at 3:57pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by nneeiill

nandini's case is of "once bitten twice shy"...she is too afraid to get hurt again...it was her first love and even before she could revel in it..her heart was bitterly broken...now she has lost confidence to get back to it...like she asks manik, "  what will u do..if tmrw someone else comes...will u leave me again"...? she needs assurance which has never come from his side...she is struggling between her mind and heart...her mind says u should not give into this and go through the pain all over again..whereas heart wants what it wants...so the confusion...so the denial...and so the jealousy...but we know eventually her heart will win...
yes, it takes a lot ...lot of time, lot of patience, lot of destiny and perseverance, to overcome a heart break. And unfortunately both of them could not even taste love, before they were ripped apart by Manik's lies. Or may be it was too early and they were just not ready. I think post break up their love has emerged stronger, their bond is forged bolder. Nandini and Manik needed this. Sometimes you don't appreciate what comes easy, but things you have to actually work hard for, struggle for, always have a sweeter taste. Her denial is understandable but so is her attraction. She will give in and give up to Manik, its just a matter of time. She has the right to denial, she is justified in her rejection but the healing process is already under way, so soon we will witness her acceptance too I guess.

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Posted: 31 December 2014 at 4:14pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by nneeiill

nandini's case is of "once bitten twice shy"...she is too afraid to get hurt again...it was her first love and even before she could revel in it..her heart was bitterly broken...now she has lost confidence to get back to it...like she asks manik, "  what will u do..if tmrw someone else comes...will u leave me again"...? she needs assurance which has never come from his side...she is struggling between her mind and heart...her mind says u should not give into this and go through the pain all over again..whereas heart wants what it wants...so the confusion...so the denial...and so the jealousy...but we know eventually her heart will win...

Yes, that assurance was not given I guess. And he was waiting for Dhruv to say that he has moved on and Cabir had remarked so if Dhruv doesn't say that he will move on, then will you let go of her? But this was Dhruv. He has only one Dhruv in his life and if someelse comes they will not be Dhruv na? But even after that he was unable to stay away from her and they ended up doing jungle me mangal. Who else could come along? Noyonika? She could blackmail him. So what's he gonna do? Or if he has to choose between his chance for an album and Nandu, then he will choose Nandu, right? Coz he chose her over the guitar. 
Dhruv loved Nandu. Manik comes to know. He makes a sacrifice.
Soha says she loves Manik. Nandu comes to know. Will she let go of him? or fight back?


Edited by myvoiz - 31 December 2014 at 4:20pm

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Posted: 31 December 2014 at 8:11pm | IP Logged
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Nandini's innocence drew Manik like a magnet ...her immaturity and unreasonable reaction may just push him away.





Edited by sonia_1 - 31 December 2014 at 8:25pm

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