Posted: 30 December 2014 at 10:00pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by sunitas123
Originally posted by drishtimaurya Don't worry Raman is going with Shagun and Adi and they will share 20 mins and Ishita will have nothing to do henceforth. Is that what people want?
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2">Glorifying Ishita in bloody every other episode is the most irritating thing on the show right now!!! (Ignoring Mihika and her dumber-than-the-dumbest revenge strategies, ofcourse)<font color="#990000"> And why does she have to spell out everything!!!</font> I think we should this, we need to do that! I agree with you why couldnt have Raman found about Adi's issues, and fine, even if he didnt after listening to everything he should have been the one to say we should take him to a Counselor!! Raman and the others can think on their own na??? Or Ishita now has to voice out everything???</font>
<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="2" color="#000066">And please along with Adi, Raman should send Ishita to a counselor too! She has to get over her Hubris-I know the best, I'm always right attitude!!!</font>
KP was on leave so they had to move fwd with ishita. Also ishita usually picks up Ruhi, so she is bound to know more. The only time Raman went to school he and Mihir had a huge showdown with Suraj.
About the Mani track, Ishita had always asked raman to come and meet mani with her for dinner etc. But he avoided thinking Mani is a dim-wit. he kept his Ravan kumar mode on and kept pulling her leg. Till then he had not really been taking her out for dinner etc. Then he got to know the real Mani and he got worried sick. yes they did show Ishita go over board, but she was not sleeping with Mani. That track was to remove Raman's insecurity about his ability to love and retain the love of his life. So that track was needed for them to trust each other not just love each other! Just like Ishita did not sleep with Mani, Raman wont get fooled by Shagun, no matter what. He knows Ishita is a better wife, mom and he deeply loves her and he trusts her completely.
Sorry, but Raman with his one-liners and tadka for 20 minutes is wayyy more tolerable than Ishita splashed across YHM, in every scene...with her lectures ready...
I get what you're saying but Ishita is supposed to be a dentist...she mentioned that word atleast five times last week "Main Dentist Hun"..ad YET, they dont show her going to the clinic...they only show her in the thick of drama...My only point is - make the leads enact equal roles...or atleast almost, equal roles...if KP was on leave during this period, where was he during the Sanjana track, the MANI track...this reason doesnt suffice...the CVs totally intend to layer the episodes with Ishita's detective skills and her "acchhai"...its becoming a Borderline Achchai Case now!
I admit Raman was at fault to not go along with her, when she invited him to meet MANI...but that doesn't mean she would willingly aid in increasing the doubts in her husband's mind...just SLEEPING with someone other than ur husband doesnt create friction...if your husband has seen and observed your behavioural changes around that person and feels from YOUR behaviour that he'd rather evaporate from your life...then I think ANY man/woman would feel the way Raman did...That track could have been handled in a better way..
Ishita, the keen observer of EVERY human being on this planet, could not latch on to her husband;s anxiety?? How disparaging is that? That means she is fake? It could've been so - ki Ishita Raman se sorry bole..atleast pooche...ki kya hua? Aap itne pareshaan kyun rehte ho??But nahin...it ended with a comical scene post the ABH party night...where both of them were acting as juveniles...healing or ho healing..its always RAMAN who's shown to be more vulnerable, more needy...Ishita has shown to be NEEDY only when Raman was trying to avoid her and was planning to divorce her..even then, the whole family was laughing at Raman for "doubting" his wife and MANI..W*F?? Which spouse would not doubt if their spouse is ALWAYS chanting the bestie's name??
Why cant they show Ishita as a real woman? Busy, indifferent for once, bitchy and angry for once, jealous, insecure, possessive, NEEDY...like sometimes she doesnt know what lies ahead...Its a shame the CVs always try to portray women onscreen as Devis and Daya ki Murtis...what example are they setting? That real women aren't good enough? That we HAVE to emulate screen women, be like them, talk like them, think like them, to be loved and accepted??
Typical hypocrisy, I tell you.