Posted: 27 December 2014 at 2:09am | IP Logged
Originally posted by SurrealFantasyKiaraaa *bear hug*
I completely agree with EVERYTHING you said. For me, YHM has been about Ishita and Raman and yes, right now, it is more of a story of Shagun and Raman with Ishita acting as the third wheel.
From being a story about infertility and infidelity of Ishita and Shagun respectively, it has turned into the forgiveness of said infidelity and the taboo of infertility. Ishita is apparently "Ruhi's mother" but the way the family treats the "heir" and the second class treatment to Ruhi in itself is degrading her of that position.
Adi is a spoiled brat with serious psychotic issues - he doesn't regret almost killing someone and has no guilt or remorse about sending his father and then his step mother to prison - he is the "bechaara" heir?
I ask, "Kaahan ka bechara?" I cannot believe that Shagun and Ashok were shy about their physical relationship and did not flaunt it in front of him - if his father shares a room with his wife, it is suddenly "uncomfortable?"
Let's not get into the big hearted Ishita and weak-willed Raman that the story is portraying as of now. 'Nough has been said about that.
I may be bashed a lot for saying this, but for me, as of right now, the only reason Raman even loves Ishita is because, irrespective of everything - all the taunts and disrespect his family and his so called son has thrown her way - she continues to live happily with it. In fact, she goes a step ahead and brings the witch and her psychotic kid home. She isn't normal. He isn't normal. Sach mein, "jodi achi rahegi." *Slaps forehead*
Shagun was right - Ishita is and will always be a glorified nanny of a kid who doesn't hold a candle in front of the Bhalla's "ghar ka chiraag." Ruhi may or may not identify with Ishita as her mother, but the kid herself doesn't hold an important place in her family's life. Her father needed a third person to come into their life and remind him of her importance...what sort of fatherhood is that? Raman may be Ruhi's favorite person, but Adi certainly is Raman's.
The story IS going towards the fact that Ishita is someone who can be easily replaced in the Bhalla's life - and unless Raman steps up (the chances of which with his constipated son's charade going on are nil), it IS going to happen.
Will it be right? No.
Do I want it? Probably not.
Will it happen? Probably yes.
In the mean time, I shall watch old IshRa scenes, when the show did not reek of mediocre Sautan drama and hypo critic and regressive Bhallas and write stuff I wanna see.
And read stuff you write. *Winks in a not very subtle manner.*
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A mother has a huge influence in a child's life and their thought process. the reason why adi was comfortable with ashok and shagun was because shagun made him look the good guy. Shagun always portrayed raman as the bad guy and ashok, the knight that rescued them both. it is all shagun's doing. if she told adi what a wonderful person ishita was then do you think he would hate her so much? if she did not poison him against his own father then adi would be a lot for comfortable with the ishita. Adi always saw his parents arguing but he saw that ashok made her happy and that is why he was comfortable with them. Also, don't forget that adi was sent to boarding school very soon after shagun and raman's seperation, so he was not around ashok and his mother that much.
other than that, this track is a disappointment, CV's are ruining the original essence of this show for the sake of drama and ratings.
The current wife bringing husband's ex-wife into her home is unnatural and now that ishita's infertility is being brought up again, it is indirectly being shown that she is less important because she did not give birth to this family's first waaris and that she cannot ever give the bhalla family another grandchild. it makes so sad but I can't say much because ishita herself is responsible for it. I am angry that she does not understand that women like shagun are only bring destruction, I mean, why is so sweet to a women who is not only immoral but also brought so much misery? CV's are pushing this
Edited by pomegranate - 27 December 2014 at 2:26am