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Pam !......? .....

pyaaribehna Goldie

Joined: 26 February 2014
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Posted: 25 December 2014 at 11:59pm | IP Logged
Pam is the vamp. For sure. And she misses no opportunity to insult Ragini. 
Because she is the sis-in-law.  ex actually. 

She has lived in US for fifteen years. 

She is totally  hm... westernized. 

She is possessive over the kids her brother's kids. Hates his wife who gave birth to them

Is not married. is sticking on to bro's family. 

Loud mouthed  screams all the time. 

All that is fine. expected. really. 

But she actually asks Neil how his night was with Nivedita? 

Just because Ragini was there? 

Chee chee. !  That too they are not even in their own house. they are staying with Karan and Dimpy.  in their house. as guests. 

Nivedita is after Neil.true. 

Even if Pam has really lived in America all these years does she really think she can ask her brother how his "night" was with Nivedita when Neil , his sons and herself the sister were staying as guests in a common friend's house? 

Agreed they are so "modern" then they have to spend the evening out elsewhere out of decency. 

Even if you live abroad you don't do this kind of thing in a friend's house. 

How much in bad taste is this? No wonder Neil pulled up Pam for "ruining" his "image" in front of Ragini. 

The whole thing was cheap.Pam talks about "class". Does she know what class is?  She is downright bitchy . and loud  . 

Pam does she know that class is not wearing designer clothes and living luxuriously. Class comes from within.  And trying to put up a show does not make one classy. Original colors show eventually. 

I wonder what kind of a mother she was to the kids. 

Edited by pyaaribehna - 26 December 2014 at 12:05am

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poetic IF-Stunnerz

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Posted: 26 December 2014 at 12:28am | IP Logged
the sad kind of professed Mother?
columbia IF-Dazzler

Joined: 05 July 2011
Posts: 2738

Posted: 26 December 2014 at 12:53am | IP Logged

SO this is what bothers me about the whole show and the way it has been written

Pam with all her negativity and utter disgusting ways - the kids under her seem to have turned out loving and positive

Ragini with all her maternal strength, self respect - the kids under her have become selfish immature brats


This premise itself tells me that the writer of this show does not have positive intentions with the show. Deep characetrisation has not happend!!!! Just terrible writing through and through!!

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Mages IF-Addictz

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Posted: 26 December 2014 at 1:58am | IP Logged
pam is characterless...she wants to be classy...but cheap behaviour is just making it worst...
seriously we want to see some serious bonding b/w NR and their 4 kids...suhani needs land to India...siblings bonding...suhani-ragini bonding...and above all NR bonding...i am not interested to watch pam-nivedita yaarana and neil-nivedita nonsense...the current aman-ragini track is getting annoying...

NR met for nishi wedding...instead of bonding together...they are bonding with others...
angelpureness IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 26 December 2014 at 3:28am | IP Logged
What does not get me is Neil and Ragini.
Both never expected to meet the kids they were separated from and yet there is no emotional connect or yearning.  Other than a tiny scene. If anything they get angry that the kids want to meet. There was nothing with the grandmaa too. They are placing their hatred for each other over the love for their children. 

Life has given them a small window of opportunity. Instead we have them focusing on Dr Aman and NIvedita. Like seriously.

both Neil and Ragini are failing as parents for they are not taking into account the emotions and desires of the children. It is all about what they want. I just dislike the dialogues where they tell the kids to stay away from the other.

Sorry for the rant.

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_innocent_ IF-Addictz

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Posted: 26 December 2014 at 10:23am | IP Logged
Her weird obsession with her brother freaks me out. She never like Ragini, she felt Ragini had trapped Neil, am sure she was conspiring back then too. But am sure it was not her who led to their separation as Ragini seems to understand Pam's motives. I would hope for the makers to pen it out this way, as it will be highly stupid to make Pam the real cause of separation.

Pam baffles me. In her FB scene with Ragini, its clear she was disgusted with the mere thought of the separation of the kids, and yet now she refuses to acknowledge her brother's own blood. Say what one wants, but at the end, they are still Neil's children. That truth can never be changed. 

Pam has no class. No one dishes their personal laundry in public and make the man of their house look like mice. Anyone with class will speak in an elegant manner. Pam needs to learn the definition of CLASS! Quite evidently.

Each characters have their flaws. No parents can ever truly separate themselves from their children, especially not a mother. To have carried them for 9 months, to then turn around and say, dont want them now, you keep them- yucks!Na! And then to refuse to acknowledge their worth because you do not want to show emotions in front of your ex husband or wife? Oh please. The kids should be hating their parents for this alone. They do not require anyone filling their ears for this. And high time the parents in NEIL and RAGINI wake up, before PAM destroys everything.

Edited by _innocent_ - 26 December 2014 at 11:03am

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Jaymaa IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 26 December 2014 at 10:53am | IP Logged
50cents size bindi ..realy irreteting 
kalyan1 Newbie

Joined: 12 December 2007
Posts: 20

Posted: 26 December 2014 at 12:41pm | IP Logged
absolutely right.
Pam is such a horrible terrible actress.
Why is has to be so dramatic and loud always?
how come this stupid Dr.Neil tolerates this kind of  behavior.?
Pam is the show ruiner...

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