Originally posted by gravity23
A Merry Christmas to everybody!! Before we start out on today's excruciatingly ILLOGICAL episode...
Toshi ji was right about ONE thing - "Tu kiss mitti ki bani hai Ishita?"
Yes...VERY pertinent question, that one is, but not quite asked in the right sense...
Ishita is not a NORMAL woman, in ANY sense. She is Mother India, Devi Maiyya, Daya ki Murti, EVERYTHING rolled into one. She does not feel any jealousy, any possessiveness, ANY insecurity coz her husband's EX is to stay at Bhalla House, for an inordinate amount of time.
"Shagun ek divorcee hai, Raman ki EX hai, uske liye bhi toh uncomfortable hoga naa yahan rehna, par woh aisi halat mein kahan jayegi" she's trying to make Santoshi understand. That IS the point, Mrs. Ishita Bhalla, Woh RAMAN ki EX hai, toh RAMAN bhi uska EX hua hai. WHY and how did she decide for the entire Bhalla family, that Shagun should stay back at Bhalla House?
I refuse to believe there aren't any other arrangements that can be made for the mother-son pair. Shagun is ALSO Ishita's Sauten, and so this madwoman Iyer should've given it some thought before asking her to camp out at Bhalla house...it should've made HER uncomfortable as well..it should've made her feel nauseous, insecure, anxious, uncertain, ANYTHING...
But No...Mrs. Bhalla gave ANOTHER 5 min lecture on "ghar ka baccha" "ADI pareshan hai" "Shagun ko kacchre mein kaise chhod deti" "humanity ki taur se main itna bhi nai karti"
Madhvi Iyer - stupendous acting! She stood up for her daughter and categorically told Shagun she CANNOT stay there. I loved the fact that she even stood up to Santoshi, and told her categorically that "this woman" was not to stay in Bhalla House, coz "Yeh Ishita ka ghar hai" . Then WHY on earth did Ishita behave like she was the Head of the house and tell her parents not to interfere in their 'family matters" and stay out of it?? Why that utter condescending, adamant, off-handed tone for her parents and their genuine LOGICAL concerns??
"Yeh ghar RAMAN ka hai, aur ADI Raman ka beta hai...aur uss naate se ADI mera bhi beta hua...Aur Shagun ADI ki maa hai...toh woh yahin rahega" HIT-MY-HEAD-AGAINST-THE-WALL
I hate the fact that this woman keeps taking liberty of being the Laadli Bahu of the Bhalla Parivaar...it gets on my nerves that she decides EVERYTHING for everybody...
Toshi ji 's chest swelled up like she had just won the marathon, as Ishita emphasized that Shagun was to stay in their house...Where have her senses left for?Where are the days where she warned Ishita day in and day out that "Shagun was NOT to be trusted" ...so now, since its ADI ke liye, everything's fine??? Now she can do away with her bahu's happiness as long as her grandson gets to live the fine life he always managed to live??
I HATE THIS.
W.T.F is WRONG with this Ishita Iyer?
"Raman mujhse bahut pyaar karte hain...aur Shagun ne unhe itna pareshan kiya hai ki woh uski har chaal se waakif hai' - To tu bhi toh uski har chaal ki waakif hai, so why entertain that vamp in your house???
Really?? Does she know Raman's obsession with his son? Has she forgotten the malicious ways of her step-son and how, DESPITE all that, Raman would stand like a rock beside his moronic son??
Once Shagun starts playing the "Main uski maa hun RAMAN, ADI mere bina nahin reh sakta...ADI tumse bhi judne laga hai, aakhir..tum uske Papa ho...I really feel ADI ko ek family environment ki zaroorat hai" Ishita will be kicked out of Bhalla house like a speck of dust. In ASHOK's words, "like kacchra" and that, would be all of her own making!
That would be a fitting response to ALL such know-it-all people out there who take their spouses for granted...
As if ADI ke liye ranting was not enough, running parallel is "MIHIKA ke liye"
And so since, according to Ishita Bhalla, since Mihika needs to be "protected", the Iyers should go attend stupid functions at ASHOK's house, so that the "kameeneys dont take advantage of Mihika". WOW!! I dont care about two hoots about whether Mihika gets molested or tortured by those creeps, coz its of her OWN making and she has no right to make her parents suffer for it.She can be a trophy wife and hang at ASHOK's arm for all I care, WHY the F is Ishita making her life complicated because of this shit?? For a stupid bimbo who doesnt know what she's doing??
Poor Iyers...they should just give up on both their daughter and their niece...its pathetic how women like Ishita and Mihika take matters into their hands and do as they please? Where does this even happen in normal families?
ADI proved once again that he is indeed Shagun's criminal-minded son. The MORON cant figure out what he wants to address ASHOK as, keeps flitting between "Uncle" and "Papa"...
just like his mother...selfish and manipulative...grabbing any piece of mercy coming his way, thinking its going to transform his life or something...
Shagun wants to make sure she pour venom inside ADI's senses, to keep him on tenterhooks for as lng as she can...so that gets to stay at Bhalla House and get back the EX she dumped so unceremoniously...PREDICTABLE
Atleast, its been decided that she'd be putting up in Simmi's room..
Since now Ishita Maiyya has decided they should "protect" Mihika, who the hell cares about Mihir?? That woman is bloody partial...insensitive...
And WHY the constant fussing over ADI?? Its annoying and a big tearjerker...I haven't seen ANYBODY go gaga over RUHI as much...Poor RUHI went about ignored for DAYs during the IshMANI track, and Mrs. Bhalla didnt shed as many tears for her, as she's now doing for ADI...SICK...
Raman will make sure "ADI ke saare sapne poore ho, koi kami na rahe..." "Tum jo maangoge, tumhen wahi milega"
Yes Raman, that day isnt very far away when he's going to ask you to dump your new found love and go back to his bitchy mom...pathetic P.S. Ishita's choice of sarees as against Shagun's sartorial choices are horrendous...And to think that Shagun is the one who's homeless and hasn't a penny on her...Wow...what an irony
P.S.** If Toshi ji is also wondering what Shagun's doing with the fat paycheck she gets from Raman, then why is she STILL entertaining that woman in the house? All for "Adi ke liye"??
PRECAP - Since ADI is going thru "trauma" and is "confused" and "disoriented" and feeling awkward around Ishita, Toshi ji suggests to her BAHU that she should STAY AWAY from her grandson for a few days..."STAY AWAY"..."Door rehna"...what does that even MEAN?? Ishita's to go on vacation till the idiot gets back his brains?? Becomes "NORMAL"?? By asking his Step-Mom never to return??
I HATE Toshi ji for this...Why and how could she even MAKE such a morbid suggestion??? What about those dreadful prophecies about not letting the "saut stay in the house"?? WHY would you ask your legally-wedded bahu to go away from the house, coz you want to warm up your grandson's and your ex-bahu's asses and make them "feel comfortable" WHY??
So there it is...Ishita out, Shagun in...
That's ALL we needed, I guess. To bear with RAMAN's much-hated EX-wife till he starts fawning over her ONCE AGAIN, till it leads to "Ghar ka baccha" No 3 YHM has become SOOO damn illogical.
you are absolutely right and one more point mihir her own brother ,her own mother she could have gone there why raman's house plus raman can arrange temporary accommodation and file again custody case indicating shagun is not able to take care of this child and she is not putting good morals and misguiding son and making him criminal minded so either his son should stay away from manipulating woman and keep him with caretaker or to raman who had proved by taking good care of ruhi so he is liable to get addi's custody and that is very logical solution but ekta 's serials are never logical just to give twist and turns to boost trp she can go any length to kill real story ,second mihika case such an educated girl knowing ashok very well how come she take such drastic step without informing their parents or mhir ,all are so goody goody to shagun as if shagun is maharani and all of them are their servant,mihika took such big step before also to show reality shagun which women will destroy her own life for person like shagun?and what this 2 sisters are thinking of themselves?maharani jhansi ki rani?is raman and mihir has wore bengals or not man?they don't have any imp in their life that these girls are taking all the matter in their hand without informing their respective partner and family?
these serial become bore to me and i am going to stop watching this and will try my hand on some other nice serial.