Originally posted by: deepthiya
<font size="3" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">I beg to differ with that statement. Next chapter I am going to suggest everyone to watch something. 4 miscarriages of Khushi of a <font color="#ff0000">story</font> is going to be nothing compared to what you are going to see in the video of a real women. And also education has nothing to do with innocence, well educated women with great intelligence falter in life when it comes to love and family. Most importantly We are forgetting the main factor that Khushi was barely 19 when she got married.</font><font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">So in my opinion, I dont think she is a fool.</font>
Originally posted by: jeetega
There are worse situations than what Khusi has undergone. If you have seen the first season of Satyameva Jayate hosted by Amir Khan, there was this episode about female foeticide in India. Many show situation worse than this. And also educated women being forced to choose between family and daughter.
And coming to Khushi, she is not a fool, but a naive woman who thinks of the best in a person with a charming and optimistic nature. From the age of nineteen when one starts to see the world for what it is, she was being molded and shown what her husband and family wanted her to see and Karan made sure he psychologically feeded her bull shit. Even otherwise we see in many real examples, that education , experience or maturity level all don't determine how you recognize mental abuse. Its worse than physical abuse as the latter may leave a visible mark, but the other leave a mark on your heart which you can't prove to anyone or even to yourself. And when it happens over years, you either rebel or be submissive without sometimes not realizing completely. This is what happened to Khushi. Karan has fed her that all his bouts of anger was because he loved her to the extent of being so possessive. She being naive have believed it after being fed that over the years.
Originally posted by: canapoemDeepthi, Happy New year to you and your family too!!! Have a great and wonderful 2015!!!
Coming to the story, whatever is happening to Khushi is indeed sad but more than that her own husband getting their babies aborted because they are girls is completely criminal.We humans always try to find bad in every good thing that happens. Here the advancement of technology to come up with ultrasound of the foetes, was done with the idea of finding anomalies in the foetes and whether there were extreme health issues either for the baby or to the mother. That was probably the intention of the scientists discovering this technology. But man started making use of this in the wrong way. Trying to find the sex of the baby and then aborting it if it was a girl, this became the practice and then government stepped in and passed a law saying sex determination is illegal. But ofcourse he found loopholes in this too, bribing the doctors and persons who run such facilities, he still gets his work done.Classic example of such a man is Karan here. He probably knew that his wife would never agree for a abortion, so taking the help of an equally criminal doctor, he has been aborting the babies and making his wife believe that they were miscarriages.I am more eager to know how is he doing all of this. Yesterday when Khushi fainted in the hospital and today since she is back to the hospital with cramps and spotting, did the doctor insert something in her vagina which would dilate the uterus and cause an abortion looking like a miscarriage?Loved the way Arnav could not resist looking at Khushi again and again and losing himself in her aura. They say hearts and souls seek out their partner hearts and souls easily, and its only our mortal human body and mind which takes hell lot of a time to understand that. I guess somewhere deep down, Arnav's heart did recognise the deep connection it shares with the other heart that in inside Khushi, and so made his mind and body restless in her presence. (Deepthi, I feel like I am becoming a card reader who predicts the future by picking cards. π)Very well put Kavitha. BTW any doubt that Arnav didnt recognise the deep connection his heart shares with hersπ..ROFL card reader..yes that title suits you bestπLoved the way Arnav handled Karan. Well looks like a lot of heated arguments are in store for us in the future between Khushi's ex and her future. π But once I really want Arnav to smack him right on his face. Wicked me. πMe too wants Arnav to forget his morals and smack the ass. πWhen will you give the next update? I know its soon to ask, but just want to know a tentative date.3/4th of the next chapter is complete. So Next update will be sooner than you think. I should let you all know soon.
In China, in the early, 1980s there were 108 male births to every 100 female, only slightly above the natural rate; by 2000 that had soared to 120 males, and in some provinces, such as Anhui, Jiangxi and Shaanxi, to more than 130. The result is that more than 35 million women are "missing". Though China is not the only country affected - India's situation is similar - it has by far the widest gap; its one-child policy has exacerbated the problem.
The effects of the discrepancy are only now emerging in full. The country has tens of millions of men who are destined to die single. Some fear that the excess will lead to increased sexual violence, general crime and social instability.
Originally posted by: canapoemI was reading some articles now and this problem is not only in India, it is prominent in China, Pakistan, Bangladesh and many other Asian countries.
I would like to quote what I found in the article below:In China, in the early, 1980s there were 108 male births to every 100 female, only slightly above the natural rate; by 2000 that had soared to 120 males, and in some provinces, such as Anhui, Jiangxi and Shaanxi, to more than 130. The result is that more than 35 million women are "missing". Though China is not the only country affected - India's situation is similar - it has by far the widest gap; its one-child policy has exacerbated the problem.
The effects of the discrepancy are only now emerging in full. The country has tens of millions of men who are destined to die single. Some fear that the excess will lead to increased sexual violence, general crime and social instability.
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