Joined: 10 January 2006
Ever noticed...People who keep to themselves are most of the times misunderstood....People who are usually reticent are often tagged as "ones with attitude"
Whereas the gregarious ones are always considered "warm"....People who laugh loudly,who are extroverted,who act all goody goody ,who play up to the gallery..These people are in everyone's good books
By introverts,I'm not talking about the khadoos kind,But about people who usually dont overreact ,who keep a low profile,during the crests and the troughs,who dont "express" their happiness or their grief...Are these people misconstured as ones with "a standoffish personality".......Because I've seen it happening,the ones who create drama walk away with most of the attention/sympathy(attention mongers),those who arent "expressive" are misunderstood....
Are nautanki and connivance desiderata in today's world....is it necessary to please everyone by sailing with the tide,or is it allright if people are just themselves(natural)....Are the people who are sincere and call a spade a spade said to have an "attitude problem"....Can one afford to be downright straightforward,or is diplomacy and playing up to the gallery indispensable
Joined: 24 January 2005
wow this is an interesting topic.
I myself am not the quiet type, nor am i overally loud. it depends on the situation and who i am with.
Oftten, when some family friend comes over with their kids, and i dont know them well, i am very shy and quiet- later my mom tells me that im too introverted and not outspoken.
But yes, i understand what you mean by the loud people. Often, these are the people who turn out to be the backbiters and evil, rumor spreading ppl. But one should not be too quiet, and should atleast try to have a conversation, or reply full to their questions- so the ppl dont get the wrong impressions.
Todays world wants to much of ppl. Thin people are in and fat ppl arent. This is just like that. But to over come this is the challenge. You should surrouround urslef with people who you love and who love you, as weel as understand u.
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I sooooooooooooooooo want to respond! Will do on Tuesday!
Its thursday sir
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