Originally posted by drishtimaurya
Originally posted by krikumar.91
Raman biwi se pyaar karega toh character assassination nahi karega toh akdoo...
I don't mean to say that Raman must blindly follow her advice but its not bad to listen to her suggestions. Raman is not going to let Ishita give her place to Shagun. Its not a drama where saas and bahu will play their games. Raman will also raise... Ashok will make him do that. Mihir is becoming like him... He won't let that happen. RKB is one of the brilliantly sketched characters... He's still there and he'll also be there...
Regarding forcing himself on Ishita, Raman was afraid of losing his love. Last time, he pleaded before Shagun. This time, its the opposite. Ishra are one such couple who don't need words to redeem their mistakes. That bracelet played a nice role in mending his mistakes. cv's answered it there...
Running away from problems is not a good sign... Raman needed that awakening from Ishita. It was filmy but they had to prepare us for this drama... Can't blame cv's...
Regarding today's scene, Raman definitely loves Adi but he loves Ishita too. At the end of the day, before being a father, he's also a man. He faltered... not because he was composed after that embarrassing encounter but because the timing for that justification that he gave was not right. But, Adi needs to realise and that's the truth. cv's showed it because there is one weak link that needs to be strengthened in this track and they have started working on it.
He's not JM's bakt... He'll put a break when it is needed. As of now, let Ishita commit some mistakes. She'll learn from them...like RKB.
I'm sorry if you found my reply offending...
Ofcourse not...u have an opinion like me and others.
Raman has romanced Ishita before and we all have loved it-like that Kya...?? scene, that Karvachauth scene..., but in every line glorifying Ishita and saying oh u're the best, I am so lucky etc etc is getting irritating! Its like now he doesnt consider himself anything!
The style of romance that Raman had was unique and that is missing. I for one never called Raman akdoo! Neither considered him a non-romantic.
Finally, he's pampering his wife but this will not go on forever. Ishita had a terrible day... Of all persons, her sister committed a grave. Now, he can't go back to his normal mode and taunt her. Apart from the past two-three episodes, i didn't see such dialogues coming out of his mouth. Also, he's the same man who climbed on a tree for Shagun. He's madly in love with Ishita. Ek din pyaar se baat karna guna nahi hai. They'll go back to their normal mode. That carefree attitude when he noticed Adi...that was typical RKB style. Until there's a Ashok Khanna, there'll be a RKB too... Because he made RKB and not Ishita.
That forcing thing wasnt required at all. I cud understand where he was coming from (when I tried really hard) but that scene was later made absolutely pointless. And one 2 minute bracelet scene cannot rectify a month of mistakes and tortures.
That goof up in editing in the next episode was unforgivable which messed up things big time but according to me, Raman's reaction after that award function was normal. He didn't want to let history repeat itself. He committed a mistake but he's a human. Our favourite hero who commits mistake to rectify them later.
The thing that irked me and many others in that Airport confession fiasco was that nobody gave a thought as to why he was feeling so down! On top of that they mocked him and his feelings! Raman needed to know he was important to Ishita and she had to know where she and others were lacking, how they made him feel that!
Some unsaid words express everything... No one thought about that because it was completely baseless. If Raman leaves Ishita, things will become worse but not better... She'll lay defenseless. No one touched that point in that family because everyone understood Raman's problem... Since its not worth a group discussion, they left Ishita to deal with the same. Though that airport scene was filmy, Ishita's dulayi had everything. Again, editing goof up. That scene had some dialogues which would have made that even more effective.
In today's scene, like many other nowadays, they are showing as if Ishita is the only one who knows what is right and appropriate, rest all are fools! The way she lectures everyone, especially him, that is condescending!! Raman may not be good at everything but let him handle things where he can!!
As for Adi realizing the truth is that again the CVs are showing Adi suddenly finding out the good side of Ishita, and it'll be Ishita again who bridges the gap between a father and a child. Why cant it be the other way round??? Adi has seen how much Raman pines for him, cares for him, must have felt all his love when he had lived him in the starting 6 years of his life. Its way more natural if he starts understanding his father first! But here again the focus will be on how Ishita reforms him!
As i quoted earlier, Raman was not wrong. Ishita accepts that but everything has a proper time. After seeing so much, that was not the right time for that kid to understand stuff. Ishita meant that. Raman didn't do that to prove a point to Adi. It just happened. And that's how fathers are... Being a mother, Ishita can see something more. Mother's instinct is like that. This is not about being right or wrong. This is the reason why Adi needs Ishita more than Raman.
Also, Raman has committed a mistake by giving up on Adi. Yes, his son didn't want him but Raman didn't have the same determination with which he fought for Ruhi. His personal life, his divorce impacted Adi the most. Adi is not able to reconcile with him. Ishita, for Adi is a outsider who has been insulted by him time and again. But, she didn't do anything bad to him. Adi can easily connect with her...as a mother. And in a soap, if the major track stays untouched, that is more than enough. According to me, essence of their mohabbatein, RKB's gussa, Vampire Shagun...everything is there. So, cv's are still at it...
Oh we want Ishita to commit mistakes! And she has made some very grave ones, but does she ever realize that??? A real person errs, realizes it, makes amends for it, and tries not to repeat it in the future. But when have u seen Ishita realizing what she did was wrong?? The only fault she has ever had is Over-goodness??? Her benevolence?? I'm sorry but that is nowhere even a bit close to how real people are!! Raman is as close to real as possible, Ishita is not! Raman has had a character growth becoz he realizes his mistakes! Ishita is still stuck on making the same mistakes again and again!! Thats a pretty smug attitude I think. She has from the start been like this- what I do is absolutely right. There are many examples of that.
Well the way everyone glorifies every act of Ishita's...oh she's so nice, she's the best..it seems not just Raman but everyone has become a bhakt of Ishita
I'm sorry it seems like I'm against Ishita or dont like her, I do, really, its just that the past few weeks the CVs have extolled each and every move of Ishita's while ignoring other characters, especially Raman.
If i'm right, this track will answer some of your questions. Ishita has committed some serious mistakes like Raman. Raman has come out clean but now, its Ishita's turn. Shagun is flying... Ishita's goodness is digging a grave. No one can save her this time... It should be Ishita who should raise and save her life...She must do that...
No one is Ishita's bhakt. People become upset with her when he acts mahaan but that's not some quality that can be used to reprimand someone. So, they are praising her. Whatever be it, she's good and they are accepting it and even afraid of the same. This time, her life is at stake... She'll pay for her mistakes. Even, i'm not a big fan of mahaanta. cv's have brought this before confession because its important than confession.
@bold : Absolutely agree on that. He is the best! And there have been very variations in his character too but some of his acts are beyond our understanding of his character. Raman is a complex man with many layers and we have liked what all we have seen of him till now but, nowadays not so much. It doesnt feel like Raman anymore! The RKB we love, the RKB Ishita loves too.
He's the same man... We react differently in different situations. Though he's not showing everything, his inner turmoil is quite complex. His brother's life got spoilt in a minute... His ex-wife is back under the same roof where he wanted to lead a happy life with his innocent wife. He knows what Shagun is capable of and Ishita's goodness... To add to these complications, his son Adi is also there. All these days, Ashok has been playing this game... Raman didn't have any role. Finally, he's into it because his life depends on this game's outcome. RKB is going to enter the field with Mihir... We won't be subjected to mere torture of Shagun's bechari drama here. Yesterday, Raman hinted on the same. In the past few episodes, RKB was out of action but now, its time...with daaru and gussa, RKB is coming back... We are going to have one rocking scene between Mihir and RKB. cv's will start it there.