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Why would Dadi want someone like Souyma? (Page 2)

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Posted: 27 December 2014 at 4:36pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by shanakyasharan

Lol the replies r so good...I guess she wants soumya for yuvi seeing her fake beauty n d fact that yuvi loved such a good looking gal

Had yuvi loved suhani b4 ahaadi...buddhi would never get him married to her even knowing he loves d girl so much


@ bold:  Very true.   She would have fought tooth and nail for that never to happen.

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Posted: 27 December 2014 at 9:38pm | IP Logged
It is so hard to understand dadi. Her character is weird. She once said that she likes Soumya because she listens to her and follows her. Whereas Suhani doesn't. More than fair and beauty, I think dadi likes that she can control Soumya's thought process.

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Posted: 27 December 2014 at 10:10pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Aarti_16

It is so hard to understand dadi. Her character is weird. She once said that she likes Soumya because she listens to her and follows her. Whereas Suhani doesn't. More than fair and beauty, I think dadi likes that she can control Soumya's thought process.


Very true.   But that's after she already wanted her for Yuvraj because of looks.   If you recall in the beginning of the show, Dadi tried to change Suhani to "look" better as per her and had Suhani done that perhaps Dadi would have accepted her to some extent and not bothered with Souyma.   So because Suhani did what she wanted and not what Dadi wanted that got her in Dadi's bad books.   Plus it looks like everyone in that house jumps when Dadi says jump and since Somu falls in that category it's better for her to be approved by Dadi ontop of being "fair skinned".

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Posted: 28 December 2014 at 12:17am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Parm.

Originally posted by Aarti_16

It is so hard to understand dadi. Her character is weird. She once said that she likes Soumya because she listens to her and follows her. Whereas Suhani doesn't. More than fair and beauty, I think dadi likes that she can control Soumya's thought process.


Very true.   But that's after she already wanted her for Yuvraj because of looks.   If you recall in the beginning of the show, Dadi tried to change Suhani to "look" better as per her and had Suhani done that perhaps Dadi would have accepted her to some extent and not bothered with Souyma.   So because Suhani did what she wanted and not what Dadi wanted that got her in Dadi's bad books.   Plus it looks like everyone in that house jumps when Dadi says jump and since Somu falls in that category it's better for her to be approved by Dadi ontop of being "fair skinned".

Dadi loves fair skin, beauty, money and control over others. Suhani has none of these, so she never stood a chance in dadi's good books. Even Pratima is not liked by dadi despite being beautiful and fair. Suhani apart from her looks has an independent mind and does/will do what she wants to. Which is a threat to dadi's power in Birla House because no one does anything against her wishes.

Soumya fits in everything dadi wants in a bahu, like beauty, color and following all her directions. I don't think she even cares to find out what Yuvraj wants now.

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Posted: 28 December 2014 at 12:22am | IP Logged
Look, the sad truth is that Dadi doesn't give two hoots about a person's character/personality. All Dadi cares about is beauty and status.

For her, only superficial qualities like fair skin, beauty, riches matter. She doesn't care much about relationship dynamics, people's happiness, their virtues etc.

What is Dadi's sole reason for thinking that Soumya is right for Yuvraj? Just that she is beautiful, therefore Yuvraj and her will make a "good" match. For her, "good" means they will be a couple that will be socially appreciated and feted. Anything that Dadi likes is usually a pawn in the game of raising the status of the Birlas. She feels a beautiful DIL like Soumya will raise their status in society. That is her only concern.

Otherwise, she wouldn't be so fond of RagMen, despite knowing the rotten personalities they have. Dadi is a status-obsessed crone who can't see Suhani's goodness, because she doesn't value that in the least, since it doesn't add to the Birlas' status.


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Posted: 28 December 2014 at 12:28am | IP Logged
Originally posted by Aarti_16

Originally posted by Parm.

Originally posted by Aarti_16

It is so hard to understand dadi. Her character is weird. She once said that she likes Soumya because she listens to her and follows her. Whereas Suhani doesn't. More than fair and beauty, I think dadi likes that she can control Soumya's thought process.


Very true.   But that's after she already wanted her for Yuvraj because of looks.   If you recall in the beginning of the show, Dadi tried to change Suhani to "look" better as per her and had Suhani done that perhaps Dadi would have accepted her to some extent and not bothered with Souyma.   So because Suhani did what she wanted and not what Dadi wanted that got her in Dadi's bad books.   Plus it looks like everyone in that house jumps when Dadi says jump and since Somu falls in that category it's better for her to be approved by Dadi ontop of being "fair skinned".

Dadi loves fair skin, beauty, money and control over others. Suhani has none of these, so she never stood a chance in dadi's good books. Even Pratima is not liked by dadi despite being beautiful and fair. Suhani apart from her looks has an independent mind and does/will do what she wants to. Which is a threat to dadi's power in Birla House because no one does anything against her wishes.

Soumya fits in everything dadi wants in a bahu, like beauty, color and following all her directions. I don't think she even cares to find out what Yuvraj wants now.


@Bold- Yes, if Soumya were a rebellious girl with a mind of her own, Dadi would absolutely hate her. You hit the nail right on the head with this point. If Suhani were willing to get a makeover and become the fair bahu that Dadi wants, she would accept her wholeheartedly.

Dadi is a control freak who wants to have an infallible grip over the lives of every member of the Birla household. Look at the way she humiliates Pratima in front of her kids- that is a way for her to exert her power as the Birla matriarch.

She is a narcissist who is satisfied with total and utter control over others.

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Posted: 28 December 2014 at 6:01am | IP Logged
I agree with Mahabhootni that souyma is just a means to an end for dadi and that is that she just wants suhani gone. Bt also I dnt know she seems to geniunely like souyma if u think ab it she shows a certain tenderness to her that she doesn't show to Rag-Men quite frankly if she could get those 2 woman out I think she would joyfully do it. She wants partners for her grandsons who are obedient and who her boys can dominate. Maybe she thinks coz she is influencing somu that she is unlike the other 2. Plus she knows that the other 2 even though they want to be her fav know hw she really is souyma is abit like yuvraj thinking her shit doesn't smell lol. Bt she seems to be very taken in by souyma's nature aka her knowing ab health and beauty. Bt rags is no less than souyma she is in fact 10 times more beautiful than MRs Fungliness there and knows all the things she knows so I dnt get why this 1 is her fav maybe coz of Yuvraj.

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Posted: 28 December 2014 at 6:16am | IP Logged
I just saw this page of the comments and loved it. I think the old hag needs to have her ego stroked I think that in the beginning that if RagMen hadn't interfered and allowed dadi to see suhani's goodness that she might have ended up liking her coz in the initially episodes she was starting to like her and than those 2 interfered. As every1 said suhani thinks for herself and not only that she expresses herself in a way that does convince ppl. If dadi is ever gona change its gona be a joint effort btw yuvani. Only they together can deal with her. Bt 1st yuvraj needs to stop having his mother doormat ways. Bt the biggest problem for suhani came when she saw souyma in person and became to compare these 2 coz somu is her dream everything she wanted in a bahu for her prince so obviously every1 else pales in comparison especially when she realised that yuvraj did love souyma. If anything in her mind coz of what suhani's dad did she thinks what she is doing is right and I can understand that. Bt what I dnt understand is her cheating and scheming so unbecoming of the old hag I would have expected her to confront suhani ab it coz I think deep down she does understand her and knows she had no part in deceiving yuvraj.

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