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Posted: 23 December 2014 at 12:02pm | IP Logged
Check yes juliet is really sounding fishy to me...
Noors PM karna kal ..mai reply kar dungi

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Posted: 23 December 2014 at 12:03pm | IP Logged
@CYJ: If you're a troll, we missed you. And if you're not, this is the way we roll, okay? LOL

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Posted: 23 December 2014 at 12:05pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by 13thwish


@Bold: What???ShockedShockedShocked

No, it's the other way around isn't it? He thinks he is not good for her.. which is why he agrees to let her walk away in the first place..
She said, "They only give each other pain".. and he has internalized this.. believes it because SHE said it..
For himself he KNOWS this is not true.. he knows she is his solace.. his home.. his peace.. his calm..
But he also heard her say that with him around, "Her tears just won't stop".. if that is her reality, then how can he insist on making her stay..
He is angry with her because she still has the power to effects him.. his lashing out is his defense against the pull she constantly exerts on him.. he is fighting to keep the promise he made to himself.. that he wouldn't follow her.. he doesn't understand her is true.. but he is not throwing a tantrum just to get his way..or as an attention seeking tactic..he is simply trying to hide his own vulnerability behind his rage.. because he is lost and afraid and confused and hurt..
Definitely NOT the same category as his feelings for Nyonika at all whom he doesn't TRUST at all.. in thought, word or deed.. Nandu in fact, he trusts implicitly, which is why he is even respecting her word and trying to keep his distance.. because he thinks that's what she wants..




This and everything. 13th , blows kisses  at you.Embarrassed

Manik has always suffered this inferiority complex when it comes to Nandini. He always questioned why she doesn't smile when he tells her and he has always seen her cry around him. it was goading him all the time, isn't that why he thought Dhruv might be a good choice for her afterall. Now when she told him that she cannot cry anymore and the hurt, he didn't confront or protest, because to him she just validated his fears. 

Ah chuck it 13th nailed it. LOL


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Posted: 23 December 2014 at 12:07pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by charminggenie

@Maisu - What shall I ask? Never do that to a fangirl, k. You write kuch bhi, i blush, read and some more. That is how I behave with your words. But i want to ask something about Nandini from you, how has she changed from the girl she was around Ams to now.


I feel like I'm on a hotseat or something LOL

Hmmm.

I'll just take today's episode as a reference point because I think that's where I see the marked progressed/change. It's a done deal that the Nandini in Mangalore has changed a heck lot in Mumbai. For one thing, she doesn't have that sweet fantastical dreams in her anymore. This Nandini is more...mature I wouldn't say because maturity was always her trait but rather more in touch with the reality of the world. The thing which clicked me the moment I read your post was Nandini cutely asking Ams not to cry as salt isn't good for her and Nandini fiercely holding Manik's hurt hand. I started having these visions of Nandini reminding Ams to take her medicine on time and being the perfect little granddaughter for her, the one who's endearingly dotted upon and the one who in turns cares with all responsibility. Because caring for others is Nandini's nature. Hence her losing her sleep worrying about Manik. The difference here is that while before with Ams she cared for someone who appreciated her care and reciprocated with kind, here she's learned that not all will do that. Some would ridicule you for that care, some would ignore it altogether, and some will ignore everything you say just to prove that they can. So now she has to have a firm hand above everything else.

Nandini is fiercely proud of her caring nature, she deems her innocence as her biggest weapon and she'll always, always, protect that. Nowadays these qualities of hers are being stepped on. So she mixes another quality of hers to it - her fighting nature. Around Ams or even at home, she needn't do that. Because her care and concern is always noticed and acted upon. But when she's specifically around Manik or Fab5, she has to fight to prove her point. She now has to coat her care carefully with a protective layer so that it wouldn't get tarnished upon. And she does it by using reverse tactics of hurting first and then soothing next. She uses all her wisdom about human nature and she puts it to good use. There's no natural flow of care and love with her when she's in SPACE anymore. There's the shrewdness of some human nature politics involved as well..


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Posted: 23 December 2014 at 12:08pm | IP Logged
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hmmm Suha? Bushy?

you got to be one of them!

What.  Ab yeh kaun hai
New log join ni kar sakte kya Ermm


Kar sakte kya but daal mein kuch kaal hain...ok Zoha is being added to the list as well!
Guts feeling behen! and this time i am getting really huge vibesLOL
Most of the time my guts feelings are bang on

Now i sound like a crazy PsychicLOL

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Posted: 23 December 2014 at 12:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by zohasad2.0

y the hell are u all ragging a newbie? uski leh kyun rahe ho LOL


merimarzi Cool

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Posted: 23 December 2014 at 12:09pm | IP Logged
Originally posted by Medha.S

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Medhz*hugs*

You be knowing everything yo write about Bira coz he simply touches our hearts, doesn't he?

He plays the game well...he keeps hiding it, this veil he carries with him moat of the time.I can't imagine all that he must go through to see his love story being repeated.

I would have called RagBir a failure till yesterday but today I see it as a success in itself...coz it has taught my Bira so much.He doesn't want to see a sequeal of it coz he is all light laughs and lauuu!!!

I hope he will actually deal with Raghav and this relationship when he starts feeling something for someone else! The struggle of letting go and feeling that you are doing something wrong by having feelings for someone else! *sigh*

But obviously, Nandini is the only one he can talk to about him -- She without any hesitation, came forward and acknowledged not just the relationship but also its end and the hurt that came with it. He feels comfortable opening up to her to let his own feelings out while letting her know that he know that she can relate with his story! So much is unspoken but understood nonetheless here!
This is a relationship especial in it's basis of honesty and truthfulness - Hidden meanings here and there with blunt opinions!

He hides it - But Baba sees him doing it too. That is why my ManBir be such loves. Manik might not want to even think about R and what he brought with him and took with him! But he knows that Bira hurts, hurts deep and hides it quite nicely just like Baba does it.

R definitely served his purpose I agree! But the frustration you must feel when you see two people in love not even accepting it, to themselves or to the other and bumping into each other everyday when you have accepted so openly that you are in love and you know that the person you love feels the same and still you can't even see them, let alone just bump into them or talk to them and say how much you love them!

He needs to confront his feelings about Raghav once he starts falling for someone else.  The major reason is that though Bira doesn't show it so many times...he does go through this hurt of my lover leaving me even though we both loved each other. Absurd feeling, isn't it...not getting what you know was yours...or maybe it just wasn't yours.

ManBir are special ^.^ Main reason being them neither expressing it all nor lieing about all of it. They know and the other one knows that out of all the people, he knows. This feeling keeps them going and smiling, Keeps them satisfied that there is one person they can message if they want to "I need you bro :(" w/o any hesitation whatsoever.

Nandu needs to know it from a man who has suffered a similar loss coz she can't deal with all of it herself. Maybe the whole RagBir break up's off shoot is MaNan's realization. 

R was this guide in Bira's life...he did leave him alone but with so much to keep with himself forever---wisdom and memories.

@red I am sure it kills one.

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