Diya Aur Baati Hum


Diya Aur Baati Hum
Diya Aur Baati Hum

Open Letter to Suraj

KeerthiV Senior Member

Joined: 12 March 2012
Posts: 276

Posted: 23 December 2014 at 3:19am | IP Logged
Khamma Ghani Suraj Sa,

Hope you doing well and enjoying the self imposed separation from your beloved wife. I am sure you must be wondering who this crazy woman is, writing to me. Let me take this opportunity to introduce myself ; I am a simple, Indian working woman.

When the "hijack" track was introduced, I kind of looked forward to it thinking that it would be an awesome test of your wife's character. You see I was under the impression that this show was about woman empowerment and such, but of course this track wasn't introduced to test Sandhya's mettle as a cop. It was introduced to test where your wife's moral loyalties lay, whether or not she can endanger an entire nation to save three members of her family. What an excellent, excellent situation for any woman to be in. For this I applaud the creative of this showClapClapClap

When Babasa was going hammer and tongs at your wife for choosing her duty over her family, I wondered how unhappy you would have been had you witnessed it and maybe even have supported her. But I was obviously wrong, you would have probably joined in with your Father in damning your wife. I just want to ask you a simple question; at what point or juncture did you think that being a cop was as easy as making mithai? Not taking anything away from the hard work you put in, but I assumed that being a cop was not something just anyone can do. It requires a certain amount of diligence, discipline, perseverance and sacrifice , all of which your wife has. By questioning her loyalty towards her family, you made all her sacrifices and devotion look trivial and worthless. Suraj sa, if every cop, soldier became selfish then our country would have gone under a long time back and the freedom that we enjoy today would have been nothing but a dream! If your wife had let go of Rajkumar then would have been a matter of time before he came back and blew your entire family along with your entire village to kingdom come. But your wife did not let that happen because she had the foresight to know that. Let me also take this opportunity to remind you that it is because of her and her alone that you and your family are alive in the first place. If she hadn't defeated Rajkumar the first time you all would have been history. And yet you doubt her! Ouch

Honestly, I feel the real reason you have thrown out your wife is because you in your heart know that it is because of YOU that your mother is in this state. Had you listened to your wife's advice and stayed put in the flight, your mother wouldn't have followed you out and got shot. Do you have the guts to admit that had you not been trying to become a hero, your mother would have been safe? Obviously not, because it is easier to place the blame at your wife's doorstep than yours.

If I was in your place, I would wake up, smell the coffee and bring Sandhya back because without her your house in going to turn into a "rann bhoomi" thanks your other SIL's. Think over, mull over it, sleep over it and realize that you actually don't really deserve Sandhya! Bring back ASP Sandhya Rathi because without her, you and your family are incomplete.


An Indian Woman

P.S. Dear Sandhya, don't you dare go back to Suraj crying and weeping. You deserve better. Go back only when he takes you back with full honor and dignity.

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Sonali_11 IF-Dazzler

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Posted: 23 December 2014 at 4:26am | IP Logged
Very good post ..Agreed with each and every word u said.

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*Dev.* IF-Stunnerz

Joined: 09 January 2012
Posts: 28405

Posted: 23 December 2014 at 5:19am | IP Logged
I as a boy cannot support Suraj as he has done wrong in abandoning Sandhya in midway where she needed his support. Yes, Suraj is one husband who is very nice human being, and any men would like to become a husband like him. But this move of Suraj towards Sandhya was very Inappropriate, Wrong. He has lost his dignity and respect which he earnt earlier. Blissful life of them has become painful. Sandhya don't deserve this kind of blame and pain nor Suraj look nice blaming Sandhya. Sandhya should give some time to Suraj for realization of his mistake. If he doesn't realise, so better Sandhya should Move on in Life and should not forgive and stop crying. This will be good punishment for Suraj.


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shruthiravi IF-Sizzlerz

Joined: 15 March 2013
Posts: 20158

Posted: 23 December 2014 at 5:19am | IP Logged
Completely agree with you Keerthi. I am also a working woman and just because you work it doesn't mean that you have to be a door mat to your family.
Your self respect is important and if the family is unwilling to give you that don't even think of going back.
Don't go back for anyone in that house unless the person who threw you out comes himself and takes you in with full respect and honour.

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Incense IF-Sizzlerz

Joined: 08 October 2010
Posts: 14997

Posted: 23 December 2014 at 9:24am | IP Logged
StarCool post

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thala IF-Addictz

Joined: 12 February 2012
Posts: 55873

Posted: 23 December 2014 at 9:59am | IP Logged
omg how did i miss this post
you've nailed it
every word is true

Thumbs Up

i too dont want sandy to crying and beg suraj
she has done nothing wrong to plead
i hope she finds out his illness soon and help him come out of the PTSD
for that she needs to be beside him
dont know how cvs are going to take this story forward
but intersting track

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nep3 IF-Sizzlerz

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Posted: 23 December 2014 at 10:18am | IP Logged
nice post
agree with you !!

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RajeshriS Goldie

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Posted: 23 December 2014 at 11:01am | IP Logged
Nice post. Smile

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