The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is notdeath, it's indifference.
Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes youso vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up.