Posted: 27 December 2014 at 7:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Nisha0604
Originally posted by mayu1982Nisha
Like to share one real story-
One aussie kid who must be 18-19 year old now. He is staying with his guardian. His guardian was ex-bf of his mom. They meet when his mom was dating this guardian figure. His mom was divorcee and due to some social contact they meet. So called during affair, his mom introduced this guardian to his son. Slowly both of them becomes friendly, spending time with each other. That time kid was 6 year old. After 6-9 months mom was not interested in this guardian so time for break up declaration. During that declaration, kid was shocked and shattered , he demanded to stay with this guy instead of his mom or his dad. And goes after him , Now he is with him only. He is very happy with his decision. So even in real life- kids are attracted towards love rather than biological factor. So why can't fictional character can be shown as this?
Adi mein accha kya hai? Ye nahi jaanti hoon but even he deserves another chance. Even he deserves to get good parents.
Ps. respect your views dear. No hard feelings. May be some other day we will agree on some other issue..
NOT AT ALL I am not offended at all, I am a mother of two kids... I understand how kids receive nurture and love and protection, especially kids that dont get that from their immediate family... I know of kids in foster care, where both parents are in prison or dead... kids that have moved 5 or 7 times until they turned 18...
I want Adi to be forgiven, reformed and given a chance... but in his current state there is very little likeable about him, in my defense I will say its 50-50 partly because of the ROLE he plays partly because of HOW he plays it... he does not evoke ANY sympathy or compassion in me
LOVE will make everything better... ALL HE NEEDS IS LOVE mein main bilkul vishwas nahi karti thats too Hindi phillumi... "Pyaar sab kuch theek kar dega, Ishita ke pyaar ki zaroorat hai usko"
The whole family loves him, his MOM does too... he was not ABUSED mentally or physically, emotionally yes he WITNESSED HIS MOM'S characterless ways but thats about it
The kid BY NATURE seems to be more easily influenced by crime and felony... SOME KIDS ARE that way... "Main pyaar se usko samjhaaongi, roz pancake khilaoongi" is not going to cut it
Being sugary sweet with him and being blindly ready to forgive him is NOT going to reform him
Hes a tough kid, hes made of steel... pyar se pighal jaayega is bull crap
He needs DISCIPLINE AND understanding... not just sugary love
Ishita should have said "Please dont talk to an adult like that"
Ishita should have reported it to Raman, instead she mocked him for being fat and asked him to play Santa "Sirf Adi ke liye"
@ Bold: Yes agree with you. But you forgetting that fictional character need only love. hhehee and changes with only love. Whether you like it or not. This is most likely they are going to show. What I was saying so far if you observe all track after amma accident :
1)"Raman leaving presidentship post for IShu- good concept and theek thaak execution.
2)Jealousy needed to bring raman's feeling for Ishu- again nothing wrong in concept- Horrible execution . The entire Mani track is worst atleast for me.
3)Mihika showed shagun true face of ashok- hhee just read the sentence you will not see anything bad in that BUT BUT - no words for the entire track and mihika's dumbness. Still no sympathy . 4)Time for almost confession -no problem in this as well. But the way entire raman's guilty tour ends and specially airport scene - is beyond anything. Even my brain refused to produce any word for that.
5) Ishita to become mother of adi , its the time for adi to come back to raman.
No problem -am ok with this part. Now execution- the way they are dealing with shagun, ishita interference in every matter, Ishita daily lectures for sirf adi ke liye, no real realistic things was shown so far in this track. SO far cv has failed miserably in showing adi's problems and his insecurities. That is reason ppl are struggling to connect with this character. That is reason for so much hatred for this character.
So far this CV is not showing any realistic things. In real life if any kid is adi , then chances of reformation is nearly 10% provided that too with help of child counsellor. 12 year still alright age that one kids can reform or can changes his way. So fictional character above all kid has all right to change and become good. End of the day it is fictional story so showing practical things specially by Ek is nearly impossible. Thanks to you again Nisha for clearing this picture in my mind.