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Posted: 26 February 2015 at 2:51am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Sneha...Love

Originally posted by Tulasi14

Hello good morning my dear friends,
     Why do I feel this way?The silence of this place is bothering me,as they say eyes speak volumes.
Sometimes it's better to keep silent than to tell others what you feel because it will only hurt you when you know they can hear you but they can't understand.
The silence of this place is so real ,
It makes me write this,if you are silent you are hurt,if you speak your mind you are hurt too,
Being silent is good or not good,
Then how will we know the other person is hurt,
If the sky is silent do we see the beauty of serene sky,
If the sky is silent do we see the rain,
If the sky is silent do we see the rainbow,
If the sky is silent do we see the thunder ,

Being silent is good or not good
You are happy only when you tell other person ,
What is bothering you,
Sky should be full of passing clouds,then also you enjoy its beauty,
When it thunders with lighting that is the real beauty,
When it rains you feel revived with the earthy smell  and the serene nature,
It creates on the earth,at the end paints a rainbow In the sky that is so beautiful,
May be the rainbow stays for few minutes but the peace and happiness you get is surreal!
 
Being silent is good or not good,
When you have good heart,
You help too much ,
You trust too much ,
You give too much,
And it always seems you are hurt the most.

This post in general I wrote ,looking at this place being so Silent.
 Have Good evening!  To  all my friends !HeartHug  



Good Evening Tulasi HeartHug
My dear Tulasi, such a beautiful poem about silence. Love it.ClapClapClap
There is a difference between a silence between two people, which sometimes can be an answer too, and between silence that a person practice to still ones mind and connect to ones inner-self...That what I was talking about... There are many reasons to be silent, women usually are silent when they are sad, or someone hurt them...it is always good to practice silence when you are angry, because most of the things you say in anger , you regret later on...so yes, I agree with your questions is silence good or not good...for sure it is not good between two friends...because, whatever reason is, it is always better to talk it through...

Sorry for not being here all day. I was all day in town and come very late home. That time I send you PM I thought I will come here after LU, but as usually in Life, something come up and I could not...It is like this in Life itself...not so much planning is possible.

Thank you for all those beautiful creations you made and Quotes that you posted. I am sure there is no way you could make one day in silence with Krishna around, but sometimes is good to take some time for yourself, sit in a garden, or in a room by a window and enjoy in silence for half an hour or hour or as long as you can. Just be present and aware of the beauty around you. I do that almost every morning, especially when weather is nice, just enjoy in an early morning rays of sunshine, thinking about all the things for which I am grateful, about all people I am grateful to have in my life, Even my dogs respect my silence, they usually lay down by my feet, and even the birds around or the neighbor's cat can not make them move.Smile

But than, I do not have little curious girl running around, who has thousand questions that need to be answered immediately...so enjoy every moment with Krishna. Tell her I say Thanks for that cute Teddy Bear hug...love it. Hug

@Sara, thank you for pictures you are posting here.Smile

@everybody...I will wish you Good Night Star  It was a long day, full of rain, wind and cold. Was thinking to do some collages, but no way, too tired. Will reply to other posts and PMs in the morning...will be here, for sure...So, see you tomorrow.Smile Here are few quotes about Silence.

LISTEN and SILENT are spelled with the same letters... Think about it...This could be important. : )

A good method to remember when you are trying to pray contemplatively. Makes perfect sense.

I do not know if i will ever get the chance to feel this way with a man, but i sure do feel this way with many friends. :)

Tulsi and Seetha's Sneha , beautiful poem , expressions , and quotes . Clap
Here are my feelings regarding silence --- 
There is an old adage which says, "Silence is golden." But is it always so? I recently ran across this statement: "Silence is not always golden --sometimes it is just plain yellow!" That really struck me as worthy of further thought. 

Certainly "silence is golden" at times. There are times when silence GIVE GOOD SOLUTIONS to many  unsolved  problems "Silence is golden" also when one is restrained and careful in her speech. There are times when one can say more by being silent. Too many times we may be guilty of saying too much.

If you were raised in a family where open communication was discouraged or even punished, you learned at an early age to suppress your feelings. This is where the seeds of dysfunctional communication get planted. The problem with stuffing your feelings is that they don't actually go away. They must come out, and they will, but they will be displaced or distorted, making it harder to understand what is really going on. This makes problem solving in relationships complicated and, sometimes, impossible. 

In friendship we have to discuss our opinions  openly , share our own  feelings  with a friend , and encourage them to share yours .But remember , never share negative feelings with your friends , it will create negativity in your relationship . Keep your comfort zone negative free .But always try to share your feelings if you were upset about some thing , esp here , in this rainbow place , because here our Angel friend is here to convince , to give solace ,to soothe  our aching hearts , because she is the guiding force to many of us .If at all there is an argument , be silent , if you want to express your love,  speak out .  Life will be ,lively  lovely and meaningful then .

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The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention... A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.

Perhaps the most important thing we bring to another person is the silence in us, not the sort of silence that is filled with unspoken criticism or hard withdrawal. The sort of silence that is a place of refuge, of rest, of acceptance of someone as they are. We are all hungry for this other silence. It is hard to find. In its presence we can remember something beyond the moment, a strength on which to build a life. Silence is a place of great power and healing.



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Posted: 26 February 2015 at 3:49am | IP Logged
Originally posted by riya_ss9

The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention... A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intended words.

Perhaps the most important thing we bring to another person is the silence in us, not the sort of silence that is filled with unspoken criticism or hard withdrawal. The sort of silence that is a place of refuge, of rest, of acceptance of someone as they are. We are all hungry for this other silence. It is hard to find. In its presence we can remember something beyond the moment, a strength on which to build a life. Silence is a place of great power and healing.



Meaningful  thoughts  expressed in a beautiful way   Riya . Excellent ClapThe most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said .Hug

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Posted: 26 February 2015 at 4:39am | IP Logged
Hello friends , good evening ! Everybody is highly expressive and a very good discussion is going  on Silence !
For me, to seek solace , silence and solitude are the best solutions  !

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Posted: 26 February 2015 at 6:02am | IP Logged
Good Evening Friends! Heart Hug

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Very delicate and beautiful siggies, TulasiThumbs Up

While on talking and listening, I remember a beautiful quote, " Half of what I say is meaningless but I say it so that the other half reaches you!'

Have a good day friendsHug

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Posted: 27 February 2015 at 2:16am | IP Logged
Hello , good afternoon friends . Have a nice time . 

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